I think the reason you have this idea of wanting cock in the mouth, but not enjoying it once it's there, is the fact that you have little experience with blow jobs.
Let me put it to you this way. Sometimes the reason we love the act of doing something is the fact that we know we are really good at what we are doing or that we are really doing it well, not just that we like doing it. Maybe once you get more experience and better technique at it, you'll enjoy doing it more. Or, maybe you feel you're not pleasuring him enough or you feel you aren't performing well enough or doing enough. It could just be that you need more experience to be more comfortable with it in your mouth and learn what he loves and what sends him over the edge and such. That adds a lot to the enjoyment of oral if you ask me.
Another thing it could be is that the actually shape or feeling of it in your mouth and how demanding it is on your mouth muscles and such, is uncomfortable to you physically, so the thought of it in your mouth excites you, but the actual physical feeling of performing a blow job is tough for you and not as enjoyable. I've experienced it on some women, going down on her, sometimes you have to unhinge your jaw or get at an awkward or tiring angle, but because that certain angle feels so good for her, you don't want to stop, but your jaw is just aching and getting really tired. Lock jaw can happen. Also, my tongue can only go so fast. But usually I'll just, either use my fingers as well (always actually) and/or suck on the clit in pulses to hopefully either mimic or increase the pleasure that the other motion was doing. Maybe, what you have to do is try giving head in different positions and/or methods, as in, not just sucking the life out of it, but periodically, taking your time to lick up and down the shaft and around the balls and then up around the head. Or even sucking at different tempos or intensities and maybe stroking while sucking or stroking in different ways while licking or sucking. These different methods will give your mouth some rest time or a more comfortable session. Also, you might find something that he really loves that you never discovered before and add this to your repertoire.
It's not easy sometimes, oral sex, but it is really enjoyable.
Maybe the reality just doesn't match the fantasy. Fantasies don't involve the senses like reality does. Perhaps once you are feeling the actual texture, smelling the smell, etc, it makes a difference. I'm not saying that either of those are bad, they just make it a lot more real.
Or maybe he just doesn't react how you want him to, or maybe you feel self conscious about your technique.
Your excitement level is high beforehand. Keep it going during. Try pumping yourself up mentally while you're pleasuring him. Be your own cheerleader. Be happy, positive, encouraging, eager, excited and extremely enthusiastic. I used to think some women in cock sucking and cum swallowing videos were being silly and "hamming it up" for the camera. Now I understand much better. What we're really doing is adding to our own level of enjoyment.
Don't do all the hard work yourself. Let him do some of the work and don't make what isn't hard work into hard work. Suck, lick and stroke his cock. Take breaks. Hand his cock over to him to stroke for awhile, then back to you. Talk dirty to him. It'll make him cum quicker and it'll get your mental motor running too, not just his. I tilt my head back, open my mouth wide, have him stroke his cock and cum into my wide open mouth. He does the hard work and makes it easy and more enjoyable for me.
Experience and comfort level may be a factor. Relax and enjoy yourself. Pleasuring him should be fun and enjoyable, not a chore. I always enjoy swallowing then thoroughly sucking and licking his cock squeaky clean. Enjoying swallowing might take a little getting used to, but it adds accomplishment and tremendous satisfaction.
so i could try thinking about the things that turn me on beforehand? maybe it could turn me on then i will be into it more? what kind of things do you think of?
I can relate to you in terms of 'craving' feeling my boyfriend's dick in my mouth quite often but I usually enjoy it and am turned on by the event as well. The few times that I wasn't were all times where we were short on time or my mind was completely elsewhere and I was pretty much just going through the motions.
See this is an honest answer it's not Anonymous or level one can you make it to where you can't see any level ones or anonymous bulshit
Omg. Girl I'm in the same boat! I get so excited to do it then when it's actually in my mouth I'm over it lol, but my problem is that my jaw just gets tired quickly. Try get him to touch you while you're giving him head, it makes it exciting for both of you then :)
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I am absolutely amazed that women crave to have a penis in their mouth! I wish I understood this.
Replace the image of a penis with a vagina, and you're relate.
@MrMysteryMan No, I can't. I don't crave eating pussy.
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Wish there were more like you out there hahaha.
When you are giving one, you are "working". The task at hand (and mouth) is more important to get right than feeling pleasure.
I think u a guy lol
Dick is not reacting a lot as you imagine, fault of that dick rather than you.
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