Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Talking into oral sex?
DeekLTD Xper 1
Hey girls. I found myself in a beautiful relationship. As we were trying out things I stumbled upon a weakness. A weak gag reflex. Pressure on my tongue makes me react bad and my girl HATES that for obvious reasons. So now I want to try again with different means like applying flavoured lube or something aromatic in general to make it easier. I want to make that idea sound less offensive. Meanwhile I'm slowly working on my gag reflex daily while brushing my teeth. We generally have very good communication but this is different. What should I do?
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What Girls Said
(3)Pardon me but I don't really know what you are actually talking about. I fear that it must be about pornography since you placed your question under the "Sexuality/Pornography" topic. Unless of course, GaG (once again) randomly placed your question under that topic. If that is the case, then let me know and I can change the topic and put your question under the correct topic.
Since you are referring to brushing your teeth and your gag reflex, then I presume it must be related to health issues. If you wish, let me place your question under that topic. Just say the word.
Now, I don't really know why your girlfriend would hate some affliction about your weak gag reflex. I mean, it is not as if she has to suffer from it herself.
I presume that you can train your gag reflex but best would of course to seek medical help from a specialist, in your case most probably a specialist in otolaryngology. I see that he would be the most suited to look into your issue. Good luck.
Okay so I am not sure why this is girl's only question. Seems like guys would have much better advice for you since this is not something that we do, unless someone responds that is bi or lesbian.
As for the actual problem, it may not be something you can fix. That is your bodies natural reaction and something unlikely to go away. I do not know that flavour lube or whatever else you are going to try is going to make a difference.
What you are describing is a physical reaction. Making something taste like something else is not going to fix that. My best advice is focus on the other parts of intimacy. You cannot change who you are and she should not expect you to.
Honestly, I do not know from a medical standpoint if this is something that is actually curable or something that is able to be changed/learned. I would guess no, but I could be wrong.
I'm new on this, this only shows up on girls? I thought everyone can see that but it's preferred girls. I'm not ready to give up on something exciting like that. Made it girls only for your perspective on being asked from your partner something like that.
If my partner had an issue doing something intimate, I would not expect him to do it. Everyone has their limitations, whether that be a boundary of what someone will/will not do or a physical one, like in your case. Again, not sure this physical reaction you have that is involuntary can be solved. You might be better off using your favourite search engine and seeing if there are any tips/tricks.
I would assume that is something that can't be fixed.