Sometimes I feel like I should turn transgender in order to become a boy and then become gay to date a guy. Is that weird?

[Uncomplicated]

[Chadnelson1973]

First it is weird but it's do to all the chemicals put in food , cosmetics , personal hygiene products that rewire the brain and behavior it causes gender confusion it's not natural or normal to have thoughts of changing your gender to get dates or sex or to be accepted God created man and woman everything else is doctors and chemical companies and big pharma trying to play God and Dr Frankenstein and it's wrong and messed up something has to be done

[Uncomplicated]

Hey buddy chill out. There were gays and lesbians before all the chemicals and pharmaceutical companies were brought into existence. So you know there's nothing wrong with it. It is just individual choice and as for God he wouldn't want his children to be unhappy only because they got to follow "his ways". So if you're heterosexual very good and if you're not awesome but at least let others live the way they want

[Dongtai]

Wait a few years until you decide to transition. Date a bit and get experienced. You’ll learn exactly what you want and need. Then you’ll know if you really want to transition

[Uncomplicated]

Yea and that's why I am not getting any kind of transition I don't think... ever this was just a thought.

[Dongtai]

Nothing wrong with that. I just know people who jump into it and regret it later. I’m all for people transitioning. Just make sure it’s something you absolutely want to do

[Uncomplicated]

Yea you're right and I don't know if I reallly want it so.. m just gonna leave it for now

[Trolloween]

Yes it's weird since gay guys like dick and you won't have one.

[Uncomplicated]

You know I personally feel it is more about knowing each other than sucking dicks.

[Trolloween]

So you want to be a guy, with a guy, but it be asexual? What is it about a gay relationship that's different to a straight one? I don't really see a difference

[Uncomplicated]

You see it's just that I am attracted to them and I feel like there is a lot common between me and them psychologicaly. This is why I want to 'become' a part of them. This is the only thing that makes me feel that I BELONG

[Trolloween]

Sounds like you're attracted to a stereotype. But even if you are there are straight or bi guys who might fit that stereotype mould and like you the way you are.

[Uncomplicated]

Shame on me baby. You win! I was wrong

[Trolloween]

There's no right or wrong, you just ironically found the most complicated solution to your problem considering your username is uncomplicated

[Uncomplicated]

Haha yes I guess I did.😊😊

[Cystic_Xenophon934]

That's an interesting idea. I hope it works out?

[Berethor]

Yes it's weird, and you it would be much harder for you to find a guy after doing that.

[Lynx122]

If you're actually transgender then it wouldn't be weird but if you're not then it is kinda weird. Why do you wanna be a guy instead of just dating a guy as a girl?

[ImagineSketchy]

Unlike your username... That's incredibly complicated. A lot of gay men aren't into transmen... Sure they like masculinity, but they also like penis...

[Uncomplicated]

M sorry sir but my username 'uncomplicated' shows my necessity to uncomplicate my complicated stuff

[ImagineSketchy]

I suppose it's ironic that this the opposite then.

[Browneye57]

Beyond stupid, warped, and weird. Consider getting some professional counseling.

[Uncomplicated]

Wow sir I truly see a lot of hatred up there. Chill out amigo.

[Browneye57]

Uh, recognizing stupidity and ignorance isn't hating. Sorry. Do you really mean to represent yourself so poorly?

[Uncomplicated]

Look buddy turning into a guy is not representing myself poorly plus , I don't know about you but I at least don't need to represent myself to anyone. This is my life i don't require to represent myself anywhere, the people who love me accept me as I am so honestly I don't have to impress someone by oppressing my inner self and trust me nobody wants that either.

[Uncomplicated]

And sir I don't know where the ignorance came from it's not only I who has these feelings there are a lot of girls out there, not everyone has been subjected to ignorance. Hey, man you gotta accept this it is who they are and nobody can change that.

[Browneye57]

That is a lot of gobbledy-gook for sure. So many words that mean absolutely nothing. Consider getting a psych referral - you appear to be beyond confused.

[Uncomplicated]

Sir please read my words properly or maybe I should get you a dictionary if you don't know what they mean because my words will only make sense to a literate. Thank you for wasting your worthless time here. Have a good one !

[Browneye57]

You come here asking stupid questions, then don't like the answers, then whine about it. Absolutely incredible. My guess is you've lied about your age, you're really 12. Go away for a few years and actually grow up fully into adulthood. We're done here.

[Uncomplicated]

I am sorry sir. Really it's my fault not yours. I am dumb coming here on an unknown website asking dumb questions. But you know I live in a family , in a society where I am not even allowed to think about it. I've been closeted for all my life, never got the chance to really express who I really am. They'll abandon me if I do. Kick me out. Or maybe kill me I don't know. But you know what it's my fault that I came here being curious about what's happening to me and my mind. But you know what it's my fault my heart told me I have to abscond but guess what? I don't think I ever will. I am very sorry sir.

[Browneye57]

Ask your family doctor for a psych referral. There's never anything wrong with asking for help.

[EnglundUberAlles]

Assuming you're female it makes you part of a very small minority.

[SissyFrenchMaid]

yes its weird

[Anonymous]

or you could just date right now. you're still a girl, you just haven't found the right guy, sorry?

[Uncomplicated]

Yea maybe

[Anonymous]

It’s not that weird. I have the exact same thing lol. I don’t even know why, maybe I used to read too much fanfiction or something. But I wish I was a guy so I could be gay with my crush (I don’t even think he’s gay, but that’s what I would do)

[Anonymous]

What is the thinking behind that? You want to be with an effeminate guy?

[Uncomplicated]

Not exactly. But yeah somewhere you're right.

[Anonymous]

Yes it is weird