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Have you ever thought about how many types of kisses there are? Think about it! There is the kiss for your Aunt Lucy or grandma who always makes the best cookies, dear old Mom whose always there for us, the one for your child that says "you are my world", for your girlfriend who you haven't seen in a week or two just before a lunch and then for quiet and then there is the intimate times times, for "the nice guy" that you have the hots for you but will never get past tripping over his tongue with you, for the boyfriend or husband whom you once loved so much but is very much in your past, the hot guy you went out on a date with. There are butterfly kisses, Eskimo kisses, closed mouth kisses, the French kiss. Then there is "THE KISS". You know “THE KISS” Passionate, deep feeling, fun, playful, performed with meaning and can communicate a message that there are no words that can describe the feelings that are being conveyed.
It seems that Webster’s dictionary has several different definitions for a kiss. A kiss can be used as a verb or as a noun; depending on the context the word kiss is being used. A kiss as a noun is just that a gentle touch of the lips but "If one were to say KISS ME, now that's definitely a verb. The verb form is defined as "To touch or caress with the lips as an expression of affection, passion, greeting, respect, or amorousness." The noun form means "A caress or touch with the lips" or " A slight or gentle touch." Then there is the ole proverbial phrase that we have all heard "KISS OFF". We all pretty much know what to do if we hear this phrase and we all know that it is a phrase that we none of us want to hear!
It amazes me that so few people can really kiss well. Most people have no clue that they cannot kiss! I had a woman tell me once, "When I kiss you, you will KNOW you've been kissed." Talk about butterflies and making me weak in the knees! When it came time for the kiss and then it happened; all I could think was "really??" What a letdown! Yes, ladies there is a dull kiss what I call a “dead fish kiss” that is kind of like a dead fish handshake that some men will give when introduced. I do not know about you all but when I am with a person that knows how to kiss and is a good kisser I feel I can kiss for hours at a time.
So what makes a good kiss? First, you have to anticipate, think and plan. You get one shot to make a favorable impression; you never get to have that first kiss again. How many times have you both turned your heads the same way and bumped noses or even teeth? Usually results in awkward laughter and then moves on, but it's not the smoothest way! Studies show that two thirds of the people tilt their heads slightly to the right when they move in for the kiss.
Variety is the spice of life. Changing things up is what it keeps kissing interesting. You can start with a closed mouth kiss, nibbling lightly on the lip, kissing the corners of the mouth, scattering kisses across the face, eyes, nose, jaw, ears, and neck. Kisses are erotic and when done properly, with lots of time and attention, can raise the libido from "nice" to "WOW" in a matter of seconds or minutes. There's the gentle, soft, sweet kiss and then there's the hot, passionate, rough kiss that says "I want you now and clothes may or may not come off first". There's the decision of tongue or no tongue, and if yes to tongue, how much? Performing a tonsillectomy is never a good thing unless you're a surgeon. Being playful and passionate with the right kind of pressure and wetness during a kiss can change the meaning of any kiss.
What Girls & Guys Said
2 1Very interesting mytake, never really thought about all the different types of kisses. I laughed out loud when u said "If one were to say KISS ME, now thats definetly a verb". haha love it. I like the verb definition. :) Thanks for the mytake. :)
I am very glad that you enjoyed my thoughts on kisses there are more that I have thought of but I will see if I cannot write another one or something better. Smile
Okay cool. :)
Absolutely enjoyed this, especially the types of kisses and if done right their impact. I have had more awkward first kiss moments... head butts, the dreaded teeth butt.. and once completely mis-read the situation and had that stunned silence as I walked away face burning from embarrassment.
I don't feel like you described what makes a good kisser in great enough detail. Having read this, I still have no idea where I stand which means you didn't get your message across.
That could also mean you just didn't comprehend the article wel.
Actual information passed along: people turn right, you should change things up, avoid too much tongue. Everything else is just fluff and categories of kissing.
Oh and you want to make a good first impression. Lots of talking about kissing here but not much teaching.