So I found some new p*rn my husband was looking at, something kinda kinky I had never heard of before. It had a chick fucking a guy with a strapon?

[Anonymous]

So I went on the our computer yesterday and it's not uncommon for my husband to have left a tab open with p*rn on, he usaly closes them but from time to time I find myself looking a well someone getting cum on there face or something. I don't really mind, it not like he go's out and cheats and he never denies me sex or anything. Sometimes we watch it together and try out new things, it can be fun and even a turn on. But this was something I had never even heard of. This lady had a fake penis or strapon and she was fucking this guy in the ass. He seemed to be enjoying it, but it's p*rn so who knows. Now I'm wondering if he wants to try this? Has anyone else tried this? Do you or your man like it if you have tried it? I guess I'm open to the idea but it just caught me off guard and it's not like I can ask my sister or friends about this.

[Anonymous]

I did the same found the porn but never told him then brought a strapon, put it on under my dressing gown and hid it, said should we go have sex and we went to the bedroom, told him to take off his clothes and then opene my dressing gown and kind of jumped on him he seemed unsure then I just said please I want to tell it and he seemed relieved that I also wanted to as well, I put it in slow with a lot of lube and slowly trusted then asked if I can go harder, wow what a work out but it was fun we still do it sometimes and our relationship it so much stronger and we have a lot more respect for each other he knows how it feels and I know how hard it is going more then 10minute. Word of advice have a towel handy just incase, you both will love it :)

[Rudegirljune]

Yeah pegging but I think that's gay a strap on is a fake dick to each its own its weird though yes that's how a man gets his biggest orgasm but I just couldn't

[chloroformkisses]

Any guy who wants something like that is definitely bisexual or closeted.

[Asker]

I think that after 10 years I would know if he wants a man or not, he is not interested. he did ask about a 3some years ago. I called his bluff and said sure, I will do a chick if a guy can do you. the shock on the poor guys face. he was no longer interested in a 3some, never even asked again come to think of it

[greycadillacs]

Yeah I don't think that arguments makes any sense chloroform. What about a lesbian who uses a dildo? Is she a closeted bisexual or heterosexual?

[Asker]

^ this guy

[gapminder]

Has he ever expressed interest in any anal play? Some guys I know have told me that they love it. And these guys mind you are totally not "gay" by any means. I have had a few girls in the past give me a brush of the finger by my ass during sex and HELLO! It really got me turned on more, mush to my surprise. So I would ask him if he would like to mess around with it a little and see what he says. Some guys like it, some don't but you don't know until you try. The wonderful thing about sex between a couple is that the only standard is whatever feels good. So ask him and give it a shot, it sounds like he's kinda curious about it. Good luck with it and I hope it opens up newer and exciting things for you two.

[Asker]

when you say brush past?

[gapminder]

Yeah just slide a finger tip gently up his Crack and just graze his anus. Lol, sorry there's no way to sugar coat it. After all it is what it is ... lol

[gapminder]

See how he responds and go from there

[Anonymous]

He might have just found it and figured what the hell lets give it a try lol I've heard of it and see it in p*rn before, I've been with women who put a finger in me during sex to massage my prostate and have to say, it's not bad (it really does work btw) or maybe he wants to try being submissive? He might just like the idea of being dominated. Everyone has fetishes and most haven't even discovered them yet. Sure ask him about it and see what happens, just make sure you know how to do it safely first, I also know that people can get badly injured from that sort of thing haha

[Asker]

so you just had her use a finger? never let her go any bigger?

[Opinion Owner]

It was enough to make it work with just a finger but no one ever suggested bigger haha once there was ore than one finger but that was it. I'd be open to trying it if my girlfriend ever asks but I don't see that ever happening so for now we're happy with the sex we have :)

[beesod]

I know a guy who had a girl do this to him. You would have to ask your husband though, don't just whip it out the draw! Lol. He may have just opened it for a laugh or by mistake.

