Guys, So I’ve been wanting my boyfriend to fuck my ass with a dildo while he fucks my pussy, but I don't know how to go about asking him? Are guys into it?

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I’ve wanted to try this for a few years now but the right time has never come up for it to happen. My boyfriend likes to fuck me with a dildo while he eats me out to get me off.. every once in awhile he’ll finger my ass and that usually leads to him fucking it. But usually I never tel him what to do in bed, he’s definitely the more dominant one so I just let him do what he wants to do. I really want to try this but I was a good scenario where I can do it or let him know that’s what I want. So what are your thoughts on this? Do you think it’s hot or not?

SultanT123 · Accepted Answer

Talk to him about this. Guys love bad girls not that type of bad I'm referring to girls who are more open about sex. I've read your description about your partner being dominant over you during sex but it's super awesome or super turn on when sometimes girls being dominant during sex. Like doing BDSM. Tie your partner, whip him and tease him. And there is nothing to hide from your partner specially if it's about sex. Share your fantasy with him.

JSith · Accepted Answer

Just tell him. Being straightforward and honest about how you want to be fucked will probably turn him on. Just go up to him and whisper in his ear, "You know what would be really hot? If you fucked my ass with my dildo while you fuck my pussy." Or something along those lines. It's definitely hot, trust me.

JoeDavila · Answer

You should talk to him about it, I'm sure he would be open to the idea if y'all have done anal before. I think it's hot and would love to do that to my partner. It doesn't hurt to ask

NJ_Casanova · Answer

LOL..."I’ve wanted to try this for a few years now"?

If you are scared to ask why not just put the dildo in yourself... he will be surpised and aroused.

Plus you putting it in will also show him how you like it so it's not painful.

GingerGuy · Answer

Why is it so hard to ask him? Just ask. You've already done it while he's giving you oral, all you have to say is "I'd like to try that this way too" Don't over think it.

foxrider77 · Answer

Wow sounds fun, just have the dildo in the bed while he’s fucking u stop him and say oh I got an idea. Then tell him to line it and stick it in the rear. Say It will make you so horny so he will enjoy doing it even more... I kinda want to try now.

xmark76 · Answer

U know his personality, does he take criticism well? most dont. if u dont take more control in ur life/sex life ur doomed to only live as a slave.

Hozi89 · Answer

I think u should let him walk into the room with u doing it so he will know. to assume his position and start. fucking. ur pussy asap. If u have freaky sex, then you can talk freaky stuff, no biggie, he will love this ideas I'm sure.