Size matters. Yep I said it?

[Msright]

Well I am not demanding anything huge by any means. I have been with quite a few men and I was even curious once and measured one guys. Well I can conclude that if you are a man that is say 6 inches and upward then you are pretty good. The bad news is that ones smaller than 6 inches I honestly think are a bit small and not only can they not stimulate as much but they are just not as arousing knowing their size. Now I have many female friends and for the most part all agree with this. I notice that us women will tell men that size doesn't matter. But I was always curious if men truly believe this. I see in hollywood movies they sometimes say those typical lines of (size doesn't matter) or (it's how you use it that counts). Now let me just say that there are some large penises that aren't actually good though. I have been for instance with one guy who was probably 9 inches or more. But he could never get properly hard. All he could manage was semi rigidness which wasn't that impressive. I also see a lot of women on here will try to mother the males on here and never tell them anything that will hurt them even if it's true. I don't get this. Men on here will tell us women they don't like this or that and etc yet you women seem to tell white lies to the men to make them feel better, while many of them are being rather insulting to women.

[FantasticPlanet]

A big dick is a big responsibility.

Guys with large ones have to learn how to use it, and unfortunately, there aren't a lot of resources for that type of education.

Mostly it's trial and error.

You can't ask your male friends if they are big, and if so, how do they have sex, because it weird, and if they're small you just made them insecure.

And you can't just ask any girl, she might not have the experience with hung men either.

So guys with big ones are kind of in a weird spot, we are blessed with a physical gift, but no one to tell you the necessary behaviors.
1) proper lubrication is a must, either her natural wetness or store bought. If it's not super slippery, she is going to be sore.

2) starting out slow. This doesn't JUST mean slow penetration, this means start with oral, then when she's going wild introduce a finger, then when she's going more wild go for 2 fingers, etc., until she is loosened up. Eventually you can start with the head, then an inch, then another etc.

3) a tight pussy is an unaroused pussy. When a girl is properly aroused, her vaginal tunnel opens up. This is good news for men of size, but it takes time.

4) the longer you have been "fornicating" with a hung man, the less time it will take him to loosen you up beforehand.

5) no longer dating or seeing your hung beau? Don't worry about staying loose, the vagina has amazing abilities, and will gladly accommodate any size. Just sayin. A lot of girls are misinformed and afraid of being permanently stretched out from big exbf's.
Don't sweat it.

Because of all of this, if a guy has a big dick, and knows how to please a woman before insertion, he will positively rock her world once inside of her.

But all those average guys are the ones pleasing the majority of women across the globe!

[Anonymous]

Well of course it matters in a way. There aren't many guys out there that NEED a woman with big boobs. But once we see them, you better believe our eyes are drooling and our dick is ready to break out of our jeans.

Same with a penis. As you said, 6 (or whatever a girl considers "average") is just fine and dandy... but of course a bigger one has that certain novelty and interest about it. I don't think this is the issue, so much as people either getting deeply upset over it (guys) or people having to give long, nonsensical explanations to not catch flak about it (girls).

TL;DR
Dur, it has it's perks. You can deny the simple facts of natural behavior and attraction, but you can't deny the reality of natural behavior and attraction lol

[Msright]

I am unsure what you mean about the last part. But I think you are basically saying that if a guy is really hot and has a 5 inch penis women will still want him than a guy who isn't as good looking and has a 7 inch penis. And yes you would be right about that. But an attractive man with a nice penis is the ultimate.

[Opinion Owner]

The last part is internet slang for a summary. But yeah, that's the main gist of what I meant above. It's not too unlike guys in that a guy won't just jump for a girl simply because she has a nice rack. But if he is attracted to her and she has nice boobs, then of course that's the part that will stand out to him in his mind. Same with guys, as you also mentioned in your comment just now. If you're not attracted to someone, then you're just not attracted to them. But if you are attracted AND they are well-endowed, then it's a no-brainer that it's the ultimate, as you put it lol But people have very fragile images of themselves and the world, so they would rather avoid or pollute this topic entirely rather than just realize it's simple nature.

