Sleepover with my bestie is it a good idea? n?

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

this is a follow up; so the friend (the hot blonde) my bestie and I were planning a little girls night dinner/drinks we get all dressed up for each other and back to my place for more drinks and some girl time and we both got new sexy lingerie that were going to wear for each other like surprise each other with. I’m excited I told my boyfriend that I was going to have a girls night with my friend. He says fine no prob. Is this cheating is this a bad idea should I give him all the deets about “girls night”

[OlderAndWiser]

WTF are you even asking this question? You already know the answer.

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

I’m excited but nervous

[OlderAndWiser]

Why don't you just break up with your boyfriend and then you can fuck this girl every night without cheating?

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

He’s coming over in like 20 minutes I love being with him we’re going to have sex at least once hopefully twice and I’ll make Hmm breakfast in the morning I enjoy him he enjoys me that’s why

[OlderAndWiser]

You want to be having sex with someone else but you don't want him to be having sex with someone else. That seems rather selfish and unloving.

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

I like to think of it as “girl time” we do “girly things” guys wouldn’t get it

[OlderAndWiser]

Guys don't get it? Of course we get it! You want to fuck another girl and so does he. You are going to use fingers and tongue and he will use his fingers, tongue, and dick. What did I leave out?

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

Eew why you all worried about what we do with our girl time. We are going to fool around let’s love it like that

[Mangospacho]

Come on @olderandwiser. This totally actually happened!

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

Leave* it like that

[OlderAndWiser]

@Mangospacho Level 5. Most trolls drop out before then.

[Mangospacho]

This is the story so far: 1. Husband dies (mysteriously) 2. She immediately starts dating her son’s teenage friend 3. Son gets mad hearing his mom having loud sex with his friend 4. She goes to the frat house of her boyfriend’s and has loud sex loud enough for everyone in the frat house to hear 5. Her best friend of many years suddenly start experimenting with each other 6. Boyfriend finds out and gets angry when she suggests a threesome 🙄 7. She starts having regular hookups with her best friend and spends hours on GaG refuting that any of this is made up. <<<This is today.

[OlderAndWiser]

@Mangospacho Dedicated troll! That is a long tale to weave!

[Mangospacho]

Yeah, she doesn’t ever talk about her deceased husband either. I’ve known most widows to think and talk about them at least once a week or day even.

[OlderAndWiser]

@Mangospacho Yeah, I tried dating a widow about 6 years ago. You just can't complete with a dead guy who has ben turned into a mythological creature!

[Mangospacho]

True. Wait. You mean she didn’t immediately go off and start hooking up with one of her son’s teenaged friends?

[OlderAndWiser]

@Mangospacho . . . and I never got to the point of learning how loudly she moans!

[Summeroflove]

She doesn’t want a answer to her question

[Mangospacho]

@Summeroflove Either that or things are taking much longer than usual with her bestie.

[Summeroflove]

@Mangospacho no she asks these questions And doesn’t like the answer

[Mangospacho]

@Summeroflove Oh I know. I was kidding.

[Summeroflove]

@Mangospacho lol. Yeah. I am starting to even doubt this person is telling the truth. Some people are good at making up stories

[Mangospacho]

@Summeroflove I’m surprised she went the “dead husband” route though. It would’ve been easier to just go as a single mom who’s just recently single after a long term relationship went sour.

[Summeroflove]

@Mangospacho yeah I know. I think this person has something sick inside of them. Even if this was all a true story. I would think someone would be heartless to just jump into a random sexual relationship. Sure people should find someone else but

[Summeroflove]

No irs a horrible idea. You’re probably trying to hook up with her. Especially if you have a boyfriend. You’re definitely not straight if you’re into a woman. You’re BI!

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

Yea we like fool around it’s fun

[Summeroflove]

Yeah it’s cheating and obviously you don’t want a answer. Because when people say it’s a bad idea. You don’t listen. So why ask?

[Jazzy54]

Honestly, at this point, you need to make a choice of who you want to be with: him or her. Otherwise, yes, you’d be cheating on your boyfriend.

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

But it with a girl my bestie. It’s just for fun can’t me and my bestie have a little girls only fun

[Jazzy54]

Okay. Imagine this. Your boyfriend confesses that he’s attracted to his best friend. They spend a lot of time together, make out, give each other blowjobs, etc. Despite all of this, your boyfriend swears that he’s straight. What would you think?

[Jazzy54]

Wouldn’t you feel like he’s cheating on you?

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

Lol men and women are very different

[Jazzy54]

The point is this, how would you feel if you found out that your boyfriend was “just having fun” (aka sexual activity) with another person. Anyway, if you two are planning to engage in sexual activity, yes, you would be cheating on your boyfriend.

[Mrgoodstuff62]

You tell her girl

[NudeBella]

He won't know exactly what happens unless you tell him. Sounds like a great night. Go for it.

[thenameless22]

Why don't you invite him to join the fun? That way, if she's as hot as you say, he gets to enjoy her with you. Think of it as a couples activity. You both get to tag team the hot blonde.

[Gent207-2]

Yes this a bad idea

Drinks + sexy lingerie = high probability of making out with your best friend.

Unless your boy is into sharing this will end badly

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

Oh we’re Def gonna be making out

[Gent207-2]

@pizzapiemamabear No judgement but how does your boy feel about it?

[Berethor]

Didn't he already know that you cheating with her? guys tend to be forgiving of girl on girl.

[foxrider77]

What outfits will you guys wear on your girls night? Will you two provide lip service?

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

Not sure yet stressing over that part … if I know what that means yes

[foxrider77]

Did you have another girls night? What did you two end up doing? Any sexy outfits?

[bowenw]

I suggest you give him a general idea of what you expect will happen and answer any questions honestly he may have. It's not cheating if he knows what you are planning and he says it's no prob.

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

What if he thinks I’m a weirdo

[bowenw]

Hopefully he won't, but if he does he's entitled to his opinion. Even if he thinks it's weird I would hope he still says it's no prob.

[Mansearching]

Got to choose girl

[soe11]

It is good idea for something change and having fun.

[shades777]

kinda weird, but whatever

[AimeeKyle]

It’s a girls night with your bestie…. as long as there isn’t another guy involved, have fun.

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

And we can do anything we want? 😉

[AimeeKyle]

Absolutely, why not. Have fun.

[DrewJohnson]

Girl's night/slumber party is always a good thing.

[mommymommymommy]

Are you bi?

Also, why does it still say "widowed", if you have a boyfriend

[TallAnon]

Cheating is the betrayal of expectations towards a partner. You talked to him about it and he agreed, so that's not the case.

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

That makes me feel a bit better, so you say go for it if I want

[TallAnon]

Why not, have fun

[najekim]

If he's mature enough and knows you're having girl time, have fun.

Wife partakes in girls night in once-in-a-while herself.

[msc545]

Enjoy it, and be sure to tell your boyfriend about it - He will like it

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

Really? What if he thinks I’m a weirdo?

[msc545]

He won't He will ask to join in next time. By the way - how was it?

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

I don’t want that he’s here now I like to keep it separate I enjoy my “girls time”

[msc545]

ok, no problem..

[foxrider77]

Do you play with any toys during your play date?

[8InchesChris]

Nooooooooooo

[Anonymous]

Yes and no. Yes you’re cheating on him you know that already. If you have to ask chances are it is. But I also say no because you’re not my woman so please give us more details lol

[Anonymous]

Once again, the deceased husband is spinning in his grave for missing out on these sleepovers.