Tell me some things about guys erection?

I'm with my boyfriend for some time now, and I was just wondering if it's normal for a guy to have an erection everytime we kiss. Or sometimes, even when we talk he has an erection. I know it happens a lot but I don't know if it is so often. He is my first true relationship, cause I wasn't really into most of the guys that liked me, so I don't know much about those stuff.
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  • If he has stopped masturbating, and you aren't sexually active yet, then it would make sense for him to get an erection every time you kiss.

    However, if you have been having sex with him, then they shouldn't be popping up as often as they are - unless he has an abnormally high sex drive.

    • Well we're not sexually active yet, we had tried some stuff though. But I don't really know if he stopped masturbating to be honest.

  • If he's excited about seeing you and finds you attractive... then yes it would be normal for him to get "excited".

    From your profile age... I assume he is in his late teens/early 20's... anything arousing can give a guy that age an erection.

    • Yeah you're right, he's 21 :) Thanks for answering!

    • No problem... I can remember (barely LOL) when I was around that age and the scent of her hair or her slightly brushing against me would put me at full salute.

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  • With my boyfriend its the same! when we kiss and we're making out he gets all excited and i dont know, its kinda sweet because im the one that is making him feel that way. Its like a compliment lol

    • Haha yes Ik, I felt good as well, that he feels that way about me and it shows :)

  • It doesn't even have to be touch! This guy n I could be next to each other and just flirting n he'll get hard. Once we hand hold n stuff it just adds to it, lol.

    • Good to know!; )

  • Yes, guys can get (just like us) turned on by touch, some easier than others. When guys get turned on, they get an erection. He finds you sexy

    • Haha that's good then, thank you: )

    • no problem

  • when you get older, you will only dream of that happening...

    • Hmm yeah I guess so :)

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  • Yes, it is perfectly normal. Guys can not control it in any way, shape or form.

  • That's normal. He's still sensitive and alive. Worry when a boyfriend doesn't get that :)

    • Yeah, that's true: )

  • It's definitely normal and common for him to get an erection just from kissing you, or even just from sitting close to you with his arm around you.

  • Early on, yes, it is.

  • When he talks he has an erection? Is is only when he talks to you or when he talks to any other girl?

    • Well when we're sitting close to each other but not doing anything more, he sometimes does. I can't really know about that, but I have seen him talking with other girls and one time I tried to notice at least, I didn't see anything.

    • Man has mild erections all the times ( may be 6 to 20 times a day) even if he doesn't think about sex. He may not even know about his erections. It is a natures way to keep his precious muscle erect. Just the way , the women's nipple becomes sensitive and erect from time to time during the day. But when he has sexual urges , his dick becomes a little bit harder or may even go out of control. Certain mental impulses when they happen suddenly cannot be controlled immediately , even if you want to do it. In this case , I think your man loves you , so he is feeling a little bit aware and that shows by way of his erection. treat him kindly. He really seems to love you dearly. If you feel irritated or uneasy by that , tell him to wear a nice tight well fitting underwear. The erection showing out through his pants will be taken care of to a great extent.

  • It is normal, he is a normal guy no gay no limp dick guy. I get horny same way just by touching or kissing dick goes very hard

  • Guys can sometimes get erections very easily and it's spontaneous not something we have any control over.

  • Yes it's normal and it means he really likes you.

  • I get one just from being touched by a woman , embrace it enjoy it , he's telling you he likes you

  • Thats very normal.

  • you should act on it and ask if he wants a blowjob or something like that when he get's hard

    • I am kind of worried cause I don't really have that experience and don't quite know what to do.. but I will try to. :)

    • watch some porn on that exact topic to learn from I learned from open I never got the bird and the bee's talk

    • porn* not open stupid auto correct

  • He probably thinks you look really good.