Guys, Straight or Gay?

[Blaaam87]

I’m dating this guy and we have been having some different conversations on different topics. He didn’t wanna tell me this so early on but I kinda forced him. He told he has hypersexual whatever problem and he enjoys fisting himself often. I never even knew what that was and it has terrified me. Is he bi sexual and not telling me? He said this started as a young young kid. I never heard of kids doing such a thing in my life. He said he has never been sexual abused either. Then he dated a girl as teenager who participated in that activity with him a couple times and he liked it he said. I will have no part in such. This isn’t normal is it for so called straight men wanting that and liking that? I’m just speechless

[Twalli]

The male g spot is the prostate. It is only accessible through the asshole. Just like stimulating your g spot feels good, stimulating our's also does. It's not too uncommon for guys to like things up their ass to stimulate it. Plenty of straight guys like it. I'm not sure about anal fisting, but something up there to stimulate the prostate doesn't mean you're gay.

[The_Inquisitor]

god you are toxic i hope that man finds a good women in his life because you are definitely not it sis

jesus your 33 grow up, sexuality is not something to be feared. Homosexuality has existed thousands of years before the fucking bible before most religions, people need to chill out with the "This is gay" bs

[Blaaam87]

You talk very sweet and seem like a nice lady someone wants around lol I was just wondering if this was something straight so or no sexual men do... that’s all You should be the one chilling out and not getting so excited lol

[Rainbow_Boy]

You're right. In my view, sex acts are hardly isolated events, so they make far more sense within a broader context. This discussion about straight men enjoying anal penetration has been going on forever with a lot of delusional men professing it is perfectly possible to be straight and enjoy getting fucked in the ass at the same time.

Although no one can argue against such a point in principle, my experience is such that a very large majority of those men who enjoyed anal penetration during their so-called straight days have later turned at least biseuxal, if not gay. I would know that, because I'm a gay man who has come to know many such men in time.

All these said, I should also note that fisting is excessive, whether a man is gay or not. That guy's obsession with it might have some psychological roots beyond his sexual identity/preference.

[Derekk]

It sounds like maybe you're used to some pretty traditional or conservative sexual practices with past partners? I'm not judging you or anything, but frankly if that's the extent of his fetishes, I'd say he's on the tame end of what I'm used to seeing. Sexual orientation isn't determined by practices themselves.

[chriscdi]

tf is hypersexual?

[Blaaam87]

An obsession with sexual thoughts, urges, or behaviors that may cause distress or that negatively affects health, job, or relationships.

[chriscdi]

so he's a sex addict?

[Blaaam87]

Yea I guess What he told me

[chriscdi]

then there you go, you do as you please with that information

[CuriousMufuxka]

Your description is straight up gay!

[Coolmanxl]

Nothing

[Blaaam87]

Nothing what?

[Coolmanxl]

hypersexual look bad

[slow_cooker]

Something that is interesting to note is that a mans "g-spot" is at the back of his prostate, only reachable anally. Men are built to derive great sexual pleasure from it, no matter if they are gay or not. So him liking it does not say anything about his sexual orientation

[Anonymous]

It is better you ask him that is he hyp*sexual or whatever...

[Blaaam87]

Ask what