Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
A significant amount of women will offer you a sugarcoated response when you ask about your penis size. They will say it's all about how a man works it and place little or no importance in how many inches he is.
The fact of the matter is, in some cases that simply isn't true.
To some extent, size matters to a woman and can be a deal breaker.
Yes, it's true an un-aroused vagina is an average of 4 inches deep, but that does not imply that's the size a woman needs to please her in bed. During arousal, the vagina lengthens and widens and is ready to accommodate a penis. This allows a woman to be able to take several inches longer than that size.
So, what can we learn from this?
When a woman is fully aroused, in most cases 4 inches just isn't enough to please her no matter how "great" you are in bed.
Some men like to wrong women that simply state that they prefer a certain size over another.
I have to ask men that condemn women, would you like to have intercourse with a vagina that you couldn't feel?
I mean, one that's extremely loose.
During sex, don't you want to feel as much as you possibly can?
The same goes for women who prefer a certain penis size, these women want to be able to enjoy sex as much as they can.
A smaller penis doesn't give them the ability to feel as much as they'd like.
For the smaller men out there, I know this is a difficult pill to swallow.
We all want to live in a society where we are accepted by all.
But let me ask you this, how realistic is that?
Even men that are on the larger side, may experience similar problems of rejection.
I doubt, they have nearly as a hard time as a guy with a smaller penis but some women
find sex far too painful with a man who is well over average length.
This leads her to wanting someone who is in between.
You're probably thinking, what size is ideal for most women?
I am sorry to tell you, that is a question that cannot be answered by just one woman alone.
Each and every single one of us are different.
Some women will be direct with you and will tell you what they prefer.
Others will sugarcoat their answers and tell you what you want to hear.
The only real way of knowing, is to establish a relationship with her and eventually time will tell if she was honest with you about her likes and wants.
Cheer up, guys!
There's no point in dwelling on what cannot be changed.
Be proud of what you have.
I guarantee if you try to look for approval in each and every single person, you will be sadly disappointed. Every one of us has different tastes, wants, needs, likes and desires.
The best thing to be, is happy with yourself and sooner or later you'll find someone who feels the same way about you.
What Girls & Guys Said
48 123Anything around 5 inches is a-ok in my book 👌🏼
I like your opinion about penis sizes. 👍👌😋
What do you think if he’s smaller?
lol size matters, same thing with boobs
peeps just sugar coat things here
Boobs hold no significance in this matter they are not used in the same manner, hey have very little in terms of what happens during sex. Nice to look, touch, and whatever but have no significant purpose.
@steveguitar hmm of course I am just doing sort off an assimilation on gag with girls asking about their boobs size and people saying it doesn t matter and guys asking about dick size and people claiming it doesn t matter but eventually in both cases it does. a cups aren t as attractive as c cups for most guys and a 6inch penis is better than a 5 inch penis claiming that both dudes have the same skills in bed. right?
Good job in comparing a 5 incher with an A cup and a 6 incher with a C cup... lmao. archiz
@Maazin wut? :p
that s as creative as I ll get. and fuck those people downvoting me haha they can t handle the truth :p
The troll army will be here sooner or later once they see your valuations and analysis of the bosom and its counterpart. :P
@Maazin they started :O
If that's the case, then everyone has their preference. I don't like anything over a c cup, and that's even a little on the big side for me. I don't like an a cup either though.
@Nothanks700 well yea sure. and everyone has preferences therefore size does matter. and the general public usually shifts to a single size
Honestly, guys like me don't care about boobs at all. I don't even touch them.
@YourFutureEx huh you don t? :o I am glad you ain t my boyfriend xD
lol.. how do i stop the notifications from this thread? Didn't i warn you archiz? :P :D
@Maazin lmfao you can mute the question :P
Lmaoo fuking nerds all over
Yeah that's why I *unintentionally* touch them to keep mah girls under my control ;(
@YourFutureEx oh yuppies xD
@Polocrew y'all get butt hurt man :P
I get butthurt? Lol dude i have like Godzilla dick lmao You nerds are ones getting butthyrt over every shit there is and think fat chicks and small boobs and virgins are hot lmao I just come on here to laugh at these nerds desperation lol
@Polocrew lol man take a chill pill I didn t mean you hahahha
Lmaooo I'm js, This shit is like total opposite of real world lol
@Polocrew Can confirm have seen his godzilla dick.
