Slept in bed with a 21 year old without having sex?

[red324]

I figured she was used to guys just wanting to fuck her so to show her I was different and also liked her for her one of a kind personality we just cuddled and made out a bit. I never saw her again after that, but looking back now I wonder if maybe she's too young to understand or hasn't had enough guys just want her for her good looks. Opinions? I've never met a girl who was as entertaining as her and probably won't ever again.

[muscularbumblebee]

At even 20 can assure you she’ll have plenty of opportunities for sexual advance from guys if she’s decently attractive lol. Whether or not she accepted them is a different story.


As for her not having sex with you but if she actually like you she’s probably trying to hold it off until longer and she’s knows your intentions for sure in the long term. I don’t know if you noticed but girls don’t usually cuddle guys they don’t like and so she must have felt pretty safe with you. That’s what I would have done anyway

[red324]

She subtly indicated she wanted to but I didn't see an issue with holding off another date or two. It doesn't matter now though I'm not interested in having sex with a girl that jumps around from guy to guy anyways. Then again I think most girls do that at her age.

[muscularbumblebee]

True.. but you’ll never know unless you try again I guess. Either way I’d maybe give another chance or two. If she still seems to be not interested and has moved on. The you move on to someone else too. Simple as

[red324]

I never heard anything from her again other than some bs text saying she just wanted to be friends and never an explanation after that when I asked for details. It doesn't matter. I guess the lesson learned is to not do what I did again.

[red324]

It seems like it doesn't leave the good impression like I thought it would.

[muscularbumblebee]

I’m that case then yes you’re better off.. she sounds confused

[Anonymous]

She probably saw it as a lack of interest on your part. She was likely wanting you to make a move. The one and only time I ever slept with a guy without the intent of having sex, I had to fight him off twice and the third time I just gave in and let him so I could get some sleep. So maybe she thought you weren’t interested?

[red324]

Yeah she wanted me to but I screwed it all up i guess. At the time I didn't see anything wrong with what I did. We dated for a couple months. After the fact I found out she does this with lots of other guys. Dates them for a few months then moves onto someone else and the cycle continues. Probably wouldn't have made a difference if we fucked or not.

[Carolus]

That’s weird and she found it so, no wonder the so called “good” guys finish last.

[SecretsofKB]

OR... OR... she actually just wanted to have sex...