Step sister tried to seduce me? Or just a sister thing?

Main details
•my step sister was adopted when I was 3 and we got along pretty well
•she slept in my room and we used to hug each other (we were infants that time)
,•This continued till today
•But today I had a small erection and she could feel it... She laughed and said "I love sleeping with you.."I felt pretty awkward and said I need to use the wash room... End

Additional details

she's 2 years elder to me
We adopted coz my mom got miscarries
At 13 I told her that we should stop and she was like shut up I like it
Everyone says she's hot af (I can't see it because I do not look at her that way)
I had an erection coz that day my crush got really touchy with me so I was thinking bout it that time

SO IS SHE LIKE INTO ME OR WHAT? I can't BELIVE SHE THINKS OF ME THIS WAY
Updates:
+1 y
Many peeps saying stuff like gross and what not. Hope youl are aware I have feelings too. It's very offensive. Because I've always thought about her as a sister and nothing else. I've never looked at her any other way.. And for a record my parents knew that we hug each other since childhood. They wouldn't interfere at all. They just once told her to change her room and she said" I don't wanna sleep alone. I'm scared "
+1 y
I've talked to her bout it.. She's like" don't think too much... Your always like a bro to me I love you " .. so I guess it's gonna be a while till we get this sorted out And by hugging I mean like hug or sometimes she would put her head on my chest etc... NOTHING SEXUAL OR SUCH JUST THAT
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Most Helpful Girls

  • When she keeps at it, say something sassy like "Stop it sis, I'm already grown uppppp!" or "Ugh, you're making me uncomfortable." you don't have to say it seriously because that might hurt her feelings. Don't say it lightly too or else she won't take you seriously. Say it like you're annoyed or grossed out as a teenager/adult and try to distance yourself then stick out a tongue at her or something so she won't get too hurt when you do. Sassy is key. Keep moving away when she initiates physical stuff. The eventual routine of distancing yourself from her will actually get her used to change, and she might not bother you anymore soon. My younger bro snaps at me and pushes me away or distances himself from me every time i try to poke him, hug him, tap him, or what, and so i got used to avoiding physical contact with him so he won't get mad. Most of all, be consistent!!! Good luck!

    • Tysm

  • I don't see anything bad. Her cousin has nothing to do with you - I mean, she's not your cousin. So just try to communicate with her, spend more time with her and maybe you'll find out if you love her, though I think you feel something to her already. I don't know if she loves you or feel something the same, maybe she loves you as a friend, so you shouldn't hurry.

  • Really hope this isn't some fantasy thing... I fucking hope this stuff make me sick
    If this is a real question you need to draw a bold ass line and throw her out of your bed regardless if she whines or cries tell her you need space, I know your not the one at fault but you will be if you let that be ok and that shit is gross

    • I don't see how this is a fantasy... And the word gross really hurts me.. I've never ever looked at my sister in that manner.. And I'm so like I don't know.. A weird feeling in me

    • I apologize as I said it's not your fault I don't think ill of you just a lot of creeps on here get off to that stuff

    • Yes I've seen in the comments section

  • Hell I don't know, but at the rate it's going your chastity is at stake.
    Lemme just tell you, do not cross that line.
    Cause once you do, nothing will ever be the same. And everyone will always look and think differently of you for it.

    • I never see her in that manner. I've always thought about her as a sister and nothing else. I would never ever cross that line

    • Good guy.

    • Off course. I'm really disappointed at the rest of the peeps calling me gross incest.. very disappointing from the g@g community

Most Helpful Guys

  • I don't understand how and why do ur parents let u two sleep together at such an age that's ridiculous, it's messed up tbh, and u r experiencing the consequences of irresponsible parenting. Of coz u weren't making any wise choices and kid past age 10 should learn to sleep on their own this is so sad.

    • Check the update

    • Sleep together, that's not the same as hugging. It is not normal to sleep together when ur older and if u do let her do as she like ur spoiling her, as a good bro u shouldn't let that happen. As far as the current information u have provided it seems u two need to stop, since it has confused u and of coz it will create misunderstand when others find out. Talk to ur parents I don't know why they let her do as she like.

  • Yeah, she needs to learn a little respect for boundaries.

    Not normal and not acceptable.

    • So it was a seducing thing?

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  • Legit incest kills me.

    • Did u read it properly?

    • Yep, but from reading another comment, I just needed to say that. Also I advise maybe trying to chill her out or sleep somewhere else.

    • I tried she said she's scared to sleep alone... And I don't know what's gonna happen tmrow when we sleep

  • Either way she is your sister and you should probably tell your parents about it and maybe get a room to yourself that is Uber gross and I lost my breakfast cheers

    • Involving my parents would worsen it... What if she doesn't have any intentions like that... And don't say gross it's very mean.. It's not like I've done something.. I've never looked at her that way

    • I wasn't pointing my finger chill. It maybe that am from Britain and here if a sibling either male or female, adopted or not this would be a crimal case. She was adopted in to your family and doing something like hat would still be considered very bad. Forgive me if I seem rude or mean but it is what it is and you should whatever you want. Agian am not blaming you or pointing my finger.

  • End it before it gets bad and law down the law on her and tell her don't do that and say nice or etc.

  • I incest you stop this

    • Stop calling me incest.. Really offensive

  • Tell her your not interested she is your sister, let your parents so in case down the line they need to intervene they won't be blindsided

    • I can't just say that to her.. I really don't know what her intention is

    • Well tell her your uncomfortable

  • I agree with everyone else. This is sick man. You need to man up, be the bigger person and stop with the contact and sleeping together.

    • Kind of mean TBH .. I've never looked at her that way.. I don't see why u would tell me that

    • I didn't say that you were at fault. I said you need to be the bigger person and cut this shit out, even if you never thought of that (which I don't believe) you should know at your age that you shouldn't sleep together. Besides you said you got a hard on. So really, I don't believe a word that you say. If you care about your sister at all, stop sleeping with her and maintain a just completely friendly relationship.

    • I've mentioned I got a hard on because that day my crush got really touchy with me so I was thinking bout it that time. And I've never thought bout her (sis) that way

  • Uhh.. maybe sleep with her again and find out... if she's gonna do it again gtfo

    • Not funny dude

  • cool story bro

  • She is your sister. She is out of order.

  • Time to get yourself a different room

    • I did we have another room.. She said she's scared to sleep alone

    • Fine, just sleep in your own room and let her get used to sleeping alone. Period

  • you should tell her
    I'm your brother and I love you as my sister

    • Not as simple as it seems

  • And she need to use you END

  • Test her shorts. No, just kidding. But seriously you should sleep in different bed.

    • We tried it she said she doesn't like sleeping alone

    • Well, sometimes those erections can be quite tricky.

    • Wdym by test her shorts?

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  • Wooot, im dreaming about fucking step sister whole life haha but i dont have one:(

    • Please stop with comments like these... It's real. Life not fucking porn

    • Sorry, just ask her, we can't know what she think :P

    • It's quite messed up

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