Size does matter...to an extent!

[alohaahyes]

This is my first MyTake so feel free to praise or criticize me😂. This MyTake explains what would work for me, maybe some other women, and maybe even help out some guys. Remember, this is MY opinion.

It's what's on the inside that matters most.
A guy's dick size doesn't change who he is on the inside. A guy could be my type personality-wise but if he has a very small/big penis I wouldn't leave him because I'll probably never find someone whose my type personality-wise AND has the perfect penis for me. It would be nice for him to have an average dick at least because I want to be able to feel him inside but i also don't want to be in pain.

Communication is key.
There is such thing as too small and too big but all he has to do is figure out what would work best for both him and his partner. You can ask, experiment, suggest, etc. If your sex life gets boring or whatever then communicate that to your partner. Easy peasy.

Dick size isn't everything.
Having a small penis doesn't make you any less of a man and having a big one doesn't make you any more of a man. If you have a dick, you're a man. You know what makes a man less of a man, is if he ISN'T willing to learn how to make his partner orgasm. Most women don't orgasm from penetration alone regardless of dick size. For most women, clit stimulation is the best way to make her cum.

Sex isn't everything in a relationship.
This is probably why I don't care about size that much tbh. I'm not dating the dick, I'm dating the man it's attached to. All I care about in a relationship is our chemistry, loyalty, and communication.

In conclusion, size matters but you just need to find someone who will love and accept you. As long as you can make your partner cum or you're at least willing to learn how then it shouldn't matter. Communication is key(super duper important). If someone rejects you because of your size then they obviously weren't the right person for you. Move on to the next person.

[TripleAce]

"Having a small penis doesn't make you any less of a man and having a big one doesn't make you any more of a man"
well obvious it does because you then went on to say --> "In conclusion, size matters"

You keep doing this lol... you say it doesn't matter but then you also say it matters..
But most important, you never actually tell us why it DOES matter...

lol... would be nice of you to explain why it does matter

[alohaahyes]

I'm good. I've done all the explaining I need to.

[TripleAce]

The explaining isn’t to satisfy you lol... I’d hope it’s to help others understand.. that’s kinda the point But I walked away from this not really understanding why you are saying size matters...

[alohaahyes]

There's such thing as too big/small. I want to feel him inside (too small) of me but I also don't want to be in pain (too big). Even if he's too small/big we could always make adjustments that will please us both.

[Sdavid]

okay what is too big or small for you?

[Passinggas]

So. size don't matter but then you post a picture of a V-cut groin guy. So relationship is more important, then why are all these tree swingers going for big and fn the poc guys that they truly hate? I respect your attempt to build more into “relationship” but that is not what is going on irl. Your own brain is in a quandary here struggling between instincts and feelings. They are set in opposition to mess us up. Good luck!

[alohaahyes]

Size does matter and I just used the first picture I saw. I don't know why these "tree swingers are going for big and fn the POC guys that they truly hate"(IDK what you're talking about but I don't really care). Like I said in my mytake this is what would work for ME. Relationship is more important to ME.

[Syrian_survivor]

Swingers only want sex, nothing more, they only focus on sex so a bigger size means better sex, objective reached 🤷

[alohaahyes]

My mytake is about how size shouldn't matter when starting a relationship. It has nothing to with swingers.

[Syrian_survivor]

@alohaahyes yeah I was answering him 😂

[alohaahyes]

@syrian_survivor sorry I thought you were him.

[Syrian_survivor]

@alohaahyes I feel offended 🤔

[alohaahyes]

I didn't read the name.

[Syrian_survivor]

@alohaahyes now I feel even more offended Stop hurting my feelings s'il vous plait

[alohaahyes]

Men are so sensitive smh

[Syrian_survivor]

I SAID STOP IT! 😭

[alohaahyes]

Stop being a sensitive bitch

[Syrian_survivor]

r/woosh? 🤔

[alohaahyes]

r/sensitivemen

[Passinggas]

@Syrian_survivor I said "tree swingers" not "swingers" as you thought. "tree swingers" are those women always looking to one up who they are currently with and grab a new branch before they let go of the one they have.

[Passinggas]

@alohaahyes So you don't care about the struggle between instincts and feelings. okie dokie

[alohaahyes]

I don't have a struggle between instincts and feelings.

[Passinggas]

@alohaahyes "I don't have a struggle between instincts and feelings."... "size matters but you just need to find someone who will love and accept you." instinct=size matters , love=feelings ... I thought that was the bottom line conclusion of your take. oh well...

[alohaahyes]

Feelings matter more than love.

[alohaahyes]

I implied it in my mytake.

[Syrian_survivor]

"Feelings matter more than love" W h a t

[alohaahyes]

I meant size. I was half sleep when I wrote that.

[haleysalvigione2]

Yeah it does but if I love someone and there penis is only like 6 7 inches

[alohaahyes]

Is this a question?

[haleysalvigione2]

It doesn’t matter cause the sex will be out of love

[alohaahyes]

I agree

[haleysalvigione2]

I’ve been with 9 10 inches it hurts and painful

[alohaahyes]

I bet it does. If it becomes unbearable make sure to tell him. Communication is key and be safe.

