Signs he masturbating on phone with me?

We have been dating for three weeks (distant relationship) and when we are talking on phone before we sleep.. he asks me "keep to talking to me, say anything, I love your voice" then I think his breathe changes and not very normal. I am not sure if he is masturbating or he is just tired after work and he is moaning.
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We have been dating for three weeks (distant relationship) and when we are talking on phone before we sleep.. he asks me "keep to talking to me, say anything, I love your voice" then I think his breathe changes and not very normal. I am not sure if he is masturbating or he is just tired after work and he is moaning. so is there signs i can tell from that he is masturbating? in general
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  • I think he is. Try avoiding talking to him at/just before bed time. Instead choose the time you think when he is really exhausted after work. Keep asking him about his family (like sisters and parents) (don't think it's bad) during the conversations every now and then. If you don't observe the same signs on doing so (for a week or two), it'd be a confirmation he was using you to get off. But yeah, I'll want you two to still be together (even if it's confirmed). Everyone builds sexual tension and needs to relieve. Try to be open about it and it'll make things normal. Hope it helps. Have a good time ☺️

    • Moaning; not taking too much or letting only you talk; changing the topics quite frequently if the current topic isn't about intimacy; ending the conversation all of a sudden just after heavy breathing; taking like a priest if not ending the conversation after abnormal breathing and much more. You'd observe these signs quite frequently if you believe he is doing so.

    • Heavy voice or something like 'arousing deep voice' (in order to arouse you too) might be observed mid-conversation

    • As @shawnO96 said, you may try talking in deep arousing voice (if you feel comfortable) and get along or make it look like you're getting along might help as he'll be aroused more and those sign could be observed easily

  • Loool guys a legend

    All jokes aside distance makes a man crazy it's not easy

Most Helpful Girls

  • Oh I only wish - my guy is deployed for 9 months & I’d give anything to hear that voice every night. But his pictures do it for me 😛

  • If he's your boyfriend, just ask him. Couples are supposed to be able to talk to each other about things.

  • Once I faced the same situation, so I had to ask him openly, was he masturbating? He confessed.

    • Thanks for selecting me one of the MHGs.

  • Shifting the phone around a lot or the moaning is a big hint he his but usually you'll hear it

    • sometimes in the background i hear something sounds like "tuk tuk tuk.." happened in two calls till now

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  • If he's moaning constantly and not only once when laying down, it can't be from work honey.

    • To your update: Yeah that change in breathing, how you describe it, sounds like he's fapping.

  • Yes there's chance hard to say.

  • The moaning and shortness of breath I get after a long day of work is nothing like the morning and shortness of breath I get from sexual pleasure.

  • Yep, he's yanky it.

    Is that a deal breaker, are you offended by it

  • Hahahahaha.
    He masturbates to your voice?
    Jesus Christ, the guy is a champion.

  • Could be... or could be not... you can't know for sure

  • Lmao he’s jerking to your voice

  • Sounds like he is

  • I don't know, hard to tell. Do you hear the sound of him stroking in the background and is this a problem to you?

    • something important to know... at least i shud know how to deal with it

    • Are you guys talking dirty at all? Just ask him.

    • we never talked dirty still... this is only our third week dating

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  • Sounds like he's having a cheeky wank aha. bring it up with him

    • heheh hmmm u think so? :D

    • Yeah just talk dirty for abit one time in a hot voice and itl be obvious by his reaction if he is

  • It's quite difficult to say... but he might

  • Yes is

  • Its a definite possibility. Is this something you like or dislike?

  • Asking to keep talking for that your voice is not weird, but the breating change depends on if it becomes a little more choppy and uneven or relaxed. He probably is masturbating.