Self denial develops character. Monogamy develops intimacy. If you wait until marriage you will be a better person and will be more close to your husband. It will make your marriage stronger.
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Dchrls78104Master
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The two are mutually exclusive. Saving yourself for marriage saves you from many dreadful diseases, the complications of unplanned pregnancies, and a lifetime of unnecessary drama and regret. Remember that sex is never free and that when it comes to sex, "having fun" always has a sting in the tail. Far better to give your virginity to the man you love after he has become your husband.
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dudeinohioMaster
+1 y
Nope.. you have to "try it before you buy it" If you wait until marriage, you could find the sex is bad.
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Trooper205Yoda
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I personally think waiting for Marriage would be best. That way, you wouldn't have to worry about possibly spreading or getting any harmful diseases from or to others...
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TwoToTooTutu2Yoda
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I would. Never heard anyone say they were glad they didn't wait, but plenty who said they wished that they waited
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ClearSeaXper 5
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I don't know anymore 😭
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ShamalienGuru
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Yes, you really, really should, especially if you are a woman, but ideally also men.
There are lots of reasons why, but in short, you want the bond to be strong, and the strongest bond is formed between virgins experiencing it for the first time together. If not virgins, than those who have at least not had much sex with many people, or have been celibate for some time. We could get all philosophical, but essentially, only a fool pursues pleasure, especially at the expense of ideals.
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navyPXper 7
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No never You wouldn't buy a car without test driving it first would you
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RLovesD7792foreverXper 3
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oh goodie and when you catch a nice round of std's please feel free to come back on here and tell us all about the wonderful adventures you had catching it
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TwalliMaster
+1 y
I don't believe you should save yourself for marriage. I do think you should hold off at least 3 months before sex though. 6 months if either partner is a, virgin.
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Cowboy6666Master
+1 y
Your life your choice babe
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CuriousMufuxkaGuru
+1 y
No! Who really waited (and honestly said they did) before getting married? I think no one before colonial times. Hell they probably had sneakoffs before the actual bond and sanctity that marriage actually represented.
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Anon481Xper 4
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Completely your choice
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mrcoolhkXper 4
+1 y
That's Absolutely personal opinion
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FrenchyRomainGuru
+1 y
don't wait for marriage
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najekimGuru
+1 y
Abstinence is based on religious dogma. Sex is a natural occurrence and should be explored. Not only will you find out what you enjoy but you'll find out if you and your future mate (for the lack of a better word) are compatible both vertically and horizontally.
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DBmusic3Yoda
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not at all
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Silence00Xper 5
+1 y
It depends on your innocent lovers religious beliefs.
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Cryptic-GameGuru
+1 y
Yes. You will receive the greatest spiritual benefits when having sex within marriage only.
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19 31Self denial develops character. Monogamy develops intimacy. If you wait until marriage you will be a better person and will be more close to your husband. It will make your marriage stronger.
The two are mutually exclusive. Saving yourself for marriage saves you from many dreadful diseases, the complications of unplanned pregnancies, and a lifetime of unnecessary drama and regret. Remember that sex is never free and that when it comes to sex, "having fun" always has a sting in the tail. Far better to give your virginity to the man you love after he has become your husband.
Nope.. you have to "try it before you buy it" If you wait until marriage, you could find the sex is bad.
I personally think waiting for Marriage would be best. That way, you wouldn't have to worry about possibly spreading or getting any harmful diseases from or to others...
I would. Never heard anyone say they were glad they didn't wait, but plenty who said they wished that they waited
I don't know anymore 😭
Yes, you really, really should, especially if you are a woman, but ideally also men.
There are lots of reasons why, but in short, you want the bond to be strong, and the strongest bond is formed between virgins experiencing it for the first time together. If not virgins, than those who have at least not had much sex with many people, or have been celibate for some time. We could get all philosophical, but essentially, only a fool pursues pleasure, especially at the expense of ideals.
No never
You wouldn't buy a car without test driving it first would you
oh goodie and when you catch a nice round of std's please feel free to come back on here and tell us all about the wonderful adventures you had catching it
I don't believe you should save yourself for marriage. I do think you should hold off at least 3 months before sex though. 6 months if either partner is a, virgin.
Your life your choice babe
No! Who really waited (and honestly said they did) before getting married? I think no one before colonial times. Hell they probably had sneakoffs before the actual bond and sanctity that marriage actually represented.
Completely your choice
That's Absolutely personal opinion
don't wait for marriage
Abstinence is based on religious dogma. Sex is a natural occurrence and should be explored. Not only will you find out what you enjoy but you'll find out if you and your future mate (for the lack of a better word) are compatible both vertically and horizontally.
not at all
It depends on your innocent lovers religious beliefs.
Yes. You will receive the greatest spiritual benefits when having sex within marriage only.
It is a question always