Submission... is it weird?

Question

All I want is to be dominated in the bedroom... to relinquish all control to my partner... I want all control taken from me... I can't even properly explain it

Grond21 · Accepted Answer

There's nothing weird or wrong with this. It's very common for a woman to want to relinquish control. Some women want it to the degree you do and some women want it last, but many women have this kind of desire.

Just make sure that when you do it the man you do it to has earned 100% of your trust. More than you would ever trust anyone else in the world. And make sure it's not something that he just recently earned and you've only known him for a short time. He has to prove that he loves you and has your best interest at heart for a very long time. Only then would he be worthy of it

ColHathi · Accepted Answer

I'm into maledom, but I figure that's just some kind of power fantasy, so I could understand someone wanting to be dominant in bed for that particular reason. But I never understood how someone could want to be submissive and have their control surrendered to someone else. 🤔 So I think it's weird, yeah. In that sense.

Of course don't get me wrong. I'm not judging. I don't think less of a submissive person or a person that just likes being submissive in bed, and in fact I just think it's hot.

Berethor · Answer

Most women are naturally submissive so I don't think that it's weird.

Lionman95 · Answer

No it´s not weird. There are many people who are wishing this to happen. But be he reminded that you need to be trusting him completely. Search wisely for the real doms because many guys think they can lead but they´ve never done it before. Look for a kink or fetisch dating app and do some research about signs of a real and good dom.

JaneDoe377 · Answer

I get you. I definitely understand.

wankiam · Answer

its not weird and infact is becoming more and more common for couples to engage in such roleplay scenarios

AlexanderAnttila · Answer

I love that bedroom type in a girl. And it's not weird at all. It's sexually natural.

magiusX26 · Answer

its quite common. besides being dominant, what are you looking for in a man?

NorthwestRider · Answer

Most times my fiancée makes me her submissive bitch and I love it hehe

Skankhunt · Answer

No, it's not weird. It's nomal. Most women are submissive and wants to be dominated in bed.

Wise4myage · Answer

You pretty much did just explain it and that's fine, lol. Its not weird if it turns you on.

Trooper205 · Answer

It's not weird! It's very very common! Even I have lots of Submission in me. I'm a Pleaser. A Giver. I like to submit to my Lover. (At the same time, I LOVE being called Master... So I guess I'm a bit Dominant?)