[haleysalvigione2]

No I’d wake up from partying hungover with a humongous dick in me that hurts and with no condom on it’s scary and pulling it out hurts

[haleysalvigione2]

I’m only 4”8 and 92 lbs I’m tiny

[alohaahyes]

Well, use a condom if you're scared.

[haleysalvigione2]

I’ve never felt sex cause it’s only happened at parties

[alohaahyes]

So you never felt anything while you were having sex? You only felt the aftermath of it (him pulling out)?

[alohaahyes]

Or during your hangovers?

[haleysalvigione2]

No I’d wake up with like my thong to the side and a dick in me I’d wake up cause it moved in me the guys are always passed out though

[haleysalvigione2]

I do it slowly so they don’t wake up

[alohaahyes]

That's different.

[haleysalvigione2]

I’m party gal but I don't know how it gets in me like I don’t remember shit tbh these guys are really hot to

[alohaahyes]

you should be more careful. You could get pregnant or even worse.

[haleysalvigione2]

Yeah I don't know what diseases these dudes have hot ones bang chhicks every day

[alohaahyes]

Yea. Stay safe, homie.

[haleysalvigione2]

Are u actually 18

[alohaahyes]

Yeahp

[Guitar97]

Lmao only like 6 or 7 says the 15 year old. Fml.

[jj123bhd]

9 inches penis will definitely hurt...6 is enough and more important is how you make out

[Sdavid]

and what is if he is smaller?

[neilsmart]

i enjoy the challenge of deepthroating a real guy that actually has the ability to reach the back of my throat

[kinkster1]

My 5.5 inch will be to big for you

[neilsmart]

@kinkster1 thats not long enough

[kinkster1]

@neilsmart look at my cover pic

[Sdavid]

so how much you want?

[lisaleib]

Very thoughtful piece! I agree 100%

[Maraneva]

Good take. Sensible people still present in this world, yay! And yep, something good to hear for us 'average-sized' guys lol

[LoU_Hades]

dick size matters.
with a "sufficient" dick you bring women nearly every time to orgasm after they gained some trust in you. If you give them finger or head from time to time, their climax balance looks better then yours.
Good and satisfying sex fills many gaps even in not so happy relationship.

[Sevenpointfive]

i guess in my case 2 dicks aren't better than 1...

[Stoner710]

Lol you choose this topic, You made good point good job. I’m wondering how long is to long when it comes to see

[maxambit]

While I dont disagree with your points there is the matter of a the girth not fitting and being painful and only entering at the exact right angle. (It can also be uncomfortable for the guy) it's kind of like pieces of a puzzle they have to fit correctly and forcing them doesn't seem to work no matter how much foreplay and lube are involved. Length isn't an issue as you can just shorten the stroke

[itstheimpossiblekid]

If y'all guys want the cheat sheet for sex listen to girls who recount great sexual encounters with small guys. You can tell they literally dont care because he "had magic ____"

If you can get them where they'd like to be without your penis then the penis is all gravy bb. Smaller guys: the path has already been laid out just go do some research. Average/bigger guys: have the mindset of a micro dick and learn as many different ways to get a girl off as you can. As stated before: communication is super key.

[poneglyphs]

Well, this doesn't raised my confidence up at all. Knowing that I'm small in almost all categories such as height, genitals, and lack of relationships.

[pauly-d]

Love all your points. You also sound very honest all the way through, which is awesome. I'm not very big but I've had some good relationships anyway.

[Anjli2392]

You are absolutely right

[vald9inches]

so what is your preference? and be honest!!

[vald9inches]

and what is too big for you personally? i am curious to know because i am 9.5" inches big

[alohaahyes]

I don't know my preference.

[alohaahyes]

And I don't know what is too big

[vald9inches]

What is the biggest cock you ever had?

[alohaahyes]

I'm a virgin

[vald9inches]

Oh well then what are you waiting for silly go out there and try all the sizes! Lol

[alohaahyes]

I'm saving myself for someone who's worthy. I don't want to go out and have sex with some random dude.

[vald9inches]

OK... but you might regret that decision and miss out on a lot of things life. I used to think the same way and I regretted doing that big time. Tbh its kind of like a starving person saying they are going to wait until they find the perfect food before they eat lol

[alohaahyes]

Oh well

[zero444440000]

my take? size matters but its not the only factor in a relationship "or the be all end all to a relationship" there are other check boxes that need to be ticked off as well.

[Poormanscomedian]

Very good job

[mikeylarcj]

Thanks for the support! 👍🏻from a guy with average size 😅

[ask4any]

Size does. In my fifty years of fucking, I can't tell you how many times a girl I just fucked for the first time keep bad mouthing their ex and his small dick. It does matter

[Daviid_]

"I'm not dating the dick I'm dating the man" is probably the one phrase that gives me hope for current society and women values recently.

[iFarted]

Sometimes a man is a dick, so women date dick. Sometimes they're big dicks sometimes they're a little dick.

[mike_the_man]

As far as I know, I've never had a problem size wise and as such, never received any complaints in that department., however, it is nice to read your take on this issue as just like you, I also believe everything you have just said about how it's what's inside that matters. (And not in any way relative to size!)
I won't deny that I do like sex, but if I cannot please my partner then I see no point in doing it!
The whole point of making love, in my opinion is for 2 consenting adults to show each other affection in a way that cannot be denied and if both parties are not satisfied, then something is not right!

[Jerre]

An excellent my take.