Suddenly not horny for over a month?

[confizzeledgirl]

I got SUPER horny when we first went into quarantine awhile back. Like, masturbating at least 3-4 times a day. Typically it was more. We’re talking immediately when waking up, again in the shower, a few times throughout the day, and getting off at least twice before going to sleep. However, I realized I haven’t done it in over a month and have had zero desire to. It’s like I forgot it existed. Any ideas why?

[btbc92]

Masturbating is not healthy anyway. I don't care what anybody tells you, not even doctors or so-called experts. The reason being is because you have been forced to feed that it's normal, healthy, etc and you can't LIVE, literally, without it. And if you don't, you religious, defective, asexual, or something is wrong with you. All of which is untrue. So you do it just to fit in with society and to try to find sexual mates IF that is what you want. Your body has learned through your will that it is untrue, and not needed in your life. It's like a smoker or alcoholic finally remembering what life was like before they picked up a cigarette or touched a bottle. They find relief and eventually freedom. You have been so conditioned that you never noticed when you stopped. That's a good thing.

[confizzeledgirl]

I don’t think it’s unhealthy if it’s not taking over your life. Also, pretty sure girls are forced to believe the opposite that it’s not normal and such. No one does it just to fit in lol

[btbc92]

It is unhealthy. It's teaching your body things it's not meant to do. Your hands or whatever that aren't a penis doesn't belong up there. Your vagina have natural nerve endings that remember everything. Your body, like your brain and soul, has its own memory. If sex is what you want, that's what a spouse is for. Not your hand, your mind, or anything else. It messes up not just your body, but your mind. And they have studies to back it up. It messes up your sex life where you can't tell the difference, or you lose satisfaction with who you're with. Sex is supposed to be an expression of love, not pleasure. Because if it wasn't taking over your life, you wouldn't be doing that 3-4 times a day and now wonder why you don't do it anymore or crave it. You have to treat your body like a child. You're giving it 'candy' yet you forgot about cavities, diabetes, etc.

[confizzeledgirl]

We’ll agree to disagree lol

[jayrawke]

Definitely not unhealthy just another important body function and exercise to say it is unhealthy is to b ashamed of yourself and your body do feel ashamed when u shit no you just allow your body to do its required functions and RN in the world its a lot safer than sex

[btbc92]

It's not an important body function, where did you get that from. You going to feel shame because you know that that's not what you're supposed to do. No the required function is not for you to do what you want. Because if that's the case you can't tell a criminal not to kill or still because they only doing what their body functions tell him to do. And it's not a lot safer. I already said before they have studies and statistics to prove this. If you want to do what you want that's you. Where you have problems with others, then don't say you never heard other people with your choices. You are better off single than the mess with other people. You want sex so badly, get a spouse. Otherwise I hope you enjoy having a strunk penis.

[btbc92]

It's not about having shame for yourself. It's about learning to have self-discipline and self-control so that way when you have that kind of intimacy you don't have problems. So unless you don't mind having erectile dysfunctions another problems especially blue balls that's why you have those problems. That's why you become addicted to your hand, that's why you can't stop and control yourself. You are not like this when you were a child, so no it's not. They just tell you to do that and you believe it. If I can go my entire life without doing something like that and never once think about doing that, it says a lot about people. You're going to have your hormones and your urges from time to time. That's something that God had designed. But to masturbate, that's a human choice not just a sin.

[btbc92]

Right now it should teach you to have more respect, love, and self-discipline and self-control for yourself. Not masturbate yourself to death and you want to know why you got problems. This is why I would never be involved with a person who does do it. Because not only are there never going to be sexually happy with you, they never really sexually happy anyway or have in excess. Your teaching yourseld that sex is all about pleasure, is fake and Any body who doesn't please you isn't worth your love or time. And you tell me it's not unhealthy? Even my own father who probably has more sex partners than you can tell you it's not healthy. Helped ruined his marriage and relationships that's for sure and now can't respect most women because of those choices. I know better to resepct my body. You won't die without it and lack of masturbation has more myths than those who are for it. I don't have problems with my body because I never did it. While everybody who had done is or is sexually active is struggling unmarried and noemw has to live those struggles. Life is hard enough. Why do you people make it hard by doing that, is beyond me. Got to laugh at times because your people pretty much to ask for those problems. And all you got to do is just stop. Why complain if you don't want to stop? You get what you paid for.

[CrazyRay43]

OP is an idiot and needs to grow up & learn about sexuality

[btbc92]

Stop calling people idiots and no, you need to go back to school and sexuality. Because you act like you have none.

[btbc92]

Learn sexuality. Sexuality IS YOU and what YOU choose to do with it. Not what other tells you. If you want to be a dog, then act like a dog. Because I'm pretty sure a human knows to behave like a human. There are healthy ways to express sex and that's by sharing it with the person that you love, masturbation is not one of them. Sorry you hate the truth.

[jayrawke]

So everyone that doesn't have someone then what

[jayrawke]

And school doesn't even try to approach the subject of sex outside of anatomy and biology your ignorance is baffling

[jayrawke]

It seems your one of those that are upset because their loved one is enjoying thierself more they are thier spouse on and for one speak for the dogs quit yipping like a little bitch people masturbate its perfectly normal

[btbc92]

Go find somebody to befriend and get to know. Tell them what your intentions are and build a relationship with them. And if they equally share your values and desires, go have that future. Get married. Not that hard. I would be very upset knowing that somebody I love would rather have their hand instead of somebody they would commit you. Of course, school wouldn't talk about it, are they your mommy? No Your there to learn and educate yourself in the things that matter such as getting to college and be a civilized adult ready to work. Not worry about your life. They don't care. Sex education is your parents job. Not the school. It's not ignorance it's common sense.

