So as women who is straight if last night I had lesbian dream about a friend does that make gay or bi?

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EnchantressTUA · Accepted Answer

Dreams are up to interpretation and rarely are they super straightforward. You could've been thinking about sex, thinking about your friend, then boom your mind has mixed them both together. I've dreamt about having sex with people that irl I've hated or not been attracted to at all and would never sleep with.

On a more psych level (from what I remember), a lot of the time dreams come as a result of our brain processing information from our day or past experiences, including tramatic events, this we don't understand, things we've taken in during our awake hours but didn't fully notice or make a record of remembering, etc. You could've picked up on information during the day regarding the sexuality of someone, you could've even been thinking something along the lines of "I love my friend" or "she looked so pretty", and this is just the way your brain has decided to process the info. That's why a lot of dreams we have don't make a lot of sense or can be confronting or scary.

I also just wanna say that I don't think you should be worried about labels or trying to find out "what you are". Our likes and dislikes change and evolve over time; what we identify as at one stage of our lives may not be what we identify as later on. You could be bi, you could be lesbian, buy you could also be straight or pansexual or asexual or something completely different or a combination of these. Your "label" could change or you could try something and realise it's not for you or what you used to like doesn't do it for you anymore. All of this is okay and completely normal, and nobody is going to know any of this except for you 💜

Rob70 · Accepted Answer

Not at all. It's just a dream. Dreams are often mixed up and do not mean anything. I don't know much more about you and there is a possibility you may be Bi/Gay but that is something you would have to decide. If you think there is a possibility then maybe you want to explore it some. Either way a dream is not indication of one's sexual choice.

kellytheman · Accepted Answer

Nah I wouldn't consider you neither but it might be a fantasy your sub conscious have that you can't control. Also I wouldn't say you are gay or no if you actually experiment with her sexually but if you started doing it more with other women then i call you bisexual if you still have sex with guys too.