My argument for ditching the words "masculine/masculinity" and "feminine/femininity" (and I cannot be convinced otherwise, so don't even try. I'll skip if you attempt to). And that's just one of 100 real world examples. I could write a book about it but I'm not a book person at all.
BuT dOiNg hAiR/nAiLs/sKiNcArE/CrOsSdReSsiNg iS fEMiNinE, eW tHaTs GaY, iTs FoR WiMmEnS aNd GaYs (etc. etc.)
Yeah, nah, I don't understand and I don't want to understand. Some say ignorance (or in some cases obliviousness) is a bliss and this is one of these cases I intend to keep.
I kept mentioning "No such things as masculinity and femininity". And I'll keep at it.
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6 11Okay I asked the question about a dad washing the kids hair some months back. I think we all agreed that wasn't “feminine”. But this dying hair and curling hair is a bit much UNLESS he’s a barber (the masculine version of a hair stylist). Painting nails is just feminine in general
For Family there's nothing called Masculine or Feminine
So years ago when I was married my wife wanted to get these hair braids in her hair we're at a carnival and she asked me to watch how they were doing it so I would be able to do it for her at home. So I paid attention to what they did I was able to reproduce what I learned watching somebody else do it for her hair. Now does that make me feminine I don't think so. But what people do in their own home is their own business I've always said that whether they are helping their daughter with their hair or even cross-dressing it's their business what they do they're not hurting nobody else and if Dad's able to do that he probably wants the YouTube video on how to do it and you never know there might not be a wife around to do it.
Though, even if there is a wife around why not do it to bond with your daughter?
Absolutely not.
Uh, it's not about whether there are such things. It's that most people such at crafting definitions and/or using them. So you end up with words that are misused/abused. When I was a kid this was way less common since most people were well read (enough) to have a large vocabulary. Actually vocabulary is shrinking and meanings becoming more ambiguous I'd say.
*most people suck
Yeah and all they know are useless internet terms like "simp", "cuck", "karen". Its like they formed their degenerate language and vocabulary.
A father should be able to do everything his daughter might ask of him, and he should impart upon her all life skills that she needs to know, including how to fieldstrip a Glock, how to cook, disable an attacker, engage effectively with knife, baton, spear and sword, how to adjust for weather, windage, and drop coefficient, and when to use the Anzio and when to use the Intervention.
After that, blow-drying hair is child's play. No pun intended.
Not at all feminine. He's doing his daughter's hair.
I have met quite a few straight hairstylists. They probably met a lot of women that way come to think of it.
No it makes him appear more caring.
Yeah
Braids are ugly too
Its called being a parent. Taking care of your kids no matter the kids gender or your own is a must for all parents.
He seems like a really great dad. Who cares what we think lol
Nope. It makes him a dad.
noo not at all.
No it makes him more of a man imho,
That’s just great parenting. I don’t think this idea getting called feminine is not nearly as prevalent, though. I don’t know any other dads that would shame this dad for being feminine.
No that's not being feminine that's being a dad caring for his child.
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