Teasing has long since been seen as a province of women who wield the power of sex like an iron fist and can use it to bring even the toughest man to his knees. But I propose, Gentlemen, that not only in spite, but because of this a man who knows how to properly tease his lady is often devastating. Teasing is obviously a light form of manipulation. It's playful and unserious. But, of course, without the context of a man who simply wants to have fun and give a girl some great orgasms it can be seen as dishonest. If this is how you think, consider cultivating a more playful attitude towards love and sex. Here are some tips to get started teasing.
Freezing Hot
You both walk inside the house. You're alone. While she's putting down her Bloomingdales bag suddenly she's found you're pinning her against the railing maybe picking her up, making out with her and biting her neck as your hand moves up past her thigh up the side of her body. You're pressing your body against hers and then---you stop. You walk away without a smile but also without much emotion at all. You simply just go sit on the couch, while she stands there all hot and bothered. Eventually she comes to check on you slowly still wanting more passion to continue. Once she's near you, you pull her down to the couch and you give it to her.
Why it works: Getting her blood pressure up only to dash away too suddenly without her coming down creates a stronger desire to finally get it since it's withheld. It's a careful push and pull of negative emotions of lack and positive emotions of finally attaining it. This is a simple way of making so when she gets she's licking her lips she really wants it. She loves it.
Hot Breath
A woman's body is very sensitive. Breath is the obvious choice to lightly mist her body when it's primed for more than that. Breathe hot over neck before you bite it, breathe over her breast before you lick it, beathe over her vagina before you even think about putting your tongue inside it. She's thinking about it now, she's craving it now, she's building it up in her head. Dim the lights--just a touch away from a full black out.
(Semi Advanced) Leave an opening
This assumes you know how to eat a girl out. If you don't then I wouldn't suggest teasing her this, but if you do while you're eating her out use two fingers to open her vagina wider than you honestly need it to be. The emptiness of her vagina (negative space for you photo geeks) creates a thirst for something to fill it with more than just your lips and tongue. While we've all had that experience of working on a girl's box only to have her rip your head up and demand you give her dick before you've finished your masterpiece, it's important that she's always craving more of you than she's getting until you're ready for her to orgasm. As you eat her out using this method, she'll imagine being filled all the way up by your dick.
Cock it and pull it
Simple technique: first rub it against the outside while you stare at her with those "you're gonna' get wrecked look" then put in just the head then pull it out do this a few more times until you feel she can't take it then shove it all the way in fast.
Oh, wait!
This can take some intuition and practice, but having decent or great sex and getting close to orgasm only to jump up, start getting dressed, and saying you have got to get somehwere before it's too late (make something up.) Then one of two things will happen: out of nowhere she'll jump on your back as your heading towards the door, pin you to ground, pull down your jeans, and ride you until she's gotten what she needs (no, Sarah, not this way!!!) OR she'll wait for you to get back and at that point it's pretty hard for the sex not to be phenomanal. The build up alone might be able to carry you.
What are we doing?!
The last teasing technique involves a man who's not afraid of a little risk and danger. Using the aformentioned technique, but take her with you. She'll be in such a state that it will be all she can do not to rip your jeans off in the middle of the mall you've forced her to go with you to. Anytime a woman is horny in an envioroment that doesn't allow for it is an oppurtunity for some really hot sex. The popular ones are a dressing room, an empty classroom, an airplane bathroom, but this is where you can get really creative. I've tried having sex with a girl under the bleachers back when i was in high school thinking it'd be an automatic no only to find out she was more into it than i was with her thinking it was the sexiest thing while I was there petrified someone would walk over and honestly half wanting to stop. Some magic words to use when doing it let's say in her best friend's bed is "we shouldn't be doing this, baby, they trusted us. We're bad." The idea of passion overtaking logic is a genderless convention and trait. This is not strict teasing, but is in the sense that the envioronment is telling her no you shouldn't do this which makes doing it anyway wrong in the right ways.
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