Slow vs rough sex?

Question

Looking for some insight on men behavior during sex. Why do some men like a woman to not move much during sex. It's all very passionate until it is time for him to cum... that's when he says he wants to do it and for me not to move so much? What is that all about? I have had another guy act this way too and with men like this I have also noticed that they do not care much for their dicks being sucked. It's like they are very old fashion and don't want their woman behaving provocative? Nor do they care too much for the woman being on top? Can someone please explain this kind of behavior?

mooky06 · Accepted Answer

I like both slow and rough sex. Just as long as it's passionate, i'm not going to complain. Maybe starting slow and going rough, sometimes going rough then going slow, it's good to keep the paces different all the time.

When a guy is about to cum he knows the rhythm, the pace and the spot that makes it feel good for him (he's sweet spot) we have that sweet spot too, but a guy doesn't know that and we don't know their sweet spot either. So he'd either tell you to stop moving because he found he's "sweet spot" and wants to cum from it, or he'd be vocal about it "Oh yeah baby, that's the spot". It just depends on the guy.

Like both genders, you have dominant partners, submissive partners or a partner that enjoys being dominant and submissive, and that could be the reason for your last point. Sometimes when men want more involvement from their woman, they'd often try different sex positions, because they're "open" to it.

TazWax · Accepted Answer

Well most people how are close to cummimg like to take the lead because they don't want to changed want it happening because clearly that it what is getting them there.
I've been with a guy like that but he loved when I sucked his cock so I really don't know what's up with your guys.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Sometimes slow, at others rough, depending upon how horny I am.

NJ_Casanova · Accepted Answer

Sounds like he has trouble controlling himself... He doesn't want to come too early.

Also "not wanting the women on top" might be a self-esteem issue... they might feel like they are emasculated by you dominating them.

Slow vs. Rough... usually has to do with amount of time and the mood I'm in. Sometimes you want to have a long passionate (romantic/emotional session.. like during aniversary).. most of the time I think most people want to FUCK.

genericname85 · Accepted Answer

what? men like a womannot to move during sex? XD i hate that. maybe it´s some fetish? i think the more she moves, the better. cause to me her moving means she wants it xD which is the best part for me.

Kachatterjee · Answer

I think if he is not asking you to move, he perhaps does not know how to do it with the partner moving.  And if somebody doesn't want the women to be provocative, they have serious issues.