So I’m a virgin and me and my boyfriend were just in his car and yk…trying to lose my virginity and all but it didn’t work as well?

[Anonymous]

It didn’t go in and it kept slipping every time he tried putting it in and at a certain point I was like fucked it and just told him to stop and i also told him I don’t wanna try doing it again and that it was just horrible and just embarrassing for me actually Ik this doesn’t make any since but am I still a virgin?

[dustybiker]

Research articles on “how to loose your virginity without it hurting”.

Search engine duckduckgo. com (turn the filter off) will help you find some decent articles.

I’d link a couple I just saw, but they border on breaking site rules, so won’t.

Do not listen to suggestions about your boyfriend just “thrusting in”. You’ll only end up ripped and sore and traumatized.

You need to be relaxed. Enjoy being with your boyfriend. Just read up a bit on how. You’ll be fine. We’ve all been there.

[ushagomez]

I guess you discovered the car isn’t the best or most romantic, or easiest place to try and enjoy sex. Don’t let that put you off. Find a better more relaxed and private time together. That will make ending your virginity a wonderful romantic pleasure

[summiter]

If he did not penetrate you then of course you are still a virgin. Cars can be awkward to have sex in. A bed is best. Make sure he does tons of foreplay on you.. gets you wet with some oral and you might need to guide his penis in. Tell him to go real slow. Never forget to use condoms every time. Was he a virgin also?

[Asker]

No he’s not a virgin

[summiter]

Was the angle just wrong in the car... as you know things need to line up.

[Asker]

I believe so…even tho I was on top trying but it kept slipping out and he is kinda tall soooo I don't know

[summiter]

Try for some outdoor sex or find a bed. Have you fooled around with him before like handjobs etc? Consider using some lube also if you want to try it again.

[Asker]

I mean we did oral sex all the time but I don't know I don’t really wanna try it again

[summiter]

Well don't rush the sex. You will know when the time is right and you are in a comfortable place. Hopefully you two are giving each other some good orgasms? How old is your boyfriend?

[Asker]

We our both 18

[summiter]

Have fun with him enjoy giving each other orgasms when the time is right.

[Havthrills]

That happened to me my first time (hers too). The second time we tried was better. I had to use fingers to try to help loosen her some. Took a bit, but we accomplished it.

[rachel776]

just do it again on a bed and then you will know for sure 🤷‍♀️

[Emilyis]

Either he wasn't hard enough or he didn't know exactly where the Vulva was.

[WhitneySnow]

You’re still a virgin. You’re probably just not ready yet.

[Nahid1707]

Was it a bad experience?

[Asker]

Yes honestly

[Nahid1707]

Yea i felt it was and i am sorry for that. Hopefully next time 😊

[michael00007]

Yes you're still virgin. And ofc it keeps slipping coz you're wet he should thrust it in.

[Preeti161101]

There are two reasons to not insert properly
1. He has not enough hardness
2. He didn't know how to use his tool 🔫

[JoeyGreene]

sounds like that's an issue on his part not yours! don't worry, we've all been there, i bet he was nervous.

[Anonymous]

I assume he was the one who asked you out and hit on you

[Asker]

😭no it was kinda I had feelings for him and was too shy to talk or ask him so he texted me one day and yeah we started talking and yeah we started to date after a month

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah I made that comment due to my lifelong hatred of how guys have normally always been expected to make the first move and do the asking out but unfortunately why do I get the feeling that tradition will never change

[Asker]

I honestly have no idea

[Opinion Owner]

I'm Sure even a full Century or millennium from now that status quo will still remain in place