[btbc92]

first of all you got to enjoy yourself that's a miserable existence. Because that's not what sex is for. Sounds like you're the one that's single and don't have anybody. That's why somebody like you needs to stay single. Because you would just make someone sexually miserable.

[btbc92]

first of all you got to enjoy yourself that's a miserable existence. Because that's not what sex is for. Sounds like you're the one that's single and don't have anybody. That's why somebody like you needs to stay single. Because you would just make someone sexually miserable. Your that angry that you have call somebody named because you literally have no woman? Who's fault is that? Not mine.

[btbc92]

You are 40 years old. The fact that you got to say about me being ignorant is the one that needs to have a laugh at. Says you know nothing about sex, and you definitely know anything about building strong relationships. When you are married, sex in the foundation. That's why they married us off young before 18 and 21. For somebody like you to advocate that masturbation is healthy says a lot about how healthy your mindset is about sex. Which is unhealthy to begin. People who have healthy sex life wants to cling to each other and they want to have sex with each other. Those who are unhappy with their sex life as well as insecure with themselves, if not just miserable, and depressed, tend to rather have masturbation sessions more than they would rather becoming one with the person they claim they love. That's why you don't have sex before marriage and you don't masturbate. Because once you become so conditioned with your hand if not other things you're not going to be able to enjoy real sex with a real flesh and body. It sounds like to me unlike you I have a healthy perception of what sex is, and I'm the one that's a virgin. And just goes to show you obviously must not be really educated, every single time you do when that, you releasing hormones. The more hormones that you released as you get older the more you begin to stop making. Making it less and less for you to enjoy it and your libido drops. Not just because of nutrition, not just because of your environment, or just your mental health, but the very things that you choose to do that's easily preventable. You must have really screwed up your sex-life that badly in order for you to Advocate masturbation 100% and say it's healthy. They have brain scans and studies to show it can and will be destructive eventually the longer you do it. I would not be surprised if somebody did an MRI scan on your brain how much damage has been done.

[btbc92]

is a choice to be single, is a choice to have sex, is a choice to be married. There are plenty of people who was like myself , who would have been more than happy to marry young, have a family and good sex life if they found people who equally wanted that. If others wants to masturbate and screw around then that is their business. God will deal with them and judge them in his time. But when you see others moving on with life and starting families, starting together, don't talk about what is and isn't healthy when you made those choices. and you want to know why you got health problems. Never once, masturbated, and such and always had clean and healthy exams. Even the docs at the gyno office are surprised to know somebody of my age is that healthy, and glad I never did. Many girls and women come in with some type of problems, damage to the vagina, problems in their sex life, or getting pregnant, etc because why? They mastubated, have abnormal sex, other issues, can't enjoy it as good anymore, etc and messed themselves up.

[btbc92]

So I highly suggest you seriously think about that. Seriously think about that before you speak the answers you speak. Because if you ever want to know why a woman is sexually frustrated, frustrated with men., hates having sex, or God forbid wants to cheat, You Now understand why. You should be very happy if a Woman voices her concerns sexually to you. Because if she doesn't it means he's either hiding from you and don't trust you, or she may want to cheat if you haven't already cheated with you with another man. And if you think she's going to tell you she's not going to tell you. Because so many you people are too busy playing games. It is sad that it's only until life bites you in the ass is when you finally start taking life seriously. Be glad I'm telling you this now so you won't have to find out later. You only 40 years old, you don't got too long until you start feeling the effects if you haven't already.

[btbc92]

A person who masturbates is a selfish lover who only cares about themselves and about performance. They don't care about loving you because you have been taught with love is. That's toxic. They know this is destructive, they don't care if it hurts or kills you. Why? Because time you have a health problem and you go to the docs for that $$$. And up dead with an STD, $$$. Listening to relationship, and sex gurus or so called counselors, $$$. Your making them $$$. And they getting rich over your misery while you're constantly getting poor.

[RJJ33666]

Its because in the start your body was getting very anxious which resulted in being extremely horny. But now you have gotten used to your environment to such a level that now you feel like you don't need to masturbate to relieve much stress.

[andy530]

Possibly some feelings of depression due to quarantine

[confizzeledgirl]

Maybe? Hadn’t thought of that.

[andy530]

Yeah I think we all are experiencing a little more depression or anxiety than normal. It can have different effects on us

[confizzeledgirl]

Very true. I think the initial anxiety of it all caused the excessive “I need to get off” initially but then that took a hard turn haha

[andy530]

Yeah that makes sense. I’ve had the opposite experience lol 😂 weird how our minds and bodies react to all this

[confizzeledgirl]

Haha so true!

[andy530]

I just hope we can all get back to normal soon or at least get to a new normal

[confizzeledgirl]

Agreed!!!

[andy530]

It needs to happen soon I may loose my mind lol 😂

[CrazyRay43]

Stress/etc., thinking about other stuff... distractions

[devil_8888]

Maybe you got bored of masturbation.

[confizzeledgirl]

Maybe? Still weird I’m not even horny though