Shouldn't A Booty Call/FWB Leave After Sex?

We have sex EVERY TIME we see each other. I only see him at night. I assume that I’m a Friend With Benefits Or a Booty Call so After sex I cuddle him until he falls to sleep then I get up and Leave. He has told me that I 'didn’t have to leave', Then- that he 'didn’t want me to leave' But I thought he was just saying that to be polite. Last night he said that he Hated that I did that. I’m Confused. I thought that was how things were supposed to go. What is going on here? Why would he hate that?
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  • It's not my place to jump to conclusions about whether or not he likes you, but it appears that he is taking your sleeking off in the middle of the night as somewhat of an insult. To him, your leaving indicates that you see no value in him other than sex. There is quite the large grey area when it comes to booty calls and fwb's. There is no right and wrong way of doing things, but if he wants you to stick around, you'll have to figure out if that's something you would be willing to do. Another option would be leaving right after sex, before he falls asleep. That was he can at least say goodbye. The booty calls I've had would get offended if they got the impression that I just used them for sex. It might seem counter-intuitive, but even if both parties are happy with "just sex", it still hurts to be told that's all you would ever be good for.

  • Obviously he likes you as more then friends... I am the same way except I haven't really stuck around to cuddle or watch a flick, I usually take a shower and leave... I mean sometimes with FTW someone always gets attached and ruins it, which in this case it's him.

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  • yea he likes you for more than jjust sex

  • Its depends... me and my friends with benefits are also friends and like we'll fool around and then watch a movie together and act like nothing hap... lol

  • he likes yu :)