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Something non-sexual that turns you on?

Let's name some non-sexual things that are turn ons. For me one of them is when a guy is patient, or playful with kids 🥰

Something non-sexual that turns you on?
Something non-sexual that turns you on?
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  • I love seeing a guy be nurturing and good with kids too but its sad when you actually talk to most about it AND they say they love being a good teacher/uncle/brother but dont actually want kids of their own lmao smh. Other things, i find it hot if a guy is into skateboarding, surfing or snowboarding. I also like when a guy loves to talk openly and deeply about his past experiences and future goals. Patience is also key but so is ambition. Its hot see them strive for those future goals with a determined mind. I also like when a guy can be sweet and respectful to elder women like their mom or grandma without seeing too attached and coming across as a mama’s boy. A guy who can give praise and talk about the amazing things that the Lord has done for him is beautiful too. If a guy isn’t into partying, drinking, smoking or hooking up, i love to hear that. If he practices celibacy, whether it be til marriage or til the right one comes along, i find that to be the sexiest of all. Then there's certain casual and streetwear that turns me on too lol. But lastly i like lonewolves (alone by choice unlike loners who crave company) who only let certain people in but become so fun to be around when they’re in that comfortzone.

    • Damn i had a lot of typos

    • My name is Phoenix and I approve this message 😂! It's sad, it's like how you gonna be perfect father material and say you don't a mini me 😢lol. I'm with you on when they open up and get deep about their life/past. A lot of men don't like doing that. One thing that made me attracted to this guy I talk to is how patient and respectful he was to the seniors when I working with him. They would be going off and cursing and he was so gentle and sweet... they would calm down and start thanking him for his help. A guy that's celibate and waits for the right one super freakin' attractive! Your picks are IT!

    • I got typos too

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Most Helpful Girl

  • when a guy is really good at something even just the most randomness thing ever (especially if it seems he's effortlessly good), when guys tease you playfully about something, a guy with a hairstyle i like, guys that smell good, when guys whisper something to you or get really close to you physically in a non sexual way, when guys show you how to do something especially if they physically guide you or/and talk to you in a soft way, when they're physically protective of you, them being noticeably taller than you and noticing the height difference, guys with certain styles

    • I remember this one guy was effortlessly good at kicking my butt in a fighting game. I was impressed and turned on. Then there was a time when I was in hs and we were n class playing a computer game where you had to use the mouse to move. He saw me struggling and he came and put his hand over my hand to help guide me on the game. I was so turned on lol... Yep to the height difference too! 👍🏾👍🏾

Most Helpful Guys

  • I mean I think smiling is beautiful, even for no reason just when seeing people saying, waving, walking around etc... And I know the "You should smile more." is really douchy and I would never say that a woman...

    NONETHELESS, you should know we do love a girl who smiles- something about it sends the message that you are well satisfied with themselves and the world around them and genuinely happy. Right now I feel it's so much doom and gloom that seeing a person that looks truly happy and has a jovial face is quite rare and immediately striking. I think this would go for both men and women by the way

  • Sense of fashion, believe it or not can be a sexual turn on but is mostly a non-sexual turn on for me. Like I can tell her ambitions and values and interests from certains fashion choices. But loving learning and physical activity of any kind are at the top of the list. Also caring for animals and people and life in general. Any more and I'd make too long a list lol Those are the highlights. Sadly, I find almost no girls with any of that. I guess I gotta look harder or something lmao

    • Ohh, I agree! The way you dress can say a lot, and can be a turn on or a turn off. 100% yes to loving to learn... and just intelligence period. Your list is great, thanks for sharing lol. Don't fret, they exist! 🙃

    • Yes, intelligence period is great! I just realized a long time ago that if I jeep waiting on a girl who is attractive to me and keeps up with me intellectually, I'll likely die alone lmao So I'm choosing to be less picky and be okay if she is not super smart but is a good, fun person. I tend to be a dark person with neurotic tendencies, so I need a gal who is agreeable and loves people to balance me out I think.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Natural motherly instinct and motherhood definitely turns me on. In society nowadays it’s rare to find women who actually want to be mothers. I am very instinctual as a man and driven by what’s natural. A woman who wants to be a mother is extremely attractive and turn-on.

    • Love that! ❤️

    • I loved your view on it to ❤️ And I could see why it might be sexy to you. There aren’t many men nowadays who want to be a dad

    • Thanks! And it's very sexy. I think I remember reading your opinion on something else a while ago and I was impressed then too. I forgot what the post was about but I remember your username/profile pic lol

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  • Showing/teaching our children something new (ride a bike, lace shoes, dance with them as infants).
    Working in the gardens

  • I love when men explain things like I don’t understand nothing lol and then the smile when they realize I’m just going along with it or fix something for me.

  • For me there are a few:


    If she is exercising and I mean genuinely not in the “I want to draw the attention of men my way” approach.


    If she is good with children.


    Dancing in a carefree and playful way; not trying to be sexy.

  • When a guy is wearing a safety harness and it accentuates the buttocks. The icing on the cake is when he then straps on spikes and climbs a tree/pole 😁

    • Wow, never thought about that, but after imagining... it is kinda hot

  • Boats... Not the boat itself but the vibrations some of them have. I used to live at a place where I had to take a ferry to get to my job. There were two types of them, a newer and an older. The older one were less comfortable and loud but it vibrated in a way that could get me in the mood so to say. Eventually I got in the mood just by seeing that type of boat appearing in the distance 😂

  • Ice cream and cream pies.

    • Wow, third person to say ice cream haha.

    • I guess everyone is excited about ice cream. lol

  • If someone says thank you after a sneeze
    Like wtf this questions at gag

    • Lmao

  • Watching my man attend to any pet, child or DIY thing.
    Also him cooking especially if he's vibin with the music on.

  • Suffering. Sweet screams and pain in a grown person.

    So the saw franchise. :D

    • That's kind of messed up... No? 👀 lol

    • I'm a sadistic bish... so yeah xD

    • Lol nice... *Slowly sneaks away*

  • When a guy is really nice to his family. Especially his mom.

    • Yep, I agree

  • When a woman puts her hair up in a ponytail.

    • I've heard about that one, interesting

    • Yeah! :)

    • What about when she lets it down?

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  • If she has a positive outlook. Someone who constantly complains is a major turn off to me.

    I am not saying she has to show up with a smile all the time, that is not realistic, but seeing me should improve things, bc I know seeing her would improve my day.

  • genuine confidence...

    also, shoulders can be very sensuous...

  • Smell of gunpowder as she walks by.

    Good with animals.

    When that full body sweat is going on from a good workout or outdoor activity.

  • Great sense of humor and witty

    • Oh yes I've always loved a guy with a good sense of humor that can make me laugh even when I'm upset.

  • Certain songs with no sex lyrics in it turns me on.

  • When my partner cooks dinner.

  • When the girl has wet hair

  • I'm not sure it's a turn on, but I really enjoy when a guy is well-mannered and polite with me.

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