Again I would like to point out what women's anatomy inside is also different. A women differ with their muscles sets from woman to woman just like men do. Let's acknowledge both sides of the equation here.
No, it's not the same thing. Boobs are a visual stimulation, a penis is a physical stimulation. I could simply not care about boob size, and that's it, there is no other effect that has. You as a girl can't just not care about dick size, because even if a bigger dick isn't visually stimulating, it's physically stimulating, and you feel like you need a good enough size to do said stimulation.
@Dragonblood21 for the love of god... what I am saying is that people on gag tend to baby things. when boobs actually do matter most of the time, people on here say it doesn t. in real life that s not true and it is known that the female's ideal body type is having good boobs and ass as well as a good hips to waist ratio. lacking in any of those downgrades your aesthetics. same thing with penis size, size does matter to a certain point noting that both males have the same skills. got it now?
@Polocrew I don't know why i can't stop laughing reading this
@desidoll now girl don't... his godzilla dick will come after you hahaha
Hahahaha now I'm scared.
@desidoll hahahaha
Not comparable. More women have problems with penis size than men who have problems with boob size
Finally a girl with some honesty on here. I fucking laugh at guys saying they have 5.1 inch dicks on here and girls saying that is perfectly fine. First girl who says that's on the smaller side get's attacked and called a slut lmao.
I got blocked, haha.
And I meant to say not all are necessarily "size queens", but they do like to see a decent sized penis, rather than a Vienna sausage, lol.
Have you really ever measured yours?
lol it is funnier that guys say size matters when they have small dicks. You want to let us know that you have a big dick lol but I doubt
@Lgesj Lol I mean anyway rebuttal is going to make me look bad. You can look at what I said on danii_024 's opinion below earlier and make your own assumption.
7 inches is average. I am a virgin and I would prefer a 9 inch
9 inched cock
@Lgesj You trying to feel it in your bellybutton?
@Slikmix lol no I think I want it in my throat
@Lgesj Well you're not going to find too many 9 inches lmao that's fucking huge. Taking in 9 inches as a virgin?
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oops! ouch! aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!
but non virgin girls (especially those who have been fucked by many dicks) say virgin pussy is as tight as theirs lol
@Lgesj Lol that's not true.
really? then why do they say virgin pusy and non virgin one are the same size? Not to mention that they say a woman who ahs a baby may hgave a tighter pussy than a virgin because women's tightness doesn't depend on virginity. It depends on the woman. And soooo many women told me this. How they know a virgin pussy is not tight? lol
@Lgesj How would a woman know whether their pussy is going to be the same size as a virgin? Ask a man, because they have a penis and know the difference. Don't take advice from women.
@Slikmix those women say their bfs said that virgin pussies can be less tight than non virgin ones depending on women
@Lgesj Well the hoes that I've been with have always been loose. I don't think that's coincidental. Just like people try to say oh the vagina is only 4 inches deep and bombard you with science. You know what feels good and what doesn't (Not you because you're a virgin) but it's the same concept.
@Lgesj Of course. No women have the same size vagina but usually, most of the time virgins have a tighter vagina because they've never been stretched.
do you think having many different sized dick make a woman lose?
@Lgesj Ask @Fearless_Banana this guy gets more pussy than any guy on the bodybuilding forum
@Fearless_Banana does the size of a woman's vagina depend on the amount of sex or the number of her sexual partners?
@Lgesj GTFO u troll
@Lgesj Yeah I already said that. Sloots always have looser pussies. It's not coincidental lol. It's just logic.. sloot taking a lot of BBCs.. it's going to stretch.
what is BBC? And are sluts' pussies looser than those women's pussies who had children?
