So, am I set to be single for life? Or will better relationship opportunities start opening up later on? How should I live in the present?

What I mean is after college its likely going to be much harder to meet people.

I’ll most likely just be going to work and then coming home.

And while I don’t tend to like any of the girls in college, I’ll probably be meeting even less women later on in life.

I would think most other people just wouldn’t be around then because people will be busier with work and stuff.

Either way I’m not low key depressed or anything but I guess in a sense there is more worth experiencing in life than just a weekly paycheck.

There’s so much more you can experience within the confines of marriage. Regular sex, the birth of a child of your own making, someone you’re intimately bonded to.

All those ideals do sound pretty good to me and that is something I would eventually like to experience.

While it is satisfying just grinding away and raking in cash over the summer, there’s obviously still more to life.

But it just doesn’t make any practical sense for me to remain single throughout my entire adulthood. To blow through all my fertility years.

And I’m not about hookup culture either so it just comes down to finding the right person.

I’d like to have kids, raise a family and have regular sex and stuff so long as it was with a girl I actually felt intimately bonded with.

I mean I get that for the first few years I’m going to be working post-college, I’ll likely be single and living on my own, but that obviously isn’t how I aspire to live the rest of my life. Lol

I’d like to bring more people in. To have someone to come home to would be nice because although I don’t mind living with my parents between college semesters, this isn’t necessarily how I’d want to live the rest of my life because it does tend to be more limiting, in terms of the things I’m able to do, so moving out of the house when I have the finances is definitely my best option by far but at the same time I’d kinda prefer not to have an empty home for the rest of my life either.

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  • You have a lot of time. When you get a bit older if you stay in decent shape, keep a stable source of income, and are not struggling with addiction issues or other drama you should have no problem attracting a woman. When you are in your mid to late twenties you will be able to date women your age and also those in their early twenties. That expands the pool a lot. If you want to find a woman who never wanted to hook up, you probably need to look into some conservative religious communities and soon, before these women are married off. The reality is that even there most women will have some sexual experience, but outside of those places the vast majority will have a lot of experience. Try to remember that almost everyone is touched by modernity and the subversion pushed by our elites. I suspect you might find women who didn’t go to college are more your type given your experience in college. Hang in there. Time is on your side.

    • So as long as I’m a pretty stable well rounded guy I’ll have no issue? 👍

    • I’ll be honest, while its true I don’t really attract women at present, I still wouldn’t want to contend with the same shitty dating partner options later

    • You shouldn’t. I mean, if you’re a stable, well rounded guy who is in decent shape these days you’re easily top quartile. If you want to date a supermodel it could be tough, but if you work on your own goals and make a good life for yourself I’m sure you could find a good, attractive match. I mean, I did, and I was middle aged, divorced, and unemployed at the time.

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Most Helpful Guy

  • Any man who is forced to hunt for women and struggle to get one is playing a rigged game. If you don't have them approaching you then it's game over for you.

    • Yeah man but if you’re an introverted dude its not like they’re really gonna feel attraction from what I can tell. Its usually the extroverted men that have girls interested in them. I’m just not an extrovert though. Like at all. And I don’t give a f*ck about trying to be a certain person if it goes against my genetic inclination either

    • I agree.

Most Helpful Girls

  • i'm serious go to church events... maybe you don't go to church but you should because it's calling out your looking for a christian woman... they may not give you blowjobs or oral sex but they'll be more in line with what your looking for.

    • I do, but its really just old people that go to church where I live

    • double check your church's activities not necessarily at mass because it's hard to talk to girls during a mass... but your definitely calling out for a christian... worse comes to worse try a christian dating site... you definitely wouldn't want a girl who's sucked over 100 cocks or does anal sex with a bunch of guys etc... you need someone clean... but the downside she won't do dirty things for you

  • You are still super young and have lots of time to find a girl even after college. Don't stress about it too much

    • Oh for real? I would’ve thought it might get even more difficult after college.

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  • join large groups where there are a lot of girls around

    • It honestly depends on what it is. I’m not even totally sure where they congregate. Well, besides bars and parties

    • But besides women’s sports teams (which I can’t join) or drama or theater or music club, what else do girls even really do? Go to football games? Even then I don’t really care enough to actually go to one.

  • Stay single and be happy

    • I mean, I am happy being single but I feel like there’s more to life though

    • Don’t want to sell myself short just yet, but set myself up for future success

    • your right you need to be in a relationship asap... the sooner the better it's definitely not good to be single too long... a man needs a woman... and a woman needs a man for sure.

  • So there's what X thousand girls at your college and not a single one of them appeals to you? Really?

    • Yes that is correct. They are all trashy hoes

    • Every last one of them?

    • I’ve yet to find a single one that can satisfy all these. #1 They’re not a slut. They’ve never had any interest in hooking up with people. I haven’t hooked up either, so no hypocrisy here. #2 They’re not high maintenance and materialistic #3 They’re not entitled and demanding #4 They’re not feminist and “I don’t need no man” #5 They’re not selfish and narcissistic #6 They don’t blame me for all their problems. #7 They’re willing to contribute equal effort to the relationship. #8 They don’t constantly expose me to drama and a bunch of other BS. #9 They don’t have daddy issues or emotional issues. #10 They’re not easily jealous over dumb shit like a friend talking to their EX BOYFRIENDS.

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