Someone Isn't Gay Unless They Like The Same Sex

Short little take for the socially disabled and incompetent.

Quit asking if someone is gay if they do certain unusual things. If a man likes dick, that's the only thing that makes him homosexual (or bisexual, pan, etc.). Not if he wears tight, high-riding shorts, not if he talks with a ridiculous accent with a lisp, not if he listens and dances to Beyonce, not even if he wears makeup.

Someone Isn't Gay Unless They Like The Same Sex

Same with women. If they play sports like football or hockey, wear flannel and drive a Subaru, served in the military, have unkempt body hair, or have a short haircut with ludicrous amounts of hair gel, it doesn't mean they are lesbian. The only thing that makes a girl lesbian (or others) is if she likes pussy.

Someone Isn't Gay Unless They Like The Same Sex

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  • Yep, being gay means you're sexually attracted to the same sex.

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  • I'll regret this but why not

    Gay is also. Term for being happy if I remember. Most people take a look at me and with out asking me think I'm gay. Don't know why they just assume. Don't know if it's because I'm 4'10" and still look like a little kid and not like I'm 41. Also because I seem to be one if the only men in the known world to have an outie bellybutton that makes me populate with gay guys. The looks I get at the gym. Some days are pathetic. So the answer is no I'm not if I was its none of your business and I find it insulting to my friends who are.

    This labeling somebody because they are different is such BS it border lines on pathetic.

    We preach how we are better then others but we still fall back to name calling at the end of the day. What are we teaching the kids. We are their first teachers. Hmm.

  • But you are gay if you take anything in the butt tho

  • In my view, everybody on our little planet is bi to some degree, it might be 50/50, or 5/95%, or anywhere in between, but the capacity to enjoy close genital relations with both genders is there.
    Being bi is about sexual attraction, nothing to do with emotional or loving relationships.
    In my experience anybody, who claims to be 100% str8, is scared of their other least dominant desire side.
    Particularly, outspoken homophobics are very scared of anybody knowing about their real desires, so they speak out to put people off.
    Think about it, bi does not mean you will act upon your least dominant desires, most people never do, but it is there!

    • I can agree with that. I mean, if not for a chance encounter with a guy who would become my boyfriend (and, sadly, my ex), I don't think I'd ever have acknowledged my bisexuality.

    • The idea of sucking a cock or having one up my ass is not something I fantasize about. Not all humans are gay or have gay tendencies.

    • @AlphaMale1 Ok, I can certainly identify a homophobic guy scared of his own gay feelings in your response and user name, your choice, have fun.

  • Truth. People have to stop abusing the gay word its offensive to those who are actually gay, and it makes gay people into stereotypes I don't like it.

  • You would've thought it was obvious Lol

  • I don't really mind

  • Technically you are correct. However, it's still dressing LIKE a gay person.

    • Why does it have to be a gay person, though? Gay people dress in any possible number of ways. Do you call wearing a flannel and jeans gay? What about a guy in a black suit and tie? Many gay guys wear that, but it's not gay to wear that. It's gay to be a man and desire a man. That is what gay is.

    • Because only gay people dress in certain ways. Why are you whining about it? That's gay.

  • meh.. people are ignorant.

  • hah! gaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay.

    ya i read some and agree.

  • Agreed

  • Do you mind not insulting people with learning disabilities.

    • I never went after those with learning disabilities, lol.

  • By "like" you mean have sexual and romantic fantasies about. It's not gay to like and love your friends.

  • This is gay

  • First of all... you can't tell people to stop asking a certain question. Second... there are people who like gay sex but claim to straight. Now I personally believe... gay sex = being gay or bi. But people can call themselves anything they want.