[Anonymous]

i agree that size does matter to some extent, the minimum standard isn't that good but the maximum standard isn't everyone's preference, to each their own, everyone is different and i'm sure you already know that, however size doesn't strictly determine who's good, and unless its just sex with nothing else attached its not an absolute demand

now personally i would draw the line at 6, my friends would go for 6 to 9, but everyone i know is ok with at least 4, strictly for pleasure its not the best but there are other factors that you and a lot of guys and girls here already mentioned, being Asian is another factor but isn't strictly limited since we're mixed blood

also on your first paragraph - last statement, there are a number of reasons why, one of the main reasons is to make sure they don't commit suicide (this happens often with mid teen/young adult populations, 56% of deaths per year within this age group are from suicide for various reasons), also to help them build self esteem, i mean there are guys here with 6 to 9 and think that's inadequate (... wut?), mainly because the general public puts them down, some can't be helped because of current society though, that's a hard fact for them to have to accept

also note that there are guys in gag with depression issues, disorders like bipolar & PTSD, the last thing i want in my conscience is the guilt of having not helped someone from this and finding out that they commited suicide because of it, since i'm a pisces its natural for me to want to help people even when its hopeless

[BuchitaBuchys]

I am a brutally honest person, you can read my comments, I don't candy coat shit. But anyways, I think it's pretty bold to claim something that is true to you applies to everyone.

Size does matter I guess to me, but I'm on the opposite end. I like smaller actually. I had a big dick guy, did I enjoy it? No. We couldn't even do missionary, especially not doggystyle or other deep positions. And guys love to ram deep inside you with all their cock. Average penis guy. We could do missionary and most positions, but doggystyle or other deep positions were a bit too much for me. I'd be satisfied with 4 or 5 inches. But that's me. Some girls like bigger, when I say I like smaller I don't know why people act as if I'm not being sincere. I don't candy coat shit or spare people's feelings, unfortunately. I'd rather be honest and I hate when people give "coddling" type of advice. I get a lot of hate comments, blocks (I probably have more people block me here than anyone), and even hate messages all the time. Do I give a shit? No lol It's what happens when you give brutally honest opinions to people. Oh well.

To some women, truly size doesn't matter. Just cuz you don't agree with THEIR opinion, doesn't mean they're lying. Size matters to you that you prefer bigger. Size matters to me that I prefer smaller. Some like this, others like that. I can't tell you what's better for you, and you can't tell me what's better for me. That's just how it goes.

[Red_Dragon]

I don't ram mine. See you must have been with those guys who are into hardcore sex. Not all of us are like that.

[GoldCobra]

Is doggystyle really a deep position? I feel like that would have less because the cock can't go all the way in due to the girl's ass getting in the way?

[Red_Dragon]

@GoldCobra It's how hard guys do it. In that position many people turn on the "hardcore".

[BuchitaBuchys]

I know some guys at least once in a while like to just fill her completely with her cock. @Red_Dragon. But yea, the guys I been with like to. Not saying I don't, cuz I do too. I love to feel the ballsack slapping against my vagina. I'm weird lol @GoldCobra, it can be cuz guys get animalistic and just thrust like crazy. Or other deep positions like legs over the shoulder, or when the girl brings her legs to her ears, kinda like she's folding her body. And that is more deeper penetration as well.

[GoldCobra]

well yeah, the legs over the shoulder and legs to the ears are much deeper positions than doggystyle.

[J1nnishere]

clap clap clap

[Red_Dragon]

It's not weird to like the guy's ballsack to slap your vagina. I'm sure many chicks like that. Still like you mentioned to GoldCobra I imagine many guys are into this kind "animistic" type thing with doggie style. I'm not that way. I really can't be that way anyway most of the time. I'm not really into the rough sex stuff. Sure I'd want to fill a girl up, but if she can't handle it I'm not going to force it in her.

[Betwyn]

Well, glad you know what is good for you.

But when I take a guy out of his pants, if he is large, I'm not interested. I know it is going to hurt.

