So I just turned 18 and I also just became single. and I want to start touching myself down there but don't know how to start?

like do i think about stuff i just have no idea where to start
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  • You should get relaxed in bed be comfy and showered, I would recomend before you hop out the shower, running cold water over over your pussy and keep your lips shut.. when in bed and it's quiet just slide your hands all over your body slow, enjoy it, don't open your legs yet just feel the mound down there, roll on your side touch your ass and don't think of nothing but you and how nice it's is.. lay on your belly and arch your back push you bum and pussy out so you can see it in a mirror.. get the oil next to you and just put a little on one hand, touching and pulling a nipple, think of what you think it would be like, don't need porn isn't fails emotions. Don't hurry, listen to some music and make it last.. and the rest will cost, jus mesin

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  • Think whatever makes you horny and lay across the bed touching your clitoris also imagine what things make you cum and orgasm, place a pillow between your legs with squeezing them together, Hey I don't mind girls who are hairy, I don't mind the scent, I don't mind the taste?

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  • The key is to try different things, see what works for you.
    I would recommend you to start feeling yourself, where are the spots, try different pressures and all that, and then you can slowly go from there.
    Just find what works for you.
    You don't even have to be naked, you can watch porn, read erotica, find some sound clips, use your imagination or music. It's up to you.

    It's actually just about feeling yourself, be open-minded, and experiment. Have fun :)

    • I was just about to say the same. Agree 100%

    • yeah porn doesn't hurt

  • Start where it feels the best. I can't believe someone who is 21 is actually asking this. At least that is the age you state on your profile. Even at 18 I would say most girls have had a little self stimulation on the books. Sometimes these posts make me think that they are a guy just wanting to get off to some pseudo sexting type descriptions on how to rub it out.

    • lol so true

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  • Have a little alcohol to loosen yourself up then watch something that turns you on and then nature will take its course.

  • Well, I suggest you find a time when you are alone.
    Have a warm bath.
    Do whatever you need to do to relax.
    Turn the lights down low.
    Get a towel to sit on.
    Get a hand mirror.
    And take a look at what is down there.
    Feel around so you know what is good and what feels good.
    Rub around.
    Check out your vagina.
    It is an amazing little area of so many wonderful things.
    Enjoy.

    • Wow you planned that out well

    • My imagination runs wild sometimes

  • Just get naked, lay on your bed, close your eyes and fantasize about being with your favorite celebrity or current crush and just start doing whatever feels good

    • Can i fantasize about you

    • Sure

  • What the? I knew exactly what my body wanted by the time I was 14.

    • @14 huh. And what was the 1st thing you did

    • @ChattyGuy43 Nunya business

  • Buy a vibrating dildo and see what feels good.

  • I think you should arouse yourself first by rubbing on your nipples and then if you become aroused from that then find your clit and rub circles around it.

  • I'm sure you'll figure it out. LOL

  • Explore yourself, experiment. There are a lot of things you can do like read stories, watch videos, or just imagine things and when you start getting horney and turned on, you make a move to pleasure yourself.

  • Just find a nice quiet spot where you won't get caught and undress yourself, maybe leave panties on and think nawty thoughts and start to pleasure yourself, you'll know what feels best for you.

  • It's quite the opposite. It's more go with the flow feel it and follow it. You can think about a boy or a band or watch pornography of boys if you want. Or you can make it up. You can also watch porn videos on how a woman masturbates.

  • Check out YouPorn. com.

  • Go troll somewhere else

  • Watch porn or try sexting?

    • really even for a beginner like my ex's touched my down there and i'm not a vir^en but i've never done anything

  • Take off your panties to the bed and we open a porn movie. caress your vagina with your hand masturbate while you watch her. You can start this way. Or you can look at girls masturbating online, you can do it with them.

  • It is your body, explore it all find the spots that feel good shen you touch and spend a lot of time touching

  • You can find videos on the Internet if you Google it

  • That’s why it’s exploring your self until you find what works for you

  • You start Naked in the bathroom, You Shave all your pubes off, you get vaseline or some kind of oil/ lube and you walk to your room nude, you close the door, lay on the bed open legs, 2fingers in your pussy and the other hand rub your clit

    • Yeah just get stuck in there