@Lgesj BBC = Big Black Cock and yes women who have had babies are generally loose in comparison to virgins but I don't know about sluts versus pregnant. I mean a slut could be considered 30 dudes or 100 guys. Would make a difference you know.
what if she had sex with 20 men who had the same sized dick. Is her vagina still loose. And why do those women say their vagina is as tight as virgin's? Are they jealous of virgins for being desired by men?
@Lgesj Lmfao this is just turning into babble. I don't know dude I don't have a fcking diagram of sloots with measurements of the perimeter of the pussies and slay count But yeah I think a lot of them do get jealous. I wrote a whole take on this actually.
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a29147-slut-shaming-we-need-to-stop-abusing-that-term
I think that is why they shame non virgin guys for desiring virgins. Non virgin girls prefer non virgin guys and they hate when non virgin guys want to date virgins. I am a pure virgin. Never even kissed anyone. And I dont mind dating a manwhore. I know you can turn a manwhore into a househusband. And I love my purity and his promiscuity. The opposite attracts. I want to satisfy an experienced and sexually hungry man with my purity grace and care
@Lgesj Yep. That's it. A lot of men will look at you with more value for that. As far as a relationship I honestly rather have a girl with some type of experience but I don't want a hoe. All in moderation I suppose. Virginity is definitely favored in women compared to promiscuity though. Exactly for the reasons I listed in the take I wrote.
What experience do non virgins have that virgins dont have? Faking orgasms? Lol. Jk. But seriously the only experience they can have is giving bj.
@Lgesj I've only had sex with two virgins but both of them laid there like dead fish. Women that have been in past long term relationships with only one or two partners usually are the best. Sluts are not always bomb in bed either. Although the sluts seem to know what they are doing a little more so. Just makes sense. Hands on experience through trial and error you know.
Some women are dead fish if non virgins ones. And i doubt those virgins you have sex with will ever be bomb in bed. I love the idea of lovemaking. And lovemaking is a two way street. You kiss and are kissed. You touch and you are touched, etc. I will kiss the shit out of him. I can't just lay cause the desire will be burning inside me. I am gonna touch kiss and lick anywhere. So you think being active in bed means experienced?
I'm not saying this to brag but I have met girls who I liked, and they liked me but they said I was packing too much heat for them, I even offered to go slow on them in bed, it was still a "no" sadly lol
Well it's not so much length it's more of a mix between length and girth as a long dick isn't going to pleasure a woman if it's pencil thin.
But you also have to remember that they were made to fit into the vagina like a fist into a glove, and just like it can't be to small it also can't be to big, more like just right, sometimes that's on the smaller side, sometimes the bigger side, just depends on the girl.
Preference kind of also plays a part here for our more experienced women in the crowd and just like men are generally fine with smaller breasts everyone knows we like them a bit bigger, dicks function in the similar way in that manner.
I will never get why guys speak about boobs when discussing penis size. It is not a sexual organ and isn't a deal breaker in the bed room. It is only a visual stimulation. A fair comparison would be a loose vagina because we are on the topic of genitals.
Well I was using it as an example for preference as some women have a prefered size or inches they like. And true they aren't organs but are sexual objects and are important in stimulation of a woman as the breasts are sensitive and are one of the arousal areas on a women's body, nipples even more so. And true.
I said it here already in the past and I say it again.
Size does matter to a certain extent. There clearly is a too big and a too small. I have had honest talks with a few close female friends and each one of them admitted that. The general gist of each was that the preference was slightly above average. That accounts more on girth, then in length but generally for both. Why? Because the feeling of being "full" is an extremely pleasurable one. Of course that feeling for some women can already be easily achieved by penises on the smaller scale, but generally it holds true.
Still it is not the most important and what most women mean with size not mattering is that size doesn't matter if you are in the realms of average. Everything in that realm is usually completely fine if she doesn't have vaginism or is so loose that babies just drop out without labor pain.