If he is above average, it really depends on how he does it. If he is going to try and go hilt deep, again, it is going to hurt and I'll pass.

I like average and smallish. They fit me well. We can be as soft and slow, or rough and hard as we want to be.

But hey, to each their own.

If ALL women, wanted, needed, required.. big, monster cocks.. guys would evolve to have them.. as the smallish guys would be weeded out of the gene pool.

[xdude1]

More women should have this type of attitude.

[Andrw772]

Shoot 2018 a girl pull hos pants down and see a big fat snake there she gonna try to fit it all

[Anonymous]

Length doesn't matter AT ALL to me. For me it's all about the girth and how he uses it.

I've been with big guys and small guys thick guys and thin guys.. I tend to like slightly above average girth and average length the best. There is nothing I hate more than getting my cervix rammed (and guys that are only 6" have hit my cervix before) so I don't really like long penis (7.5 is my absolute limit and that limits positions no doggy style no legs on top of shoulders none of that)

[wishfire10]

Actually, I have to disagree with you, I don't think its that big of a deal and I really do think its how you use it. It could be that some of us girls arnt very experienced, but I don't think its a lie.

[Msright]

I think it's maybe you aren't experienced. For instance if you have never had a guy who is really hard and say 7 inches compared to a guy who is like 5 inches and not as thick either. The difference is quite intense. I don't understand the "how you use it thing" a man has to be pretty lame to be bad at sex if he has a decent penis.

[Red_Dragon]

Nah it's not a lie. It's just that some girls like big penises. There are many reasons as to why they might. For example maybe they are on the far end of vagina dept and so they like for just deepness to be filled up. How a guy uses it plays a role, but let's face it that can be learned and that depends on what girl he has sex with just as much as penis size does. I can have sex with one girl and she not like what I do, but have sex with another and she loves it.

[Insaan]

Asker is quite uneducated. Please someone tell her that only 1/3rd of vagina is sensitive to stimulus of penis. That means.. even 4 incues with WIDE girth is enough to satisfy women. But i can't blame her. Sometimes fantasy and liking are irrational. Like big boobs and ass for men... similarly dicks for women.

[Red_Dragon]

@Insaan I have a hard time believing that's true. Why in the same hell would only the first couple of inches be sensitive to stimulation? Why do girls like the feeling of it going to the other end of the vagina?

[Red_Dragon]

@Insaan *sam

[Insaan]

@Red_Dragon Actually... They can feel dick going to the end of vagina. But that would be just like touching your skin anywhere on the body which can feel the touch but won't give you a sense of sexul excitation or satisfaction isn't it? Similarly for the rest of vagina. The most sensitive part is actually on the top of vagina called clitoris. By just rubbing that cltori with fingers or say tongue, you can show her heaven throughout the day.

[Red_Dragon]

@Insaan Well see that's debatable. Some researchers, doctors, etc. w/e you want to call them say that there are pleasure points on the other end of the vagina and that still doesn't change the fact that girls do like to feel full. I mean after all why should a guy shove his whole cock in her to begin with if she doesn't like that feeling? Why not just put two or three inches in? Because the girl likes the full feeling. There's stimulation, friction, and stretching working that is pleasurable to them. Also the clitoris is bigger than just the little bean shaped thing you see.

[Insaan]

@Red_Dragon Hmm... Truly speaking... Kamasutra has well explained the sense of sexual satisfaction which says it is directly proportional to the ratio of size of penis to depth of vagina. So it depends on the couple how well they match each other. This is the main reason why some girls are very happy even with 5 inches and some girls are happy with 6-7 inches and vice versa. Fantasy has a equal role to play. Like for ex: Some people have fetish of licking feet and enjoy the stimulation. But is feet actually contribcontributing in reality? NAH.. but fetishes and irrational fantasies give you nice stimulation. That's what makes sex super enjoyable.

