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So what do men want on the first date.
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I'm curious because:
There's been a lot of posts whining about women acting like prostitutes & giving out sex on the first date.
And there's just as many posts whining about women not acting like prostitutes & giving out sex on the first date.
That really depends on how we are getting along.
honesty is always high on the list.
Not really their whole life history but a brief overview.
Where they see themselves now, and like in 5 years, stuff like that.
depending on the date maybe a kiss, sometimes a nice meeting you hope your life is good, and once in a while you barely make it into the house before you have undressed each other with your teeth.
I never had any preconceived notions of what would/should happen on a first dte, other than I hoped I didn't knock her wine glass over in her lap, or most of my supper ended up on my shirt.
I expect nothing, I'm there to basically interview her to see if she randomly meets my relationship criteria.
- If she raises red flags, I finish the date and wish her well.
- If no red flags and she meets the standards I desire from a long-term partner, I will ask her to a 2nd date and say goodnight.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!At this point, it is about what you want as you have noted that guys and their penises can not make-up their minds. No sex vs. sex on first date
Before I got married I did not expect anything sexually on the first date. All I expected was some good conversations and a few laughs. On the few times I got a handjob or had sex on the first date it was just a bonus but it was not expected by me.
What I would actually like the most is to be able to ask her lots of questions without her getting upset. Questions about her past, what are her long term life goals, her views on some morality topics and things like that to see how compatible we would actually be for long term. The only reason I would date is to find a compatible long term partner to build a life with, so I have many questions I need answers to.
Coffee (I expect to buy it) and conversation. Literally and figuratively, I want to know what I'm getting into. Intimacy of any kind can only come when we've sorted things out for a while.
I really never expected sex on a first date. If sex happened, fine, if not I hoped to get another chance. Sometimes if it doesn't work out it's just as well
My only expectation is that she shows up.
I just want to have a fun, relaxed, easy going evening, whatever that looks like. I don't expect anything beyond basic decency in human interaction.
From a first date I expect nothing. If it went well then a hug and maybe kiss goodnight. I never expect to get laid on a first date.
Conversation and fun. Nothing physical except perhaps a hug at the end.
Hopefully a second date if I like her, I don’t expect anything more than that, it’s nice to get a hug or kiss though
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