Swallow while giving head?

I want to give my boyfriend head. We're both virgins but I don't know if I should swallow or not? I'm afraid I won't like the taste of it. What does it taste like and should I just swallow? Also how long does it take a guy to cum?
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  • Random thoughts;
    - Swallowing is 10x better for the guy.
    - Swallowing puts you in the top 80% of BJ skill.
    - Putting too much pressure on yourself to swallow can make it harder to swallow. :(
    - There's lots to read on how to do this, assuming you want to. Google to see what seems good for you.
    1) Let saliva build up in your mouth to help dilute the his cum.
    2) Don't linger or think too much about it. Just do it (swallow) when the moment arrives.
    3) Don't let it blast into the back of your throat, you can read about how to manage that.
    4) Prepare for plan B (spitting) with a rag to spit into. This can take some of the pressure off of swallowing. If you spit but hope to swallow in the future, try to swallow some of his cum to get acclimated to the taste and texture. After you spit you could milk out the last few drops of his cum and swallow that. Make sure he sees what's going on so that he can enjoy that and you get credit for swallowing some of his cum.
    It's an acquired taste. :)
    Kind regards,

  • It depends on what he ate before you give him head. If he eats a lot of sweet fruits and low protein/acidic foods, then I think the taste might be better. This is from what I've heard of course. But, if you're not sure, just tell him that you would rather not swallow as it's your first experience and such. He should be alright with your wishes if he cares for you. Then when he cums, you can maybe try a taste and you don't have the whole damn load in your mouth. Then you have a better idea if that is for you. Most women who do it, it's not the taste they like swallow for, it's the clean up, and the fact that they are pleasuring their man. It's more of a care thing than the fact that it's delicious or something. Kind of like when a girl cums while giving oral and I still keep sucking/licking

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  • Since my first bj I've always swallowed and not had an issue with it. If you spit you hold it in your mouth anyways so why not just swallow it and be done with it. Every guy tastes different my boyfriend has an odd taste because he eats lots of hot peppers and garlic. I usually swallow it as I'm sucking him and he's coming so the action of you swallowing will feel good to him, you swallow the cum as its coming out so not tasting much. I was always afraid that it's really slimy and that would be gross but there's been a few times I couldn't swallow right away and it was no different than having saliva in my mouth and the taste isn't really anything very noticeable, I mean like yeah it has a taste but it's nothing super horrible or anything. Maybe you guys could masturbate together and when he cums you could get a little on your finger and try it to see what it's like.

    • Do you swallow because you like it or you want to satisfy your boy? :D

    • @Dexamethasone I guess I do it mostly to satisfy him. It doesn't really matter to me if he cums in my mouth, on me or inside me. I only have a rule of not cumming on my face and he doesn't do it so all is good.

  • Not all guys cum at the same time. Some take longer. He's a virgin so maybe it won't take too long. Could be around 15 minutes or less.

    The taste.. Depends on his diet. They say fruits make it taste better. If he drinks or smoke it won't be the same. The times I've swallowed I tasted a salty flavor twice.. Once it was kinda acid, and other time it didn't really have a flavor. I've never swallowed a sweet load lol guess it's not that sweet or common.

  • Every guy is different, some can cum very easily, others can hold out. You can swallow if you'd like, it's not going to taste like candy but you just swallow it and get it over with to satisfy your man. If it makes you feel better have a water or a drink ready to take a sip of after you swallow to wash down the taste.

  • Here is my advice, try it at least once and remember the taste can be different every time even with the same guy, keep him off the coffee and feed him some pineapple just a couple hours before hand, it will sweeten it up a lot, do not let him eat onions or asparagus before you try this.

  • OK, y'all. The average volume of ejaculate is between 3 and 4 cc.

    That means that to fill a single soda can, you would have to collect the cum of 100 men.

    You see where I goes with this.

    • Lol! To the coca-cola bottling plant? Where do you go with this?

    • @Viperkiss Meaning, it's 1/10 of a freaking ounce, so let's not be beside ourselves about the taste of it. It will mostly taste like a bunch of nothing.