[Red_Dragon]

@Insaan I agree. Like I mentioned earlier to the girl we are replying in vaginas when aroused can be from 3 or 4 - 8 inches deep. So while mine might not be enjoyable for a girl with a 4 inch vagina that's really tight a guy small might be perfect for her. It's all about how well it matches up I guess.

[funkipunk]

Everybody has their preference. You have a strong preference for larger penises. It's understandable.

I agree with your point about being 100% honest with other users on here too. Some users are so "overly nice" by always tiptoeing around other people's feelings, so that they don't make them feel bad. When in reality, most people would actually prefer unfiltered honest advice... that may be a bit hurtful sometimes.

Personally, I DON'T like it when girls cannot be fully honest with their commentary and opinions. I respect a girl when she's more honest about her feelings about how other people look and act. This quality makes her more authentic, which I respect more than always being nice to people for the purpose of not wanting to hurt their feelings. Having this quality does not make a girl bitchy, it makes her more personality more authentic.

[Msright]

Thanks. I agree, if people can't be honest then what's the point really. No one will learn anything if everyone is telling white lies. Also I think most women do like penises at least 6 inches or larger. There are of course some women who are small or maybe have a small vagina and would be happy with a man with a 5 inch penis. But I don't think there would be women out there who specifically like small penises like a fetish or something. I have never heard that. I try not to make it insulting because men can't help their size.

[funkipunk]

Yes, I certainly appreciate the honesty. I honestly don't think that all women have such a strong preference for above average penises though. I have about a 5 1/2 inch penis, (so I wouldn't fall into that group that you're willing to have sex with). And if I were going out with a girl, and she dumped me after seeing that I didn't have an "above average sized penis," I would be surprised. Not to mention, a bit angered too.

[Orion1084]

Obviously, every woman has their preference. Some like big, some like average, etc. I'm sure that many women are telling that truth that size doesn't matter, just as I'm sure some are lying. You are entitled to your opinion, the same as they are. Larger penises are to your preference, that's all.

I have noticed that, among women who say it matters, many of them agree that girth is more important than length. Again, they have different preferences, of course, but I am surprised you don't mention this other penis dimension, choosing instead to focus solely on length. Does girth not matter to you, or was this merely an oversight?

I'm simply curious, that's all.

[heavensgift2girls]

I think most guys know size matters. That is why guys worry about it so much.

[Msright]

Oh k. Well I already knew that guys are usually jealous of men who are larger but I didn't know that men really knew that us women think size matters. It seems like all the stuff in movies and all the women telling white lies has actually created some men who truly believe it doesn't matter. I was with such a guy who actually believed that size didn't matter at all. He wasn't small though.

[heavensgift2girls]

I am sure every guy is different, but I would be willing to bet that there are more tall guys that don't understand how much harder short men have it, than short men that don't understand it. So if he knew he wasn't small he might not have let it bother him as much, and just listened to the politically correct lies people tell. I have heard guys on here complaining about being laughed at, and even heard women tell stories about laughing at a guy because of how small he was. The evidence it matters is certain. The only variable is how much it matter to each woman.

[DontCryBeHappy]

This isn't a question

[MrMuffinMan]

Oh great I think you just made the world a little bit more self-conscious about the size of their dick. Thanks for that!

As to your attitude of the hypocrisy of men over woman. I guess you may be right, although I typically ignore questions like, "am I pretty" and more often then not just look at the pictures and don't actually comment on them so I don't know if you are right about this. But there is a difference between giving a girl makeup tips and telling her she is too short, for example. The difference is that one she can change the other she can't. The only way a man can get a larger penis is by undergoing penis enlargement surgery and putting himself more at risk for a bent penis, then it won't even fit inside you and definitely won't pleasure you any more. Also these penises then get hairy around the shaft of the penis and that is just gross too.

[Red_Dragon]

You can get a bent penis to fit. Just saying.

[MrMuffinMan]

Gawd I wish I had found this pic earlier

pbs.twimg.com/media/BGP-OFACIAAbU9n.jpg:large

[Tractorbeam]

It doesn't surprise me. I would have said 20% of women prefer 6" or less, and the rest prefer between 6" and 8".
What I can't understand is that most women would prefer to be with a man who's cock is 3" shorter, that to be with a man who has 3" less height. I can't find an explanation for that.

