Guys, So I let my boyfriend cum in my mouth but I really can’t swallow it. It makes him super upset.. why is it so important that I swallow?

I love my boyfriend and I don’t think I’ve ever given him a reason to think I’m not attracted to him. I’m on my period this week so I’ve been giving him a lot of blowjobs and I always let him cum in my mouth even though I really really don’t like that either. I can’t bring myself to swallow it.. I gag every time. I feel like my boyfriend should feel happy that I even let him cum in my mouth. I just can’t deal with warm slimy stuff in my mouth... it really gets to him that I don’t swallow. He thinks I’m not attracted to him and I can tell it makes him feel insecure about himself. I don't know how else to get the point across it’s not him it’s just gross to me, even if he was Channing Tatum I still wouldn’t swallow. How do I handle this?
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  • Ahh the classic nut in the mouth. Okay miss here's how it works:
    For us guys this is such an important thing of manhood, to get a girl to swallow our cum. Now yes while this is very important for us it's sad when a girl doesn't swallow it, I am much like your boyfriend a part of the guys who get sad, like really sad when the girl spits our cum. I enjoy eating my girl out and can even taste when she cums and feel in my mouth her flavor but that has never stopped me, so why would she not do the same for me? It's all about compromise, do that for him once and he'll be amazed, baffled, but only swallow him on special occasions or if you want to control him for something, but this is something you HAVE to do at some point. I guarantee you he's gonna be the sweetest guy ever after, watch and learn.

    • I’d really love to

    • Awesome! Best of luck in making your man happy! Now girl don't you go spoiling him just give him a taste and at the same time, if he dares to push you to swallow tell him he won't even be getting head, tell him it's a feeling that's born naturally, because well, no one likes being pressured into doing something they don't want. Let me know how it goes! :D

  • He's stupid. But next time he's upset say "Okay! If you want me to swallow so badly, buy 14 pineapples and eat 2 per day for a week! Then at least the sperm is sweet enough and I would concider it."

    • "Other than that, no! I won't do it." He won't be buying 14 pineapples.. trust me.

    • Haha I love it

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  • It's because he hates to see you wasting all that protein especially after sex which is a workout which means you are missing out on your anabolic window.

    • Lol I kind of love this. I think I’ll ask him if that’s why he was offended.

  • Would you let him cum on your face? He may find that is just as arousing

    • I don’t mind.. he does that sometimes. Cum is just gross in general though.. lol

    • Well it sucks that you are not, down with the same Swallow. But he has to compromise with you and can not, force you if you dont enjoy it.. Have you let him tit fuck ya? That is usually a winner for most guys you may be able to deter him with that act

    • Occasionally.. I have to suggest that more often. It is a bit awkward to me. But I’m usually down for anything as long as I don’t have to swallow cum. 😄

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  • Maybe instead of spitting it out you can kiss him after he ejaculates in your mouth, release it back to him? I have a girl who like you isn't fond of swallowing sperm too. So she kisses me after she sucks me off and I take care of the cum. We both love it and my sperm isn't wasted.

    • I’m sorry but ew

  • Be honest, tell him you'd love to swallow his load but you can't. It makes you gag, anything with that consistency had the same effect

  • If you're not going to swallow, then if I were your boyfriend I wouldn't want to cum in your mouth at all. If you can't do it then it would be better (and less degrading to him) to just blow him until he gets close and then finish him with your hand.

  • He should just be happy your mouth is on it, period. I don't cum from oral so I never got the fascination. It feels good being sucked, but I'm just not wired that way. I'm of the opinion if you don't like doing it, don't do it. If he doesn't like it, oh well.

  • Try and sallow your spit every time he's not Cumming in your mouth to simulate the cum u can do this

    • Thanks so much for the positive support. It actually made me laugh a little to myself. But seriously.. I have tried on many occasions and I can’t bring myself to do it.

  • cause i guesss some guys see it as you accepting them and not swallowing feels like rejection to them.

    i suggest you mae a deal with him. you swallow his cum, if he´s ready to kiss you while his cum is still in your mouth xD i bet you he doesn´t want that so you get rid of having to do it :P

  • My ex never let me cum in her mouth or on her period and I did find it a little disappointing but love sex and relationships are all give and take it's a two way street 100% of the way :) maybe explore and find something both of y'all enjoy more

  • It feels really good when you swallow us while we're doing that.

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