It also reminds me of the conversation I had with a girl who dated a guy with a micro-penis. She said while he was god-tier in terms of other aspects of sex aka oral-sex specifically, there was still something clearly missing.
"Hard pill to swallow" too soon bruh, too soon.
Some women say, "it's all about the size" Indeed , it takes a big one to fill
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I wouldn't mind a loose girl as long as i loved her to be truthful, thankfully i dont have to worry about being under equipped, i am 7 and a half inches on average, when i say on average i mean when i get really turned on it oddly it gets longer and thicker, not sure what my girth is but i do know its super thick, like rounder then a gatoraid bottle those 32 oz ones, closest size i can think of
sorry girls, same goes the other way around ;)
What ya mean?
@lovelywiz well boobs size and vaginal "tighness" does matter to us too, to an extend. it´s not only us that have to fit into certain criteria :P
Yes size matters I think we all can agree on that.
However I've known a few women who have told me that it is how you use it as well. Seeing their exes were larger than their current SOs. No that could of been with inexperienced guys who have no rthym or whatnot. And they were not sugarcoating either.
And I honestly don't believe women can prefer a certain length to some extent your not sticking up a ruler in your pussy. I mean yeah you prefer it to be bigger a smaller lol but not certain sizes. Some will say oh 6.5 inches is fine. That could be as well as 5 inches lol. Unless you work on a day to day basis that deals with small inch increments your not gonna know the difference between 5 and 6 inches by eyeballing. And I highly doubt during the act y'all measure it. Has never happened to me.
I agree , but you're taking the title out of extent. Yes , size matters but it isn't all that matters (hence , it matters to an extent ). It's not the complete package that makes up a guy.
*title out of context.
True but just wanted to say it. Kinda saw some chicks saying oh I prefer a 8. What if I told you that you've been fucking 5 inchers? Lmao mind blown! Men and women do see things differently.
Women might not know the exact measurement upon looking but with experience and comparing , you can easily tell an 8 from a 5 , and a 5 from a 7 and so on.
Haha I know I used the extremes
Is that Taylor Swift in the photo with the guy?
Size doesn't matter if you're a Christian!
No, that is not Taylor Swift she looks like her though.
I had sex with a guy and it was dark, so I didn't get a chance to see how big he was. After he put on the condom he hurried and got on top of me but I had to ask if it was in. He started moving and I only felt plastic. I was more irritated then pleasured.
If this article doesn't prove the absolute necessity for prostitutes, then nothing will.
What? Because prostitutes will make you feel like the man because they are receiving several hundred. They're the biggest liars of all lol.
Wow, you woman sometimes can be a face palm a minute. Do you actually realise what you have said? Let me do the "reading between the lines" thing: 1) sex defines a man (you implied that) 2) men think that prostitutes love them or like them or whatever (you implied that) 3) you think that men feel like they accomplished something when getting a prostitute. It's has nothing to with any of that. It has to do with life experience, nothing more, nothing less. Why should a good man be denied life's pleasures due to his anatomy? Why must a good man be denied a choice of promiscuity because of his kind demeanour (or in this case, penis lol). Imagine I denied you children, or the ability to experience new countries, due to "who you are". To all those good men who get put on the incel (or close to it) trash pile, prostitutes are the avenue to experience that which women get so easy. experience. That's all.
Your interpretation is very different than what I meant. You're bad a reading between the lines. I did not say sex defines a man, I put in the title size matters to an extent (which means there are tons more important qualities that make up a man). Every response you give to users you somehow mention dirty sex workers and glorify them. I'm actually quite tired of hearing about these sleazy women from you , If you didn't pay them they wouldn't touch you with a ten foot pole. Who are u really fooling here?
