SITTING ON HIS FACE TOO FORWARD?

Being a little dominant by nature, is it too forward to climb on top of my man and straddle his face? I would always make sure I suck him well and don't feel comfortable telling him when I want it in return. Is it too forwards to simply sit on his face?
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  • "I'm worried it's too forward to..."
    "I don't feel comfortable telling him what I want"
    "i'm dominant by nature"

    ^^ EXERCISE:
    Which of these statements does not fit with the others?

    ... Lol

    __

    In all seriousness tho... 3 things

    1)
    You're hardly talking about some incredibly kinky thing, here. This is basically just normal oral sex, with BETTER positioning.
    Better for both of you, actually. I doubt I have to explain why it's better for you... but it's also better for the boy, because the usual "breakfast-in-bed" position (where you just lie back and spread 'em) plays hell with the boy's neck after a couple minutes.
    When you ride face, the boy can just get into position the way that works best for you and for him. (In my experience, it works best to have a pillow behind his *neck* but NOT his head -- so that his head is tilted slightly back, so you have a better angle to smash yr clit against his chin.)

    2)
    If the boy is not clean shaven, this is... not going to feel good, especially if you go at it hard or for more than a short time.
    ideally, learn to give the boy a nice barbershop-style hot shave first as a treat... as I described here (girl's mho)
    www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q2039500-are-you-an-aggressive-face-rider-or-not

    3)
    Gawd I'm so sick of people talking as though sexual positions/acts can be INHERENTLY "dominant" or "submissive".
    ... Nope.
    It's NOT necessarily "dominant" to be up there riding on the boy's face.
    I mean... First of all, trying to label everything as "dom"/"sub" mostly just takes the FUN out of it, anyway. You shd just do what feels good, and quit trying to stick labels on it.
    ... And even if you DO enjoy the labels, it's still very possible for the boy to be the "dominant" one, in this situation. (My man will give me 15 or 30 seconds to start having big wet orgasms all over his face -- with hell to pay if I don't meet the "deadline". That's hardly an example of him being "submissive".)

    In any case -- as I mentioned above, you're hardly talking about anything outré or crazy, here. This is a perfectly normal sex act -- and, in my experience at least, one to which men are VERY likely to become pretty much addicted, in short order. (Not to mention the single best way to get some serious rapid-fire orgasms.). There's NO reason not to try it, and every reason to go right ahead.

  • Nope, lay him down and start the 69. If he complains tell him that it's okay. Stop sucking and turn around, once you've laid off giving him oral for a while he will either take the hint and become proactive, or he will ask, "Hey baby would you mind?" or "Why haven't you?" and the answer is simply, "Every relationship is give and take, I feel as though I am the only one giving, and as you know I am too shy to ask. Hoping this helps you find initiative to please me with out asking, the way I please you without you having to ask me." It worked for me! He snacks/has a meal! once a week anyhow, sometimes more:-)

  • maybe ask him if he likes that before you get into it but he probably does tbh 😂

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  • I don't know if I am the only one lije that but I feel like I could never get upset at my partner trying something. I mean, since we're having sex, we've agreed to play together and since there is no script, I expect my partner to do stuff I didn't expect. It's part of the game isn't it? Unless it is something very extreme where any normal human being would ask for permission, I think each partner should give some leeway to the other or else, they're going to end up signing a contract before each encounter. Onrof the best things about sex is discovery. If it's all choreographed in advance, it gets boring.

    If I really don't like it, then I will tell her and find a way to satisfy her in a way that is less uncomfortable. If I can tolerate it, then I will do it to please her. If I like it, I'll probably be the one instigating it next time.

    If I was your partner, I would actually prefer you just do it and don't ask about it. I gave you permission to do stuff to me when we started having sex.

  • What is the context? In the middle of dinner it would be a bit foreword. LOL. If he regularly performs oral sex on you then I doubt he would have any problem with you sitting on his face. If you two are fairly new lovers then maybe you should lay on your back and ask him to kiss your abdomen. Then push his head down further. Women all have their own unique scent and taste. It can take a little time to get used to it. Not that it is a bad thing. Like many fine foods and beverages, it is an acquired taste. Sitting on his face could be a little overwhelming for him if he is not used to your unique chemistry yet. But if he is really into dominant women, I think he would be ok with it.

    • We are far from new. And i want to do it when he's laying in bed.

    • by the way, once you get accustomed to it, nothing else in the world tastes as good as pussy.

    • @Asker In that case I'd say go for it!!!

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  • Yes. At least talk to him outside of the actual sex about if that would be comfortable for him. Tell him you want to do it spontaneously during sex and ask him if he is comfortable with that. If not, see if you can build up to that.

  • Not at all I try to get my wife to do this all the time.

  • i would just love it

  • I've had my chick ride my face before lol. Then I flip her over and throat fuck her right after. Who the fuck cares about "Dom" and "sub" lmao. Just go for it.

  • no... do it!

    • Thanks. Apparently not every guy agrees.

  • Yup. You should give him a "heads up"before you do something like that.

    • Really? I'll consider it.

  • Oh no take what you want Ide dig it Amazon has bed restraints for cheap my girl loves to force it in my face

  • Best position for him

    • And what makes u so sure that you would know what's best for him?

    • Experience. Confirmed by various studies available in the net.

  • i would love it if a girl sat on my face

  • It can be pretty hot and fun. Just do it as they say or another fun way is to push his face there first say if he is at your breasts and then roll on him and order him to get to work

  • I can't see a problem with that...

  • Not at all get up there and rub his face in it... literally. I can't see any reason why he would dislike that

  • Every straight man I've ever known loves it so just go for it, I'm gay and love having my man straddle my face, that tight little hole right there for me to lick and his big fat cock in my mouth as he socks on mine, yum!

  • I don't think its to forward besides I think most guys would love that. My girlfriend sits on my face all the time so she can have a incredible orgasm.

  • no at all, if ur giving him head he should be more than happy to have u sit on his face

  • .. sounds great. . go for it.. do you think you could slowly move your hips so that you are rubbing your clit against his mouth?

  • Mmm def not

  • Yeah. That's gross. Why would anyone want someone's naked ass on their face?

  • Sounds perfect

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