So the other night I orgasmed when I was told to?

I'm honestly not sure why? Any help or ideas?

So we were having a competition to see who could get who off first while in 69, and I managed to get him off first. And I was gunna pull away, but he grabbed me and continued going to town and used his fingers as well. I got to the point I'd usually get by myself, right on that edge where more often than not I can't get past and I'm left feeling frustrated. He told me to close my eyes and to let go, and not long after that told me to cum for him, cum for me baby. And I did. Literally straight after he commanded me, and even now I'm not sure why that worked, why him telling me to cum worked?
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  • Last time I was with a girl she swore to me that she can't cum unless she does it herself and in all the sex she's had no one has ever made her cum. But I did, and she told all her friends about it like I uncloged the fountain of youth. The thing is not in what he said it's in syncing with you. At one point with that girl I could tell how close she was and would have been able to guess the exact climax moment snd I'm sure your guy did that too, he knew you were at your limit and sometimes you gotta give the command to let loose yourself so he told you to do it (in a sexy way so that helped)

    • Yeah I guess that's true its quite obvious I'm at my tether, but I stop myself or think that I can't break the dam so don't try. I think your right I need that extra push to get me going, and that's what happened

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  • Sounds to me like you might have a submissive streak. Did you enjoy being told what to do?

    • A bit yeah but more like we agreed to things beforehand and he just randomly does them, more like being caged against the wall kinda thing rather than words

    • Submission comes in various forms: physical, psychological, etc.

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  • you clearly found the fact that you was being ordered to cum arousing enough to make you cum

    • I've just never really paid heed to sexy talk before and then it tipping me over the edge just really shocked me

    • cool, first time for everything i guess

  • Sometime host hearing your partner tell you to do something makes it so hot. I love to hear mine tell me to fuck her harder or that she wants my cum it's so hot and makes my orgasms and the sex so much better!

  • Really interesting. 🤔 I'd love to know what you find out. Either way it's awesome it worked out for you.

  • You're lucky to have such a considerate boyfriend. I've heard some girls on here talking about getting their partners off w/o getting their own nut creamed

    • That's happened to me plenty of times, that's why I said it's alright we can stop, as I'm not used to a guy actually caring

  • Congratz, you're a sub!

  • edging

    and control

    why we needed to know this. i do not know

    • Its just I do the same things to myself and it doesn't seem to work he said a phrase to me and I'm in candy land. I guess I don't understand why I can't make myself feel good

    • who knows who cares

  • I can do that to my girl too.

  • Power of suggestion. And probably because u wanted to more at the time.

  • He used your imagination..