Spit in my mouth, please?

Okie dokie, I recently realised I'm hugely turned on by the thought of a guy spitting in my mouth at some point during sex. How the hell do I bring this up with normal people? Please dont give me "If your comfortable enough.." etc etc I need hint or two as how to go about it and what sort of conversation should we be having that will allow me to transition into it easily. I know its not a huge deal I just dont want to seem strange. Ta x
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  • I suggest getting him away from the sex. Get out, say over an intimate drink, and ask him how he feels about your sex life together. Ask him about fantasies he has, esp the dark, nasty ones. Then tell him you love the studly way he loves you but that he's just too damn big! Wink You can never tell a guy that too many times like you can never tell a woman she's beautiful too many times. Then tell him you have some fantasies. When he looks all excited in anticipation, tell him you want to be manhandled and over powered and if he'd spit in your mouth whiles he's having his way with you, you find that hugely erotic. Tell him if he missed and hits your face to just try again and keep after you.

    Do you like it pretty rough? If so, safe words are really mandatory. There's an article I wrote on My Takes about safe words and rough sex that you might find useful.

  • Is it just spitting in your mouth or is it part of a fantasy of being dominated or not? If it's part of a submissive fantasy, the best way to do it would be start doing some other sub / dom stuff and work up to it, then you can ask for it whilst roleplaying your 'submissive slut' persona ('you gonna teach this dirty slut some manners, spit in her mouth?' or something along those lines) and it should be just a natural part of the role play.

    If it isn't part of a submissive thing, not sure how to bring it up without it sounding strange. Maybe just introduce spitting into your sex life a little yourself (spitting on his cock as part of a bj would be a good start) but at some point you're probably just gonna have to pop the question.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Easier to approach by asking about their fantasies first. Also a lot of people find it easier to talk when they're not face to face so maybe try that.
    Just be careful, sometimes what we fantasise about is not what we want

  • It's in some p*rn , watch that and just say that would be hot to try, or give him a blow job then ask him to spit in your mouth too, most guys will do whatever you want after a blow job

  • Bleh.. i'm not even going to lie, this made me cringe and grossed me out. Just tell him straight up to spit in your mouth, that it gets you going. >_>

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  • I mean just flat out day hey when we fuck can I spit in your mouth? There is no subtle way to ask that question just go balls deep and ask and you may be surprised at how many people would agree to at least try it.

  • There seems to be something for everybody.
    I assume that you are french kissing your BF, so you are already swapping spit.
    So technically, it should be no big deal.
    It might put off some guys, as spitting at someone is generally a act of disrespect.
    But if you like it, and it gets you going, then just mention it during a hot sex session.
    A caring lover should be able to deliver for you.
    It certainly couldn't be any worse than having cum shot in your face or mouth.

  • hrrrrrrrr... ptui!!!

    i spitted in your mouth!

  • Just outright ask for it, if he teases you a bit or is unsure if you are serious just go with the flow, be positive, don't be ashamed of what you like, everyone has weird stuff about them and for the most part it's really not a big deal.

  • Well pop up question how ejecting increase there orgasm at climax. Then agree. He will ask why did you ask such question. Just similar 'I get climax by receiving a spit.

  • wtf is wrong with you?
    why?
    even my bf is like wtf?
    why?

  • Do you want me to push against the wall and call you a slut first?

    • Was that meant to be passive aggression or? Haha!

    • Na it's just aggression lol

  • What... The... Actual... Fuck

  • Just be blunt and say spit in my mouth, easy.

  • Thats Disgusting and Degrading To Females.

  • Awesome! You are a trooper!