Tell me about it?

[Anonymous]

Tell me about your friends with benefits experiences, your views and if you recommend it. I want to try it!

[Kreneman]

I have done that multiple times and I don't recommended because you can get your feelings hurt, pregnancy, STDS, hurt the other person's feelings, drama, or etc. My first experience was very wild with my female friend because we were doing lot of things as a couple, the moment I started to have feelings, she look at me weird, and didn't feel the same for me because I was very young (I was 18 and she was 24). In then when I started to just enjoy the benefits, she started talking foul to me that I was taking advantage of her despite the fact that she consent of doing these things with me. When I learned that she wasn't my type and I stop getting the benefits with her, she felt hurt and began to blame me on why don't have feelings for her, so we stop talking to each other because of her issues. My second experience, female friend was married and she didn't tell me (I gotcaught up in her drama), my third experience, female friend was never interested and she was getting around where she wanted me to wait for her and I didn't.

[ViceGAG]

Why did the married one cheat? Did you ask her?

[Kreneman]

@ViceGAG She was physically, mentally & verbally abuse by her husband and mother in law. Her husband and herself were struggling financially and they were staying with her mother in law which she didn't like her. I witnessed her mother law physical attacking her and telling her not to see her three children. She moved in with her Friend from college. I was surprised when I found out about this.

[ViceGAG]

Sorry to hear that, man.

[Kreneman]

@ViceGAG Thanks, but I moved on and change dramatically. Now I'm engaged to a beautiful woman.

[Brando10222]

Even though its your friend with benefit he can still have sex with someone else without your permission. It can make you feel like you are not good enough. That's one of the things.

[Anonymous]

I mostly do this, saves a lot of hassle having to deal with boyfriends and you don't have some guy hanging around all the time. Sometimes that's nice, sometimes I need some space. I'm much younger than you so when I'm your age I might want to settle down more, but if you want friends with benefits I wouldn't blame you a bit at any age.

[BJP21]

Keeping yourself emotionally neutral if that makes sense. Enjoy it for the casual sex that it is.

[9214xs]

I would recommend it. Some people on here are prudes but fact is it’s your body and if you want to have some casual fun that’s your right!

You don’t have the obligations and hassle of a relationship but all the sex you want so it’s great to give it a try. One tip is to find a guy with a dealbreaker for you so you know you won’t catch feelings.

[Shamalien]

It’s not being a prude to not want friends with benefits man…

[9214xs]

As I said some people, not ALL people

[Shamalien]

You should also warn her of the potential dangers of friends with benefits

[9214xs]

@Shamalien there’s dangers with everything in life lol

[Shamalien]

Some things more than others

[Anonymous]

Its the guy u dont love u just feel safe with