So, I masterbate but I can never orgasm. Help?

So, I try to get myself to orgasm but I just can't. I'm a virgin and not really into penetration. I rub and massage my clit, but I can't orgasm. It's getting kind of frustrating. Any ideas?
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  • Generally speaking any orgasm starts in the mind. If you try too hard, it will not work.

    You might want to try the following: Get comfortable, have time for yourself, maybe read/watch something you find arousing. Then take time for yourself. Don't just jump into rubbing your clitoris, but caress and fondle yourself. Enjoy how your arousal slowly builds up. Find out which spots are especially sensitive and arousing (inner thighs are almost always a safe bet. breasts for many as well).

    Most importantly though - take your time. And after some time go to your clitoris. Try different techniques of touching it. Circling, flicking, varying pressure, etc. You might also want to attempt pillow humping.

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  • Orgasm does not only depend on the physical stimulation. Pleasure is felt in the brain. Explore your body, especially the clitoris, so that should always be wet during stimulation. Breathing makes a special connection with the brain and enhances orgasm. You must tries to breathe deeply and rapidly (inhalation and exhalation should last less than one second or faster). Such breathing apply during clitoral stimulation. Spiritual give another dimension to sexual satisfaction. Tantra is the best for orgasm.

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    • Tnx for MH.

Most Helpful Girl

  • It will come naturally soon. You do not need to rush things ^^

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  • Obviously be a little gentle since your a virgin but if you put a finger inside 1.5 - 2 inches and curl it upwards toward your pubic bone, you should feel an extremely sensitive spot. That's called your gspot. Just do a "come here" motion continuously. If you want extra stimulation then rub your clit at the same time. My ex couldn't get enough of that.

    • Thanks. I'll try it later.

  • "I'm a virgin and not really into penetration."

    That's because you're a virgin, lol.

  • electric toothbrush.

    • How does that work?

    • well first off use a brand new one if you do do it. but it vibrates. now i obviously dont know from first hand experience but i think most women would tell you it works pretty well. orrrr there are some apps on your cellphone that you can download that make your phone into a vibrator. again, im not sure how well they work.

  • think of a certian someone while masterbating