So how do we know if a guy is big enough? and are dildos better?

my gf and i have been dating for a while now and i got a dildo for us to try im a little bit smaller then average is it okay to use the dildo which is much bigger? girls do you feel a difference from when you move from a big thing to a small one
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  • The only time that there should be a notable difference is if she's having a 3 some or orgy. Different penis' penetrating around the same time. Otherwise when there's time between different sizes the vagina returns back to its normal state and can't really tell.
    Using a dildo can be a great addition as long as ur touching her in other ways. Sex is a bonding experience so just using a dildo won't be fun. It's the touching and fondling that makes sex with someone else enjoyable. Make sure u penetrate her first and if not DON'T be particularly aggressive with the dildo so that neither of u feel the awkward jump in size. She may not feel anything and u may feel like ur diving into the grand canyon, especially with her vaginal fluid making it even harder to feel u in there.
    Whatever u do make sure u do it with confidence and consideration for one another. This way it's enjoyable and not a huge fail. And with practice comes excellence. Once u know what and how to do it, it will get better every time.

    • thanks for the most helpful vote 👍

  • There's a HUGE difference between being fucked by a cold silicon dildo and a warm, hard penis. Like phenomenally huge. I would have sex with my boyfriend over a dildo any day, even if my boyfriend is on the smaller side. It's just better, more real :p His movements are just something that can't be replicated. Of course it's okay to use the dildo, but I wouldn't be surprised if she liked you a lot more.

  • Yes, it's okay to use the dildo. Obviously a difference can be felt, but I can't think of a girl on this planet that would prefer her dildo over her boyfriends cock. There's much more to it than the size, and that's the intimacy that she shares with you, so no.. dildos are not better.

    • what about his last question. does it feel different from moving from a small penis to a bigger one? just wondering. does it feel the same after ward

    • Will it feel the same for you? Absolutely. Unless you bought something that resembles a freakin 2 liter coke bottle, you shouldn't be able to tell a difference. Vaginas are elastic.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Toys can add a level of fun to it. me and my gf uses sex toys even if they are bigger than me, smaller than me or even same size.

  • Lets just hope she doesn't choose the dildo over you.

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  • I don't like dildos. I mean, where's the fun with that. Being intimate with someone is better, i dont care about the size tho. The intimacy i share with the guy is much more important