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Let me tell you something, I'm 21 and a Virgin, let me tell you something else. It doesn't bother me. I'm not depressed because I'm a virgin. I don't think I'll lose it this year. In all likelihood I'll be 22 or twenty three when I lose it. However I don't really care. Not at all. There is nothing absolutely nothing wrong with being a virgin in your twenties.
You know what is so fucking annoying though. Acting like your life is absolutely over because you are a virgin.
Seriously, you are complaining and moaning and whining about being a virgin. Do you think that's likely to change anything? Do you think that any woman anywhere will find that attractive? The reason that you will be single forever is because you keep fucking moaning about this. Its annoying.
Being a Virgin shouldn't embarrass you the fact that you go around constantly whining woe is me I've not had sex and I'm 22 years old should. All you are doing is setting yourself up to keep being a virgin. Seriously stop fucking whining.
Seriously, ask any of these women on here if they find the fact that you constantly whine and moan about being a virgin attractive (I'm 99.99999999999999999999999999999999999999% sure they don't.) and girls feel free to confirm this in the comments.
The most unattractive thing about you isn't your virginity, not by a long shot, its that you constantly bitch and moan about it.
What Girls & Guys Said
27 31But it os though. You're missing out on your best years. That's like walking dead.
Lol, it's not this year and you don't care if it's 22 or 23.. You keep thinking like that until it hits you in the face that you'll be an old man in no time. Time flies by you. Watch out.
lol, plenty of people in the states lose it at 24 or 25 or even26
Time flies by... Just saying. by the way this take is also quite wrong, cause people don't whine expecting it to change lol are you nuts or what? They come here to complain cause they have nowhere else to go. No need to bash on them.
You'll also find out that the average is about 16 to 20yo
But why does it even matter? Why do you need to qualify yourself with sex? The vast majority of people have sex, it's nothing special. If someone is young and hasn't had sex, but they're achieving far more than most people, they have no reason to feel like they're missing out on anything.
@Kkaos if it matters to them, then there is a reason for them to be concerned. People value different things in life. And in case you haven't noticed yet, we always want what we don't have.
Not always and it clearly doesn't matter to the guy who wrote this but you were trying to say it's important as he was missing out on his best years. I mean sure, if it's important to you, go out, try and change it. Complaining about it isn't going to do anything though, in fact it makes it worse because you're being depressed and feeling sorry for yourself and few people are going to want to have sex with someone like that.
@Kkaos read my second reply then. People like you clearly miss the point then.
I think I understand the point quite well man.
@Kkaos ok, and you were partially right on the last reply
It's not the end of the world but if you are a guy/girl and want to lose your virginity but you can't then it is highly suspect that you severely lack physical attraction.
This is even more important on the men side because this creates mistrust for women wants they start making money and seeing them as gold diggers. After all the only difference between the man before and after is now he has a wallet.
Honestly, no one should care what others say since most people now a days will judge you no matter what age you had sex. If you fuck at 12 your a whore or if you fuck at 15 a whore or possible slut, 20s a pune. You can't win so don't care in the first place is the way to win.
EXactly!!! People are never happy. It's important to keep this in mind!
@Unit1 Exactly even on here people are not happy with answers lol or when you post a question they are not happen with the OP.
It's embarrassing when people moan about being a virgin. Being a virgin is fine.
In and of itself, it is. Where it becomes a problem is when it becomes leverage for someone to be bullied by someone else. When mean girls tell a guy who's just trying to be friendly and gets rudely shot down by a gal that he'll "die a virgin loser, and will never even find a woman that wants to kiss him." Some men take that as a challenge. And that challenge can become an obsession.
We're the same age and I feel so young srsly. I think sex is overrated. What's embarrassing about avoiding stds or drama in relationships anyway!!!
Just "sex" is over-rated. Making love to a partner with whom you have a deep, emotional and spiritual connection is truly mind-blowing. But I've not had that kind of connection in many years...
@Tony1974 I want that actually. But what makes the making love sex different from regular sex? Like do you do anything differently physically or is it all energy?
It's the energy both people bring into the encounter. It's the passion, the love you feel for each other that make love-making so much more than just plan mechanical sex...
@Tony1974 I wonder if you could make <3 without fucking?
Fucking is just what wild animals do... Fucking is just one goal in mind: getting MY rocks off. I'm sure you can be mutually satisfying fucking but it's usually not the case. Fucking is a selfish act.. that's why fucking is considered bad. It's all about intent and connection.