No no... not your article, the reply. You said "because prostitutes will make you feel like a man". It doesn't take a genius to see how you think in that line. You think that a man is defined through sex. Simple. But again you missing the point of why I put this shit up. I ADMIT that women won't touch me with a 10 foot pole. But it's because I know women won't touch a man with a 4 inch pole either... you just fucken admitted it in this take. And I don't struggle half as much with women as some others I know. So do you think a guy should then just accept that fate? What you actually saying is that men are not allowed to experience one of life's best pleasures. What you are actually saying is comparable to me saying a woman is not allowed adopting children if she can't have her own. Unfair isn't it? Think openly. That's all I ask.
You pretty much are using prostitutes as the easy way out. What I meant by that line is that, prostitutes don't really want you either they only want the money. There really is no way out, if you're looking for one. What will prostitutes do for you? Make you feel good for a little while, then you go back to your lonely life, that much more broke? You're relying on women who will suck you dry of your money. You in turn, will grow addicted to spending large amounts of money for the sex you crave. It's a beginning of a bad cycle. I'm sorry, I'll never be open to that type of lifestyle. There's someone for every one. This article was only speaking about a fragment of women. I'm sure there are those who are oral lovers and don't care much about penetration who are willing to look past someone's length. You won't know until you stop taking the easy way out.
No no... prostitutes are not an easy way out, that's what you women are not getting. they are the ONLY way for many men. But, this only exists in one context : casual sex and dictating your sexual path. I know prostitutes don't want their clients. I don't buy them flowers or shit like that either or fantasise about them. I know this. But they are brilliant when it comes to things like: if I want to experience sex with a hot girl (cause I cannot attract them), I can. If i want a red head, I can. If I want a threesome, I can. I don't have to die thinking "I wish I had a threesome". It's the same as porn stars. They get their fantasies because they pay women to do it. I wish women would be that crazy without money attached to it. If I paid for a porn scene, I would get it (and I am doing that too, the money thing isn't a problem). But ask those same women to have fun back at your place without it? It doesn't happen. Strange.
Guys dont need love from ons or prosititutes
@Lgesj exactly!! But we can get sex, which is awesome. If I want love, I am a really good guitarist, we can smoke weed around a camp fire, I play some songs, somebody sings, we have some drinks... that's love ha ha
Is it true that masturbating every day will make my dick smaller?
It's funny how there's woman on here saying they can feel the difference between 1inch of size. I never knew the vagina was also usable as a ruler?
So much butthurt here :o.
It was never said, that the truth would be sweet. And I accept it.
I honestly thought, that size doesn't really matter as long as it's not too tiny. But oh well.
If size really does matter like that, well then it does. But I am not going to change the length of my penis (: I have 15 centimeters and that's all I need and want for my penis. If I am super turned on, it can reach an even greater length.
Good take! Thanks for sharing!
I think the mis-implication that some are getting from this article, is that I am saying that bigger is better. I made no mention of that at all. I was purely speaking about smaller penises. I think as long as a guy is average , (5.5 and up) he has nothing to worry about. Guys with smaller penises, of course can satisfy women in other ways but they need to know the type of woman they are dealing with. Some women are into penetration while others are oral lovers.
Just converted my penis length, 15 centimeters is 5,9 inches. But okay, I'm fine then :). Still got a sex driven sexy girl to find for myself.
Why do guys get mad when women are truthful, but also get mad when they lie? I see a lot of mixed reactions from this post.
Anyway, average is just fine for me. My boyfriend is 6 inches and that's perfectly fine for when we decide to do it.
Cock sucker is fine for these type of gurls
Guy's get mad are angry, because they themselves are small and have confidence issues. I don't mind at all for when women are truthful. I prefer truth over sugarcoating a scenario that could effect her potential happiness going forward.
i too prefer truth over sugarcoating. getting mad is just a defense mechanism. its just a manly way of dealing with hurtful emotions. still better than crying. better to be mean than be a pussy , haha
6 is a little above average but sure
It is same when it comes to boobs... boobs size and how do look do matter a lot to me...
The bigger the better
Do you think it would matter to a girl when a guy has a microscopic penis when it's flaccid, but an avarage one when it's erect?
No, although if you're a grower rather than a shower she might at first have the wrong impression.