Sub or Dom? And is it the same with sexting?

Question

Are you usually the same (sub or dom) when it comes to sexting compared to real life?

Samoht_Sirrom1 · Accepted Answer

Can't really be either typing...

Example...

Slut, I want you to strip naked right now

"Yes Master as you wish"

Now go outside and check your mail

(Wait about 3 minutes)

"I have done as Master has commanded"

Reality of what was happening (Slut, I want you to strip... Sit's watching Netflix "Yes Master as you wish".. Now go outside and check your mail... Goes to the bathroom and returns " I have done as Master has commanded")

In real life (not text)
Slut, I want you to strip naked right now... I'm sure you can tell if this looks/feels or is the same as above...

pierre7i · Accepted Answer

I love to lead in both foreplay & sexual lovemaking, sexting too, but sometimes it's really nice, and very pleasurable, if the girl takes control and rides me and doesn't even stop when I've been milked of every last drop then continues till I'm ready to cum again !

HowAwkwardToBeAlive · Accepted Answer

I’m a switch tbh. But if a guy wants to take on a dom role then I will be sub, but if a guy acts like a sub then I’ll be a dom. When it comes to sexting it’s the same.

Trena_Bell · Accepted Answer

I play true to what my kinks are. I am a sub online and in person, depends on the person if it goes that way with D/s.

MrOracle · Answer

I'm a Dom and that's all I know how to be. I don't have any submissive in me at all - it's either dominance or it's indifference.

Hangry22 · Answer

Sub. Same with sexting

ohshee · Answer

Well I would need to mske it all about you and how many orgasms your going to have so sexting phone Sex real sex I'm taking control and to be honest I have to because it would be a 50/50 chance I would cum to fast if not

Gaurav0047 · Answer

Dom everywhere.

triff · Answer

I'm a Dom 4 years but happy to try being a sub This would depend on you Sexting is ok but if need proof you were doing as instructed What have you done in the BDSM scene or are you a total beginner

4eyes2mouths · Answer

I usually have to do less work being a dom while still getting the most pleasure so I'm usually dom. I've been a sub before and well it's not as fun.

RxMc2401 · Answer

I tend to lean towards dom, but if someone were to be into flipping the roles that’s alright too sometimes.. Guess we’ll have to see what happens 🤷🏻‍♂️😉

Jjpayne · Answer

I'd go with whatever she wanted. And yes, you could totally role play that with sexting and I would again do her preferred version of roleplay

A_Bell · Answer

I am always sub. However I prefer real life to "sexting."

Kaneki05 · Answer

Oh sexting well switch not hard to do when sexting. But IRL i only have experience of been sub so i am comfortable with it and prefer it. And even sexting i still prefer sub.

DevC784 · Answer

Dom always i would say. I guess small forms of sub sometimes, not about to be a little bitch or nothing but if you wanna take over here and there then go for it

E_Z_Z · Answer

dom and yes the same

PhoenixAl · Answer

I'm both since I have 365 different personalities😂

Finchie40 · Answer

I like both but I am more dom, , but every once in awhile I like to be sub , I feel that keeps a relationship healthy

AlexanderAnttila · Answer

Dom. but it might vary in sexting, and sexting only.

nodnol32 · Answer

Sub.

JosyJosy · Answer

Yep the same

Ripper_E · Answer

I can be submissive, but naturally dominant. Sexting is the same. I'm only submissive if a woman wants to be dominant, which I'm okay with. Otherwise, dominant.