@Tony1974 So... yes? Make love without sex is possible?
Sex is just the act; making love is when you're physically, mentally and emotionally connecting with you partner on all levels.
@Tony1974 Amen!!
You wrote to sjoes006,
"I was actually advised by... my new therapist"
Perhaps you should ask your mental health experts about your choice of words and tone when giving advice to people. Ask them if it's advisable to use phrases like "so fucking annoying" and "seriously stop fucking whining" and others. Ask them if they use phrases like that in their practice to their clients.
Now I know that you are going through very difficult times, Waffles, and I feel for you. I also know that it's a tendency we have to look at things other people are upset about and get annoyed, thinking those things are trivial. It is doubly true with people who are themselves depressed and suicidal. I know this because I do it too, sometimes, and my friend who is a therapist confirmed it. We all do. But the way in which you speak to these people matters, and in all likelihood you just alienated these virgins, not brought them around to see the light.
A more honest title should be, "I wanna vent about people I perceive as bitching and whining"
P. S., I've seen first hand the effects of people who haven't had sex all their lives, and I'm talking people who are more than twice your age. It ain't pretty. It's a legit concern, which is why I always ask people what they are doing about it, not telling them to shut up.
Have YOU SEEN these kids on here I've seen at least a dozen people my age or young literally start to hate women because they are a virgin and just go about bitcing about women. This isn't what you described and don't even try to compare these assholes to people with legitimate mental illness. They aren't.
Of course I have seen them. On gag it's hard not to. Furthermore I thought I made it very clear I'm not comparing people complaininget about being virgins to people with mental illnesses when I used the term "legit concern," and not "legit mental illness." Perhaps you inferred it from the mention of therapists. Therapists, as you know, deal with people facing a spectrum of problems, from mental illness to frustrations. Did you ask them yet, by the way, if it's wise to use the terms you used? Is it an effective way to get people to listen to you? If all you have to say is that their whiney assholes, and they should shut the he'll up, then be honest with yourself and say this take is really just you venting, not offering anything worthwhile to say on the subject. Now, have you noticed these takes like this one, name calling "nice guys", complaining virgins, mgtows, etc. have become a dime a dozen?
I agree wholeheartedly.
That's a huge percentage of the gag questions bro, and frankly I'm glad you put it on blast. The more critical you take loosing your VCard the longer it'll take.
I think the only important thing is that when you lose your virginity you do it when you're ready for it... and from my point of view that would mean: with a girl you're serious with. No sex for pleasure :-(
Great Take! I totally agree with you, man! However, a part of me can sympathize with them a LITTLE BIT. Many virgin males in their 20s actually ARE turned down by women simply because they are a virgin, because they think the guy will be bad in bad or want a man who has experience. So for more women than they'll admit, yeah it does matter if a guy is a virgin or not.
But overall I agree with you. My brother is 26 and still a virgin and never thinks anything of it.
Pretty much. Definitely not that big of a deal. And a lot of people that have had sex wish they had waited, so there's that.
So true! Just because some people keep saying that you should have lost your virginity already, doesn't mean that you have to. It's better to lose it with someone who you like than with some random dude or hoe you met on a party.
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While a virgin should be a no big deal. However, more girls are starting to look down upon guys who are virgins. The older the man is, the worse things become with the ladies.
touché
Years ago I was embarrassed or kind of ashamed that I was the only one among my friends. Now I'm not as but I still wouldn't shout it off the roof top.
Don't forget the companion to this: huge value placed upon one still holding a vCard.
For real!!
It's very pathetic how some people are sad over virginity. Is that all what some people care about? Pff, I don't even want to have sex. I've got other things to be sad about.
Agreed. Someone complaining about their virginity is just as annoying as someone putting their sex life out there. Both are TMI and only paint someone in a negative light.
I mean I see people go oh what will people think if they know I'm a virgin or that I've slept around. It's like what law is there that states that you must advertise that info? Every time I've had sex with a girl, they've never asked if I'm a virgin or how many people I've been with? It's always do you have a condom? Are you clean? Which are good enough. Only girl I've had ask about how many people I've been with was crazy and straight up volunteered her sexual history. Like that was the majority of the conversation and I didn't ask for that. I was just thinking why are you telling me this? I actually prefer not to know a girls past in that regard.