Single and Horny, And I Need HELP

Single and Horny, And I Need HELP

The longer you are single, the more you realize what an issue sexual frustration is.

With it on face value easy to fix, but the reality far more complicated

These are the following options to deal with it:


1. Abstinence

The basis of this is merely waiting for your next relationship and dealing with your 'itch'. It can work well for people with low sex drives or others who have never been in a relationship with a vibrant sex life.

For those who have, it represents death through a thousand cuts.


2. Masturbation

Always available and offers relief as well as being fun.

But, the more you 'play', the less the relief felt. With it igniting the yearn in you to use two hands in the company of a lover.

In the end, equal frustration alongside the fun and relief.


3. Casual Sex/ One Night Stands

Single and Horny, And I Need HELP

A method that has its merits as well as flaws.

From a male point of view, it is often not easy to just go out, find a woman and get laid. Even when it is, and you do find a willing woman you never know what you will get. The sex could be amazing, downright dreadful and anything in between.

Dealing with the morning after is also often a cocktail of complication.

It is easier for a woman to go out and get laid but she has to deal with the stigma that gets attached such as slut-shaming as well as the worry of safety. The aside is the casual sex might please the woman but also leave her feeling regret over the meaningless nature of the sex.

4. Friends With Benefits

Single and Horny, And I Need HELP

A great option on face value with you coming to an agreement with a friend to have casual sex to help both of you out. The idea is brilliant for the real feeling you already have for each other means there will always be care and a desire to please within the sex.

Herein lies the irony.

For within the desire to please the lines of the agreement become skewed. With one often catching feelings while the other loves the joy within the casual. Even if you go into it by being openly honest with each other about what you want and do not want it more often than not ends in tears.

5. Go to a Prostitute


It is a real option for it allows you relief with no questions asked and no chance of a legacy.

I went once with this appeal in mind but the experience as I penned in the below Take left me feeling almost abused.

https://www.girlsaskguys.com/sexual-behavior/a25519-my-night-with-a-prostitute

From a female point of view, a laughable option.

#HELP!

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  • Dirty old men smh

    • correct

    • yuck.

  • Sexual frustration ONLY affects men / adolescent boys. The vast majority women do not crave sex , both biology ( testosterone levels & brain wiring ) , plus in especially Anglo " cultures " , women are socially conditioned to view sex as wrong & disgusting. Most women are more than happy to abstain from sex for their entire lives , why are most marriages sexless?

    What would be ideal is a sex drive killer for men , that has no adverse side effects & would not reduce the male drive to achieve & get things done , however this would be quite an undertaking. This would even the playing field for men , most women would be happy too... no more " thirsty , pervy , rapey " men , the only losers would be the female users & the porn industry.

    • U dont knkw women then

  • OPTION 1 - Become a slave to women and feminist society. Harm yourself.
    OPTION 2 - Fuck it and go MGTOW.

  • Friends with benefits works amazing. I 100% don't suggest prostitute. I mostly suggest friends with benefits and/or masturbation.

    • friends with benefits always gets messy

    • not if you deal with it in a mature manner.

    • i always do, but it has always ended messy

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