So uh is anal sex as painful as if seems or is it actually satisfying?

Thinking about trying something new, but uh not too sure...
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  • Girl it feels so good. Its all about whatever technique you use to allow it in. Practice with toys right up to as big as you fantasize. Kind of what butt plugs are for. Allowing you to simply walk around with it in. An initial stage to open up the muscle to a very relaxed position. Allowing a big toy or the real thing about 90 percent easier. If you stay active anally, you just won't need a butt plug when you find your technique and it will go in very naturally. Unless you feel horny and just like walking around in a public place with a butt plug. Vibrating or the type that has a little ball jiggling inside it as you walk to remind you that its in. In this case use petroleum based lube as water based will dry out while walking over a period of time. If you experience any initial pain, just know that in a quick second or 3, that pain will immediately subside to the most pleasurable feeling you could ever have. So much in fact you'll feel giddy and probably might squeal just at how sort of taboo it is. Remember, its not like porn and both participants should already know the potential of it being a little messy no matter how clean you start. After all its where you p,, p. Lol. Keep a sense of humor. Its worth it. Please avoid a very high protein diet if you wish to maintain anal. Or at 30 hours before. And don't over hydrate. If you use a fleets enema just don't use it to do a totally bowel flush or that will cause problems. You only want to clean your rectum not your colon and entire intestinal tract. Sorry but a lot people don't know. Honestly if you can craft a soft tool to twirl up inside with a soft material with some lube, thats the best way. Puting water up inside you the wrong way too far up can continue to come out later. You don't want that. Can't find this kind of detailed info on Google. I use a tool everytime i poop anyway because personally guys are greases. And i rid the myth that every man working on a hot summer day should have the greasies. I like clean underwear. In my case panties. I crossdress and often live a feminine life. Not gay, but just enjoy anal. If people just get over that it will never be perfectly clean it will be more enjoyable. Then taking it doggy style if you feel very horny and dirty. Other on your back in which a mans groin may give you an anal orgasm tight up against your clitty. Or a better position for you to give yourself an orgasm. Have fun.

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  • Unlike the vagina, the anus doesn’t usually produce enough lubrication for comfortable penetration, so it’s important to use plenty of lubricant. (You can buy lube like KY and Astroglide at most drug stores.) If the muscles in the anus aren’t relaxed and there isn’t enough lubrication, it’s likely that anal sex will hurt. It’s important to relax, go slowly, stop if anything hurts, and let your partner know how you feel — sex that’s painful or uncomfortable shouldn’t continue. Not everyone likes anal intercourse. So it’s okay if you don’t. Discomfort from anal sex should go away pretty quickly — if it doesn’t, and you’re still experiencing pain a few days after having anal sex, you should see a nurse or doctor to make sure that nothing has been injured. Like unprotected vaginal sex, unprotected anal sex is really risky for many sexually transmitted infections, such as chlamydia, gonorrhea, herpes, hepatitis, and HIV/AIDS. Use condoms during anal intercourse to reduce your risk of sexually transmitted infections. I hope I answered your question. Any queries feel free to ask.

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  • As a young woman, I am there with you. I have only had one partner in my life and he was interested in doing that stuff, but I wasn't keen on it... it wasn't very comfortable for me but he was inexperienced as hell (I was his first and he was mine). I assume there's a way to do it correctly where the man is lubricated enough and knows wtf he is doing lol it just depends on the partner and their experience/personal skill as well!

    • How does vaginal intercourse feels like for you? Please describe me that feeling

    • @arya35 with the right person doing the right things, pretty friggin amazing haha but most of the party happens when giving attention to the clit and it's extra good when our breasts are being cared for during intercourse. There's so many things that can make a girl go wild.

    • @HaruKisa But, What kind of feeling do you feel inside your vagina during intercourse? And, How does it feels like without any clit stimulation? Do you think vaginal wall is sexually sensitive?

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  • It's only painful if you're not relaxed and you're tensing up or not using enough lube. Feels a little strange at first, but I can come super hard from it. If you're scared, do a little practice ahead of time with fingers or a toy.

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  • I've tried it with just about every girl I've been in a relationship with and 80% found that they enjoyed how it felt once they tried it and we did it the right way...

  • It's both. Just gotta get use to it and let it loosen up a bit first by slowly getting into. And lube helps. It's way more sensitive there so it's a big pay off for pleasure but yes as you can imagine it's not suppose to go there a dick so it does hurt.

  • My advice - don't go straight to sex, learn how to enjoy anal play first, touch yourself there with some lube, see what feels good, maybe apply some gentle pressure. Go slow though, there's no rush. Maybe after a few times you feel like pushing a finger inside, next time maybe two. Eventually you might want try a small toy, maybe later a bigger one.
    Never ever ever, start by letting a guy ram his cock up there!

  • If you warm up first, use pleanty of lube, and start small, make sure any objects going up there are safe, disenfected, and has a flared base.

  • I have had anal sex with multiple women. They were told that it would be very painful the first time. After we have anal sex they all said that it wasn't painful at all and quite enjoyable. They loved how I prepared their hole to accept my penis. I didn't use a drop of lube either.

  • The first few times, it's painful. After that, it's pleasurable.

  • Depends on how you prepare and if you actually want it.

  • Why do these questions keep coming up?

  • I have had a dildo in my ass and I can tell you it is painful. Never had the real thing though maybe it’s different

  • use lots of lube... so you dont get any harm there.

  • It can be if you don't prepare yourself ahead of time.

  • I've tried it twice, and he wasn't small.
    It was painful at first, felt good once i got used to it..
    after about 20 minutes of him pumping on me, pressure from deep within started to hurt.

  • If you can relax and enjoy it enough it can give you your strongest orgasms

  • You need to suck penis very well before anal sex for use your saliva as lube, after sliding in very easily...

  • google proper methods to do anal be fore you try

  • It's not painful. It is pleasurable.

  • It can be very enjoyable for women and can result in the most intense orgasms of all. But I highly recommend taking some time to train your ass first with a tapered butt plug and other toys before trying the real thing.

  • You need to realx and work you way up to it

  • If you’ve never done it, buy a training set of anal plugs online or at a Spencers. Use lots of lube. My girlfriend and I do only a finger because she hates it otherwise (toot my own horn) because she says I’m too big girth wise and too long and she hates the feeling of it. (We tried it once she felt like she was tearing, and we used LOTS of lube and foreplay beforehand).

  • It can be fun but make sure you use a lot of lube start slow. Also if you xan start with a dildo or something so you have full control