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So can sex be so bad that a guy stops 3 minutes into it?

Ok so I was having sex with this guy and he was on top of me he seemed to be into it.. I was also into it then he just stopped and jumped off of me then said he didn't want to cum because he didn't want to get me pregnant mind you he usually pulls out and nuts on my thighs or legs or somewhere else, so I was shocked because that's never happened before so he gives me this excuse like... oh your pussy felt to good and I didn't want to cum in you so I just stopped.. im like wtf so ask him if it was so good then you shouldn't have stopped... I need answers because at this point I think he hates me sexually and my vagina.😟
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Yea I found out he's not into me sexually... my hearts broken 💔 😢 , but hey at least I know and I can move on.
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Ok update he lied that lying fucker came in me which explains alot🤦🏻‍♀️ why it took him so long to tell me the truth I have no idea but I'm definitely done with the liar
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Most Helpful Girl

  • I don't think he hates you at all, you're definitely overthinking this, girl. The fact that he can get an erection and has had sex with you multiple times means that he definitely likes you, his excuse was probably legit. If it's something that really bothers you, or if you really don't trust him i would definitely ask him about it, because like girl what is 3 minutes? like nothing, that was probably because of you

    • I tried asking him and he got upset i just dont trust his excuse because if something is good why would u stop 3 minutes into it.. oh and he didn't just stop he made a loud noise then he laid there for a few seconds then he jumped up and I said to him why u stop and he says because I don't want to get you pregnant... im like wtf

    • And what do u mean because of me🥺

    • bc if he came really quick or was about to it's probably because he was really turned on, if that makes sense?

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Most Helpful Guys

  • I've never stopped like that. There may be something going on with him physically or in his head. You need to have a talk with him to get to the bottom of it.
    It could be something as simple as he masturbated earlier that day and knew he wouldn't be able to ejaculate, and was embarrassed to tell you the truth.

    • We had sex that night and he came all over my butt then we went to sleep and got up at 5 am to do it again

    • So he hasn't jumped up again?

    • No he didn't jump up twice he only jumped off me that morning at 5 am... he seemed to be really into it then he made a loud noise then he stopped for a few seconds and laid in me then he jumped up and said he didn't want to cum in me so he stopped

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  • A guy can get anxious about getting his woman pregnant before they are ready. That anxiety can affect performance. I would suggest getting some birth control. That way, you both can enjoy sex without worrying about pregnancy. He could even have his orgasm when he's inside your vagina.

    • If that was the case he would have just pulled out...

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Maybe he did cum in side and thst why hey jumped all thecway off. Or he was in the middle of cumming in side and said WTF. GET OFF NOW LOL and jumped

    • 😢😢😢 omg I hope that's not the case but it makes more sense than him hating my vagina 😭 I literally just dont know , I feel so stupid and insecure about it because I want to satisfy him but I don't know 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • And what is 3 min i takes me longer to brush my teeth

    • It was literally 3 minutes before he jumped off me 🤦🏽‍♀️ and honestly maybe 2 min... im being generous

  • Get married

    • Why u say that

    • It’s the right thing to do

    • Ok😒😒😒😒

  • 3 minutes is nothing, prolly he couldn't hold it in so he stopped

    • But he usually cums on my thighs or butt or leg

    • Don't stress about it, just have sex again and see if that happens again, if it does then there's something to worry about otherwise it's nothing

  • I think he cummed inside you

    • Nooooooooooo dont say that 😭😭😭😭😭 if he did he should have just been honest about it

    • Yeah he should have but i think he panicked. Sometimes you can't controll when it goes if it is really good. Congradulations you are really good in bed.

    • 😂😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 I wouldn't say all that🤷🏽‍♀️ if I so good in bed he wouldn't be treating me like I can't ask him any questions he would treat me better and respect me

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  • time to change your boyfriend now

    • I know my exact thoughts

  • Did you ask him why he stopped what did he say

    • Yes I asked him he said because he didn't want to cum inside me he said the feeling was feeling to good so. he jumped up...

    • You know what that means right

    • No I don't enlighten my slow ass

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  • yes it could

    • 😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩

  • It’s not you believe me. That boy ain’t right in both of his heads.
    Find yourself a man that can satisfy you sexual needs.

    • Why u say he ain't right in the head? Lol

    • He’s having sex with a beautiful girl so he stops and jumps off. All he has to do is use a condom, then he can cum inside you. It’s not rocket science!

  • Very difficult to pull out if is vagina is so hot, I prefer to cum inside..

    • But he said he didn't cum he made a noise then he stopped for a second then jumped off me

    • İf I was in his place, definetly I can cum very deep inside..

    • You're not helping me lol... have u ever just stopped 3 minutes into it?

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