Straight guys, how would you feel about rooming with a gay guy?

Especially if you didn't know him at all beforehand. Would you be uncomfortable at all or just not worry about it?
I would be uncomfortable until I got to know him.
Vote A
I would always be uncomfortable with him.
Vote B
I would not care at all. It makes no difference.
Vote C
I would not care, really that's better than a straight roomate.
Vote D
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  • Speaking on my boyfriends behalf;
    He’s in the military and he roomed with a gay guy before. He didn’t know the guy at all except that he was rumored to be gay. My boyfriend isn’t homophobic, but he doesn’t want the guy to think of him in that way, especially as a roommate and having to share such a small room, practically sleep a few feet from each other, and have one bathroom. He was uncomfortable with the thought of it, but the guy was respectful. He didn’t have an attraction to my boyfriend.

Most Helpful Girl

  • It shouldn't really matter unless they're harassing you. I'm not a straight guy, but I feel like most would agree with that statement.

Most Helpful Guys

  • As long as he's not after me, and as long as he's not bringing other dudes back to the room, it wouldn't make any difference to me. I have a couple of gay cousins and I've had a number of gay colleagues, and there was never any issue, so I've got no reason to expect a problem. And if there WAS a problem, it would be less about them being gay and more about them being generally disrespectful - which could just as easily happen with a straight guy (been there, done that).

  • I wouldn't worry about it unless he tried making advances towards me.

    • Now I want an Ice cream sandwich

    • Ha I want one too that's why I picked it.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I have a gay friend. We've traveled together and stayed in the same hotel room. It's not an issue.

    • I've done the same, mutual respect and all that,,,

  • I couldn't care less about another dudes sexuality. Let them live their life how they see fit

  • Id have to refuse that offer.

  • I don't want gays ANYWHERE around me.

  • like any other roomate.

  • I'd be cool with the situation, good way of getting to suck dick tbh lol,,,

    • You're straight and wanna suck a dick?

    • Recreational sex mate lol,,,

    • Well okay

  • I have in college. Way more clean and very considerate of their raucous parties. Didn’t allow me crashing a few.

  • I set up boundaries right away.. as long as he followed them and left me alone I'd be ok with it.

    • What do you mean what kind of boundaries?

    • No inappropriate stuff in the common areas of the house. Respect each other's privacy. Stuff like that

    • Those just sound like normal boundaries you'd have for any roomate.

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  • Just because he’s gay doesn’t mean he’s a rapist. As long as the respect for each other’s lifestyle is there then there shouldn’t be a problem. Any issues that come up should be spoken on immediately so there are no lines crossed.

  • I wouldn't care. My wife and I have had sex in front of our gay friend while in our hot tub. My wife has given me a handjob in front of him also. I'd never do anything with him. But it's such a turn on to have someone watch my wife do that to me. He has also seen me naked other times when changing for pool. And seen me pee outside at night when too lazy to go in house. No big deal, when you gotta go you gotta go. Don't care if a guy or girl watches. If they don't want to see it don't look. Lol.

  • I don't mind it, as long as he is not a femboy, a masculine gay guy is okay for me.

    • Why would that make a difference?

    • Because I can't tolerate guys who act like girls

    • Oh okay. I guess that makes sense, like not wanting a girl roomate.

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