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Sexual Health Someone commenting on "small" body parts?
JGenevieve Xper 1
When someone you're dating or in a relationship with you, makes a remark calling your body parts small, when you think are average. How do you deal with it. Or how should I go about that comment? I'm petite but I wouldn't say my tits or ass is that small. It just immediately turns me off and makes me kinda self conscious. I know it's not his intention to make me feel that way. Have any of you felt this way? Even for like males, girls calling your dick small?
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What Girls & Guys Said
2 31Maybe they're pervs.. or just crave sex.. and need big stuff for sexual pleasure only and doesn't care about feelings and emotions..
Although I do understand everyone has some sexual and physical desires and requirements.. I do have them as well.. but saying it to someone that they have small body parts is soo cheap and disrespectful.. shows that all they care about is just sex..
Tell them how you feel, If they don't really care then they don't really care about your feelings.
Well it should turn u off
Don’t wanna start a fight but how can girls say our stuff is small but we can’t be real with them and say they r small Bc they use pushed up yk etc etc etc
That sounds mean, not sure what's the context or the intention, but it's not flattering. I can't really be called small for obvious reasons, but I can see why some guys could feel attacked with a comment like that.
The content was sexual. Like a remark on my tits and this dude literally says I wanna do x, y, and z to your little tits.
Do you think that he thought it was hot to make a comment like that in a weird way? Meaning your tits are nice?
Girls with small boobs and ass are not considered too attractive, they get angry if their boyfriends comments, same way guys with small dick get annoyed when his girlfriend tells him, you are too small
I don't make a big deal of it, I know that in fact I'm not big, so why would I want her to lie to me and say stuff like it's the biggest she ever had? I pretty much made peace with my body long time ago.
Never had anyone say anything was small on me, but I like small on women as long as it’s proportional to her body
you should never be ashamed of yourself. And if someone can't handle it, that's their problem
In your situation, I'd try to change your thinking. Society teaches us (and especially you women with your bodies), bigger is better and that's not always true with a lot of guys. Small can actually be meant as a compliment and a very good thing depending on the guy that said it. Like you said, you know it wasn't his intention, and it probably wasn't. But because of our society and the media, it's very understandable that it would make you feel that way.
For a guy I think it's a bit different. I find (for myself anyway), women have never commented on mine, and if they have, it's never been in a negative way. And for a woman to do so, I think would (and often is) very deliberate and meant to be hurtful or an insult. Otherwise women generally won't say it.
I laugh