    • @Viperkiss No, the Dr. Pecker bottling plant. :-D

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  • Simply give head. Don't trying to make it as a special occasion kind of thing. It might take a guy from 5 mins to cum to few hours (all depends on your skills as well)

  • Don't spend the time tasting it. When you have him just about ready to pop have the head of his penis in your mouth sucking along with stroking his shaft and as he pops just swallow straight down.

  • Just swallow it
    Spitting takes the charm out of it

  • Your going to taste it either way. Don't spit it back on him I'll tell you that much

  • Humm, if it is your first time I'd probably say spit it out. I've had girlfriends swallow and they think it is sexy to do that, but they'd done it before and were used to it. Just my opinion. If you decide to spit it out, I'd say tell your b/f ahead of time so he knows you've planned it that way and you've not doing it because it tastes bad.

  • You probably won't like the taste of it. And the duration depends on the guy. If it's pretty bad, you can always have a tissue ready to spit it out, your boyfriend ought to be understanding that it doesn't taste that great.

    • I've heard it tastes like salt water? Is this true?

    • I don't taste myself so I'm not sure. I would understand if someone didn't want to swallow it though, I've heard the taste greatly depends on what you eat that day.

    • My mother once told me that in her experience it tastes somewhat like "rice cake", but she doesn't like rice cake. Yes, I asked, and she answered. I think she's pretty cool, lol.

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  • Swallowing is accepting and awesome, guys don't spit the pussy juice so I don't think girls should spit the load, it's a bit of a slap in the face.

  • Each guy's tastes different, and each guy takes a different amount of time to cum. You'll almost certainly know when he's about to. You really won't know about the taste until you try it. You can Google for foods he can eat to make his semen taste better.

  • Tbh, I'm sure you've choked down much worse things before.

  • It takes different amounts of time for different guys and we all taste different.

  • I saw you said you heard cum tastes like salt water...
    Not that I know myself, but I've been told some guys taste very salty, others bitter, some sweet and some cum that doesn't taste like much.

    I've been told mine tastes pretty good buy most girls, and i've tried it myself in the heat of the moment too
    i thought mine didn't taste like much, as I drink a ton of water.. so yup :)

  • Entirely up to you if you swallow.

    I'm told the taste depends on what he's eaten recently: dairy makes for a bad taste, pineapple not so much. So see if you can get him to eat appropriately for a few days before the event.

    "How long does it take a guy to cum? Depends so much
    a. ... are you meaning from the time you start sucking him? If so, probably several minutes

    b. If you mean from when he does the first spurt, then several seconds.

    But only do it if you want to: an enthusiastic and well-done hand job is preferable to a poor blowjob.

  • Spitters are quitters

  • i would be happy either way, and it depends on the guy for how long he lasts

  • Best advice I can give is just do it. Don't think about it just swallow

  • Having tasted my own ( hope not tmi), it tastes quite bitter. I heard that if he eats pineapples, it can taste better. If you swallow, do so quickly. That's a huge turn on for guys, it's like your really accepting us sexually, like all of us. It's up to you if you spit, swallow, or pull out.

  • Absolutely you should

  • I'd imagine you have to taste it much longer spitting than swallowing. So that idea never made sense to me.

    Look, you do what you're comfortable with but seeing how you're obviously open to both alternatives: You normally score a few plus points for swallowing and having firsthand experience beats relying on us. Give it a try. If you don't like it, then spit in the future. Your call. Or you know, feed him fruits and healthy stuff and have him taste like candy.

    As for how long it takes that isn't answerable. I personally can take anywhere from a single minute to, well, not being physically able to be brought to the point where I ejaculate (never-mind you, I'll be hard and have orgasms all the same).
    Normal is probably around 5-15 minutes for the majority of guys though. But just try to enjoy the experience. That's the best way to make it good for us by the way.

  • I can never swallow. It tastes BAD. Maybe it's the texture. I always gag and think I'm going to throw up. 😂

    • awe... how many guys you tasted? if you prefer to message me go for it :)

    • @CaliSoccerFella a couple

  • You probably won't like the taste. Find out yourself. But you're supposed to do this to please your guy, first off. How long it will take depends on your guy. If he is super horny he can cum in less than 30 seconds. Otherwise you'll have to work on it more. And whatever you do, be careful of your teeth. Use a lot of lube or spit.