Stop being slutty?

I am quite easy to find a guy cute and kind of like want to hook up with them. How can I stop being a slut

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Most Helpful Girls

  • You can't stop being something, it's like you steal something... you're a thief, you will ALWAYS be a thief, you can't stop being a thief, you can stop stealing though. The same goes for rapists or anything else, cheater... once you do it once you always are that.

    You can't stop being a slut, but you can stop doing those things.

    I don't see it as a bad thing... I don't. Just look at the big picture, what do you want in your future? is this how you want to live the rest of your life... and also realize the more you do it, the less likely you'll find a good man someday as it will limit your potential dating pool.

    Which in itself isn't a bad thing either, depends on how you view it.

    Look inward and decide what you want and decide how to move forward, be it continuing down this path and doing it, or start planning for your future that you want and take steps in that direction.

  • Why stop? We all have different sexual interests desires and sex drives. If you enjoy sleeping around than carry on, it's your life and body, no-one has the right to judge. I do think there is some truth to saying that once a slut you'll always be a slut. Its part of some people's personality, it is for me. Just be comfortable with who you are.

    • Fllow me baby

Most Helpful Guys

  • Why are you slut-shaming yourself? Don’t, and don’t allow others to do it to you. Do what you please, just do the necessary precautions to prevent unwanted consequences. Maybe read “The Ethical Slut” by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy.

  • It's a conscious decision.
    Decide that the sex is not worth it and aim to get to know the person so that sex becomes within the context of a potential relationship

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  • You can't, once a ho, always a ho.

  • By not hooking up. Free will, make your choices. Liking a guy is no problem, just hold yourself back if you have to.

  • I don't see reason to be upset about. Totally normal. Do what you feel like.

  • Think about more than immediate gratification in your life.

  • Don't stop. Be proud of who you are.

  • Practice some restrain. It isn't more complicated than that.

  • Self discipline. I don't know how "slutty" you consider youself to be but learn to control your primitive urges. Start by having only half as much sex you usually do for a month

  • why? you are young , stop listening to those prude and enjoy your life

  • Why stop?

  • haha be whatever you want to be. I'm sure someone will appreciate it :P

    • They know that only the guys that want to hook up will appreciate it. That commitment, security, rings and wedding they might want later... not so much.

  • Don’t desire sex all the time , dress appropriately , and make a relationship about hanging out and not about sex. Masturbate more often

  • That's is not slutty. That is your decision your body your heart. Nobody can judge you as a slut because of that even you can't do that :) Be happy feel good that's the point.

  • Change your behaviour and your style

  • Self discipline.

  • I can't with this site anymore. The other day i read a question about a girl who said that she was stupid and poor. The next day a girl said she was an idiot and wants a daddy. Now this? Lord

    • I bet they were trolling.