So like is being lesbian okay?

The reason i ask this is cuz i might be lesbian but like i am scared for some reason
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  • Sure!! Why not? Well, the best way to find out is to try it! If you don't like it, no problem, just walk away! Do you have urges to have sex with a guy? If so, you're either straight or at least bi. If you can't stop thinking about having it away with another girl and you wouldn't even consider doing it with a guy, you're probably a lezzie. When you Jill-off, what are your fantasies? (I'm not asking for me, like I GET OFF on your answer. You don't HAVE to answer ME. I'm just getting YOU to ask yourself. So, just answer YOURSELF.) Do they go more towards imagining you're with a guy, or a girl?
    If you have any lezzie friends, discuss with them what it's like and how they discovered they were lez.
    There's nothing wrong with it, as far as I know. It'd just be your chosen preference. It's NOT like being lez is anything new!! They've been around for THOUSANDS of years!!

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  • My answer is my honest feeling. I LOVE women that love other women. I like seeing two women love each other. They are soft, warm, loving, and they know each others parts. I would love to have sex with a bi sexual woman, as I think that is the ultimate sexual experience. I have known some beautiful women that lover other women, and I understand why they do.
    You have to remember, this society sucks when it comes to gay sex. I don't want sex with a man, because I am not into penises. I do like to see other penises, but don't want to suck one or play with one. Just like to see them. I'm not bisexual, but do understand bi sexual and lesbian women.

    Live your life the way you want. Fuck what detractors say.

    Bruce

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  • I’d say you aren’t sure because you have been around people a lot of your life or environments where being a lesbian wouldn’t exactly be seen as a great thing. And that’s probably why you are scared too.
    If your not comfortable coming out in the environment you are in don’t. But if you feel you are ready to then do, at the end of the day, being a lesbian isn’t going to be easy. A lot of people will judge you. But if it’s who you are it’s who you are and you got to embrace it I guess.

  • Don’t be scared. Being a lesbian natural. But one bit of advice. Whether you’re lesbian or not please experience both men and women sexually. Being gay means you seek relationships with someone of the same sex or find the same sex attractive. Just because you enjoy sex with another woman doesn’t make you lesbian. The same goes for men. Just because a man enjoys sex with another man doesn’t make him gay, it just means he likes anal stimulation.

    • @Hasni5 First of all you know nothing about sexuality. Because you like something physically doesn’t make you anything. “Bisexual” means you are attracted to both men and women. It has nothing to do with sex. Gay, bi and lesbian are all terms to describe sexual orientation about who you’re attracted to. A man can be gay and still never have sex with another man. Just like if you’re a virgin it doesn’t make you asexual. So before you go labeling people sexuality based purely on the things that they do and like I suggest you open your mind because the ideas that you have are based on prejudicial misunderstandings.

    • If you’d like to talk more PM me.

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  • nothing wrong with it at all. only problem is if you live with people who might be bigoted against gay people. do you get that sense from your family members and general community? or do they seem to be a pretty accepting group of people?

    • So my dad doesn't like the whole gay topic but my mom doesn't care and 2 of my cousins are part of the community

    • then, for your sake, dont come out to your dad yet. you could talk to your mom, and then shell be able to help control dad's reaction. but at your age, you are truly dependent on them, so be careful when it comes to your dad. there's nothing wrong with your sexuality, only the way parts of society are still bigoted against being different. hopefully your dad can come around, but otherwise be careful. but also be prideful! there's nothing wrong with you whatsoever!

  • Of course it is. Just be you, experiment, find out what you enjoy. Our desires and interests are not fixed, they are fluid and don’t need a label.

  • I have some WONDERFUL Lesbian Friends, but three of them like the same kind of women that I do, and they almost always get her, and go home with her! Not sure what kind of "Friends" they are!! LOL!!

  • Of course be whoever or whatever you want to be.
    There will always be critics whatever you decide.

  • It's ok. Just don't be obnoxious about it.

  • Of course it's okay. It's natural to feel apprehensive, it's a big part of how your life will be but most people are not bothered at all; people who are bothered aren't the kind of people you'd want to be around anyway.

  • Well, the big question is, is it OK with you?
    Otherwise, the answers you get will all depend on who you ask. Personally, I think that everyone should enjoy who they are, however, if you ask homophobic and/or some religious people they will tell you it's not.
    Fuck them, you be you.
    You can't go through life trying to make everyone else happy. Especially those types who feel they need to force their ideals on you. People who love and respect you will support who you are.

  • It's ok. Besides we can't change our attractions. What are you scared of?

    • I honestly dont know

    • You are still quite young. What are your plans after high school?

    • I am not quite sure yet.

  • Of course means you have eyes too, women are just hotter than men no matter what lol

  • As a bisexual adult, I can in fact tell you that it's okay to be lesbian, bi, pan, asexual, gay, or to not even know for sure what you are right now. It took me years to fully accept myself bebe and I am sure you will figure it out over time.

  • I wouldn’t be in a rush at your age to give yourself a label. You still have a lot to experience in life. Sounds like you haven’t physically gone down that route anyway.

    And quit listening to the alphabet mob (LGBTQWTF people). They pressure and brainwash kids with this crap. It’s something you have to come terms with on your own. Let no one else tell you otherwise.

  • i felt the same way but i realized there isn't a need for labels. its all so stupid anyways. i think about it more like: if your attractive to me then ok cool lets see what happens.

    i get equally turned on by both guys and girls, but not all everyone. but who cares?

    in my opinion i would say don't feel pressure to come out or feel the need to label your sexual identity.

  • Yeah it’s perfectly fine. Don’t let anyone shame you or demean you for it. Just love who you wish and be happy.

  • Of course it's okay

  • Yea it is, some people might just have mixed opinions about it, which shouldn't effect you but can do so indeed

  • You would know by now. Ur just by curious, i know a lot of straight girls that are curious to be with a woman for one time just to see another vigaina upnclose

    • What’s a viagaina?

    • Vigaina as you said?

    • Vigaina? Girls part

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  • Yes. Why would it not be

  • Stick with being bi curious for now and see how it goes.

  • Duh.

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