Guys, Spice things up in the bedroom?

Fellas, I need your input. Me and my boyfriend are very much in love with each other and I plan on keeping it that way; especially in the bedroom. My boyfriend is all about making love versus the rough stuff. Don't get me wrong, that happens too but he's more into missionary and me being on top so he can see everything. Lol and it's amazing! There's such a connection!

But, I wanna spice things up a bit. I want to give him what he wants but I want to also get creative. Any ideas? He's not into the lingerie (he prefers me in a tshirt or naked), and I'm not getting tied up. Lol but I'm open to other ideas! Give me what you got!
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  • You are best to talk to him about this because like you women, we are all different and like different things. Also regarding "spicing things up", this might be how you feel only (as in he is just fine). And depending how deeply you feel about this (need it "spiced up"), it might be something to watch (ie are you getting "bored" with him and/or not sexually compatible?). But talk to him. Find out things he and that you both might like to try or do. It's all about communication and getting to know each other.

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  • Why not speak to him about it as clearly he has specific likes

  • Make him watch u playing with yourself and licking your own nipples while he is jerking off then tell him to eat you, while he is eating you tell him you want to suck his cock , , He will be so in love with you trust me

  • Masturbate for him, and ask him to jerk off for you while you do it.

  • Well you said you want to give him what he wants. What is it that he wants? We need to know that first lol

    • Meaning, he likes missionary and me on top. I want to still give him that but I also want to be creative so I need ideas. Like, I thought about getting some whipped cream involved for an example. Lol

    • Maybe you can try reverse cowgirl, maybe tie him up or blindfold him if he's into that, or do a stop-start thing.

  • Tie him down and tease the fuck out of him.

  • pegging?
    tie each other up?
    rimming?
    toys?
    prostate massage?

  • how about edging and ice play, have him use a ice cube to tease your sensitive spots and him lick up the water to warm them back up.

    • I thought about the ice thing. I actually heard that an ice cube during a blow job was pretty intense (in a good way). Any experience? Lol

    • yes i have experience, definitely warm him up with a little blow job first or the ice will just make him shrink, also good when he does it to you his mouth on you with ice in his mouth.

  • Try to sit up during missionary skills you're face to face. It's a bit difficult to get it right, but it's easier to make out while having sex once you get it right

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    Guys, Spice things up in the bedroom?
  • First, he likes rough stuff but he likes you too much try it. So do it to him. When he comes home. Be sexed up in a school girl miniskirt (works for me) and handcuff him to the bed. Then force him to do 69 and then go all out.

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