So my girlfriend doesn’t wanna use condoms no more?

Question

She doesn’t wanna use it and not on no type of birth control and she said it feel way better with out a condom and I’m like duh but I still wanna be safe I don’t even trust my self with pulling out and u trust me and I’m like u would risk it all just for a feeling and she told me she would and I really love this girl and I don’t wanna make this a reason to break up or anything also I been trying to tell her bout the bare skin condoms she doesn’t pay it. I mind how should I go about this

Kabluie · Accepted Answer

You'd be surprised how many girls are like that out there, i went along with unprotected before because it was the first time we had sex and she taken plan B the next day, it wasn't something we wanted to do regularly until she got on birth control.

You control what happens to your penis, so if you feel safer with a condom until she gets on birth control, that is your boundary you can set with her.

If anything you can probably help her find out what birth control suits her best, there are even better options than the pill.

jahaims · Accepted Answer

Have her get on some form on birth control. Do you think she is of sound mind if she is encouraging actions that will more than likely result in both of you being responsible for another human life.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

So she doesn’t want to use condoms or any kind of birth control? Sounds like she might want to get pregnant. You’ll have to decide if you want to stay with her or not. If you do, you’re pretty much going to have to pull out of her during sex. It’s the only other thing you can do.