So, if size doesn't matter when having sex? Then what does matter when doing it in the bedroom?

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  • Not being selfish and letting your ego get in the way.
    Big or small if you just pull it out and like here it is and just go to work till you get yours roll over and fall asleep. It was a worthless session.

    Communication is key. He needs 2 tell me what he likes and i tell him what i like and how to get eachother off.

    Learn positions and ways to stroke if toys are needed or not.

    It's not hard to figure out we are all different and what works for me won't work on others and vice versa.

    • For real it's all about communication and not always about the size of the guys dick. Like you can have 8 inches but still be bad at sex. Most guys don't understand that concept.:^(

    • Yuppers.

    • Wow, very mature answer for a 20yr old.

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  • Technique. Size is not a big deal to most girls I know.

    • I mean it matters a little but anything in the average range is fine with me as long as he has good technique and good oral.

    • I know right that's what I'm saying like having a big cock doesn't make you a god at sex. I wiah more guys would understand that. I know I'm not the biggest but I would still want to pleasure her pussy by licking it right and make her cum.

    • I agree with you

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  • A really good lovemaking session for me lasts anywhere from 15 minutes to a half hour.

    Only a short portion of it, maybe 2-3 minutes involves having him in me !!!

    It's what goes during the rest of the session that counts !!!

  • Rhythm and pacing for me are the biggest factors. I can barely tell the difference when it comes to size if a guy has good rhythm and speed.

  • I have to say experience, confidence, time, trust and skill are the most important after size. And I've heard that size does matter some times as well. Under 4" and it's too small, above 9" and it's too big. Don't know if those are true or not, but girls have said it, so I guess it's true...

    • good thing I'm not under 4 :^)

    • Same

  • Effort communication willingness to pease your partner

  • The emotional bond with your partner, willingness to communicate and possibly experiment , confidence, and a sense of enjoyment.

    • Kk, :^)

  • The way you hold your partner, how you anticipate what she wants, your willingness to put her needs ahead of your own, your personal hygiene, your endurance and your sense of humor.

  • The reason it doesn't matter to most women i imagine would be that the average vagina depth is 3.77 inches, with the rarer deeper ones being about 7 inches.


    The average penis is just over 5 inches, so someone with an 8 inch dick isn't going to fit all of it in there with most women's vagina length, and to reach the clitoris wall, they don't need to.


    Girth probably matters more since the thing you are stimulating is the clitoris, not the vagina, so only the roof of the vagina is going to be enjoying most of the contact since its next to the clitoris.


    So really you would either need a thicker dick to press against that area more, or you would need to position yourself to put the most pressure at that angle.


    You can also do this with fingers even easier because finger bones allow for applying way more pressure and moving at a much faster speed, women have came in seconds from this method.


    Doing this effectively usually causes the skene's gland to erupt, which most of you probably refer to as squirting.


    There, now any guy who reads this won't be aimlessly poking around hoping they hit the "G" spot.

    • And no, squirting is not peeing, the skene's gland is the female prostate, the liquid is essentially the same clear fluid that in males holds the sperm during ejaculation.

    • Ngi I'm 4 inches but I still am confident that size don't matter. I know there's more to sex than just a guy's dick.

  • Hygiene, confidence, trust, skill, communication, intimacy, openness, creativity, and effort.

    • Nice

  • When girls say "size doesn't matter", I think they're usually talking about overall in a relationship, but speaking specifically about sex... size does matter. It's not everything, there's still fingers and oral and such, but penetration will feel better with a bigger one. That's my opinion anyway, I'm not a chick so I can't really say for sure. Can't imagine a 4 inch skinny penis feels as good as a 8 inch thick dick.

    • What about a 4 inch thick dick 🤔

  • Who told you size didn't matter? Anyways, prowess is best.

    • most girls don't care about dick size as much as guys do. I know size queens exist but those are rare.

  • Being a considerate lover to what she likes and wants, and what gets her off. Most women love oral sex on them as much as med do. Learn how to eat pussy well. Make sure they get off when you are with them and you will have no complaints. In fact, they will brag to their friends.