[Red_Dragon]

Yeah for real bro. That boggles my brain. Luckily I've never had a problem getting girls despite my height.

[MarkyyG123]

Fellow Aussie, nice. Populus is increasing haha
Sure size matters, agreed. But not as much as knowing what to do with it.

[Prilee1992]

But I have a small penis...

[Rapunzel2490]

I thought that was true, and for the most part it is. Until I met my recent boyfriend. He is slightly below average, coming in at 5 and a half inches erect I believe, but damn was I wrong. It really is the motion of the ocean for some people.

[J1nnishere]

actually, 5 is average. 5-6 to be precise. having said that, 5 inches with 5 inch circumference would feel way better than a 7 inch with 4 inch girth. correct me if i m wrong.

[Rapunzel2490]

True. I thought bigger was better but it's what you do with it. And yeah I guess 5 would be average.

[Red_Dragon]

See I'm telling you people think I'm lying when I say big guys have a semi erect stage that can be tough to get out of. Happens to me. It can be tough to get fully hard.

You're right that a lot of females on here say things like "size doesn't matter." The reason why they say that though is because if they want to have sex with the guy then they will regardless. However, that doesn't mean it doesn't matter. In regards to pleasure it for sure matters. That's why when they say that I say "in what context?"

All that said it just varies from girl to girl as to what each one wants. I don't have a problem with size queens. Maybe it's because I'm satisfactory to them so I might be bias, but really it's all about sexual style. What you do and don't like when it comes to sex itself. Some people like bondage I don't. I like passionate sex some like it dominating and rough. Varies from person to person.

[Red_Dragon]

I also can't stand that a lot of people on here do what I call "big dick bashing." I just have to learn to ignore it I guess though.

[Booff]

TRUTH thats how i hooked up with my ex she was sexually frustrated even though she was having sex with her ex nearly every night but he was below average in size. then she gets with me BAM a few strokes in and she's cumming

[cavmanier]

This is your experience though. Vagina size varies just like penis size does so you're not speaking for all women. Most don't want their cervix hit or the back of the vagina although a minority does like that. Over 6 inches is going to hit the back for a lot of women. Yes some can fit an 8" guy or larger, but that's fairly uncommon. That's okay though; we're all different sizes.

[PrettyBama]

my dildo is 4 inches and it feels heavenly lol

[Byakko77]

Lmao you made my month hun

[PrettyBama]

Glad I could! Lol @Byakko77

[PiuBelloAmante]

Thank you for the very honest and open opinion. Guys know this and girls do to. People come here a lot of the time to hear what they want. Thanks for keeping it real @Msright

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

dude be proud of the 6 inches you have I'm proud of my size
. you know that average penis size is 4.6 - 6.7 inches it's all
got to do with blood that gives the penis it's size

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

*blood flow

[GoldenSunshine]

Size doesn't matter to everyone just because one person says so :)

[Sleekxxtra]

To each their own in preference but one girl can't speak for all. But yes to some it does and to others it doesn't and those girls that say size doesn't matter aren't being *nice* as they are being honest and to them size really doesn't matter. Also this isn't a question rather a opinion...

[been_waiting]

... okay, but this isn't going to help anyone. No one can change their size. Oh and not all women feel the way you do

[Izzex3]

You don't speak for everyone.
A lot of people say size doesn't matter because to them it really does not matter.
Why claim that someone is lying or mothering someone just because their opinion differs from yours?

[xdude1]

Actually the OP said anything 6" inches or up she can accept, and 5 inches is the bare minimum. I think that's pretty generous. she's not saying she only wants monsters. What woman really would want to go under 5? Truthfully. Veryyyy few.

[Izzex3]

@xdude1 ? I don't care about her preferences I was saying that she doesn't speak for all girls, which she doesn't And that just because a girl says size doesn't matter, doesn't mean that she's lying.