[Asker]

just how did that come in in conversation with your friend? oh and by the way the mrs bent me over last night? I can't see it being something most guys would want getting out even if they did do it with there partner

[beesod]

It was an awkward and inappropriate moment, but I think when he was drunk or even stoned. He really is just a funny guy, didn't really care what people thought. He did say it was something she wanted to do more than the other way round though!

[islands7]

Not for me
but you should ask him to set it up for a try
Seems to me thereafter all he needs is for you to be more dominant sexually from time to time

[FireWaitingToCatch]

It's not related to sexual orientation. As others have said, it's generally about prostate stimulation and/or having fun with the dominant role reversal (i. e. having the gal be the one who is fucking/doing things to the guy)

[Big_man]

that sounds like a deep dark secret sort of thing. it's possible he's just using it as material for getting himself off. but unless he enjoys being dominated in the bedroom I doubt he would want to try that. I think that's borderline homosexual though so you might want to talk to him about it

[godfatherfan]

There are some straight guys that are into it. It could also be that he just gets off on seeing a woman dominate a guy that way and does't actually want anything in his ass. Most straight guys love performing anal sex but don't want anything near their own ass (that is me). Just talk to him and see. better then guessing...

[yaddayaddayadda02]

It's pegging. A man's prostate is inside his body and is the equivalent to a woman's g-spot. Some couples also like the dominance reversal.

[Tdieseler]

lol... this is great

[yaddayaddayadda02]

re: your update. I think rather than jumping right into pegging, maybe see if he's into butt play first. There is a HUGE stigma of heterosexual men enjoying anal play. Maybe try playing with his butt with your finger first while giving him a BJ.

[Asker]

I don't know about the whole finger thing, maybe if I had gloves

[gapminder]

Just make sure you do it after a shower and you'll be fine.

[Asker]

is that speaking from experience ^

[JackKerouac77]

TRY IT OR DIE WONDERING WHAT THE FUTURE HOLDS, MHHMMMMM

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[Gooseman]

Personally I've never tried it but in reality it makes more sense for a guy to have anal than a girl since it stimulates the prostate. Women who love anal only do if for the full feeling and stimulating the nerves around her asshole. I doubt that he is gay or wants you to do him with a strap on anytone soon BUT maybe next time you are giving him a BJ, stroke his asshole with your fingers and if he is receptive, massage it and then see if he will allow you to finger it.

[bubbakong2006]

I’m a guy and me and my wife did it I was surprised it’s common and I really enjoyed it the male prostate gets stimulated that way and wow have never cummed so hard in my life it was awsome and she was turned on by fucking my ass and she controlled the situation and my other favorite is her jerking me off while she fucks my ass we started out watching porn then she used her vibrator on me and eventually went to the strap on it was awsome y’all should talk and try it it will be great

[Words_and_Wisdom]

I always wanted to try getting strapped by a dominant woman. Hell, I'll even take a real dick from a fully passable transexual.

[Findesemana]

Pegging... doesn't mean he is gay. Ask him about it..

[loveladies1]

Go for it!

[Slater76]

My wife and I have tried it, but sadly she didn't like It, I loved it. She still plays with a finger every now and again. I'm 100% straight, just because a man enjoys it might enjoy the idea of anal penetration, doesn't mean he has gay or bi tendancies. Ask if he wants to explore. Opens up a while new dimension to sex. Good luck.

[Anonymous]

He may want to try it. Go ahead and ask him. He's absolutely not gay if he wants to be with a woman sexually. He's gay if he wants a man to fuck him in the ass.

Think of it this way. Would he be gay if you gave him a blowjob? Would he be gay if a man gave him a blowjob? same difference.

[Anonymous]

The male g spot is found through the ass. Maybe he wants to have his g spot stimulated

[Anonymous]

It's called pegging. It can be about power and dominance of the woman, as well as the guy getting his prostate stimulated. Some guys love it, others hate it.