Straight one on one sex become boring now?

The world is now open for sexual experiments so the simple one on one couple sex becomes boring.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Sexual energy is part of life energy, Nature has made sex most enjoyable and pleasant activity between male and female with a purpose of encouraging them to produce babies to keep life everlasting on Earth. Sexual energy is part of life energy. Because of pleasure, we have converted sex in primarily a recreational activity, and do not mind for expression of affection in a committed relationship, or nature’s assignment to keep life everlasting on earth or anything more. If you are feeling like sex is boring in your relationship, there may actually be something deeper at play. The truth is, there is no such thing as sexual boredom, but it is uncomfortable feelings coming up. The brain does this nifty trick of bypassing uncomfortable feelings and going straight to “boredom.” Boredom in the bedroom can be about a variety of things. It can mask unresolved conflict, power struggles, laundry lists of resentments, depression, complacency, unsatisfactory birth control, feeling unappreciated, fear of rejection, lack of confidence, or other such vulnerabilities. In fact, lack of emotional connection can lead to sexless marriages. “Boredom” is a signal to put some conscious efforts to step into the emotional unknown and take a risk, whatever that may look like. Look into your lover’s eyes during sex, have a “state of the union” conversation about your sex life together, and reveal more of yourself. Being able to settle your emotional discomfort facilitates expression, which in turn supports trust and commitment in your relationship. Commit to continued emotional growth. “Boredom” indicates that something is wrong, and you need to pay attention. When you show up for yourself and allow yourself to feel what you have not allowed yourself to feel, you automatically show up for your lover, too, making real contact and exchanging energy. Try to be more comfortable than more intense eroticism and intimacy. To have more intense sex, you have to be open to your own emotional development. What makes sex not boring is the quality of presence people bring to it. Eroticism is in the “being,” not the “doing,” of sex.

    • full sex class!

  • No not really different strokes for different folks

Most Helpful Guys

  • If this is true, it is something that I as a Christian have come to expect, because "They exchanged the truth of God for the lie, and worshiped and served the creature rather than the Creator... For this reason God gave them up to vile passions... their women exchanged the natural use for what is against nature. Likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust for one another, men with men committing what is shameful, and receiving in themselves the penalty for their error which was due."(Romans 1:25-27).

    • too religious! I am not!

  • I prefer one on one sex. There’s less of a chance of being stabbed. There’s not no risk of being stabbed just less of a risk. It’s much higher if you’re having a threesome or foursome and the other dude gets mad because you came inside his wife or girlfriend and that’s strictly forbidden.

    • take the risk! LOL

    • But I’ve already been stabbed 4 times on different occasions. I can’t risk a 5th time.

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  • "... it's complicated..." is the relationship status you put in your bio.

    With your views on intimacy with your partner, no wonder it is complicated because you are heading straight for cheating on your partner/boyfriend/girlfriend.

    Most of the time, the one or the other party is fed up with normal, every day sex and that is when people start cheating because they are not satisfied.

    Rather than to communicate with the partner, they find it easier to find a substitute and thus to be unfaithful to the partner. All that because sex has become such an important issue that rules the relation and people's lives...

    • sounds great knowledge in 19!!!

  • Only for couples that do not talk, communicate and view sex as purely physical.

  • One of the reasons why couples hardly ever last a year. People are getting dumber and dumber, and consistently more perverted.
    Sexual perversions make one's sex life exciting, but when it becomes a staple in one's life, that's when failure slithers in.

  • I doubt most people would agree with that

  • I am satisfied with one on one sex. Sometimes it does get predictable but it is always enjoyable.

  • nah, its the only interesting one tbh.

  • Sorry - not the way God designed things.

  • alright

  • I'm going to guess you lost your virginity around 16 or 17

  • Yak specially after watching porn

    • My wife she had cheated on me